Enjoy and take the good

Leave the rest, it's not worth the pain/frustrations!!!

Yes life is so simple without men!!

Loving your new avatar AA, my fav lady

Well no wonder you feel like he despises you...how long have you been playing games with him?

These things can be almost irreversible if you don't quit now. Try taking a breather, giving him some time out and keep you silly friends out of it!

Maybe you might be able to salvage something but I think you need to assess exactly the way he sees you and what you have portrayed yourself to be in his eyes first!

You don't!

You let him know you are interested and it's alright for him to approach you. Don't take the fun out of the chase for him or you...

I've seen both cases and always gave a 2nd thought but thats about it. Beauty fades but someone that makes you laugh and treats you well and has a great personality you will stay with longer...plus beauty is in the eye of the beholder...so who are we to say that they aren't what the other person sees?

As for the gay guy...you except it or you don't for whatever reason. I've been attracted to women but I'm not gay...there are butch woman out there that are hetro and guys that look gay but aren't.

I know a guy that I swore was gay even though he was married and had a wife that is now deceased and has two teenage children...he's been single for nearly 10 years after his wife died and chases woman. Is he ignoring his calling because of morals or has he just got more feminine genes than masculine?

Looks more like he likes you but lacks confidence with you for what ever reason...why do you think that is?

lol KOL!

If he likes you, you'll catch him sneaking looks at you and then looking away. We are shy and less confident when we really like someone...not our usual smart confident selves.

If he despises you it's because you have done something that totally goes against his morals/beliefs and you'll know without a doubt. He'll be short with you and it'll be hard to hide the disgust he feels if he even has to talk to you. He'll try not to look at you even if you are asking him something directly or evade the question altogether!

Head High!!

I barely use it actually....the more natural look is me Thanks to my asian genes.

Fair bit on you my friend

All I know is I'm Irish through my Pawww carry an Irish name and have to go to the Pub for an Ale or 3 every St Paddy's Day

Lighten up AA...I'm sure you'd nestle in there...hell even I would if I wasn't allergic to strawberries

Why thank you sir...

Top of the Evening to you, enjoy an ale with me tonight