Posted by GenerousLeeb
So recently my Leo friend got engaged to someone we both studied with back in school, in other words a mutual friend, a Sagittarius.
No before I knew about this, I occasionally talked to this Sag as friends, nth more. And he told me about how difficult life had been for him, and that he suffered from anxiety and was taking medication for that.
Now when my friend broke the news about their engagement, it took me off guard cause I didn't even know they were dating much less to be engaged, but that's not the issue here, while we were talking I asked her how she felt about his anxiety issues, and to my surprise he didn't say anything about this.
I feel like I made a huge mistake by telling her, but at the same time I believe he should have told her that, as it is an important detail in one's life to share with a future partner.
She also was surprised when I let her know we were talking.
Was that a mistake?
I've been avoiding her since all this happened, not sure what to say or do.

Are you and he in the same country/state? Just wondering if he reached out to you online to see if there was a connection with you first before he connected with her?

And for everyone attacking you because you’ve discussed this with your friend, would they rather if their friends knew something about someone they are going to marry keep it hidden??? Tbh, I wouldn’t call you all friends if that were the case! If I’m about to fall if there is a possibility, please try and stop me!

You are the type of people that keep the secret when you’ve found out your friends partner is cheating on them because you’re scared of the fall out for yourself!

Posted by LadyNeptune
It really depends on where you live.
For example my sister is in rural Colorado where they have like 3 cases total. She wears a mask when in the grocery store or at work (which she does anyways pre-pandemic) but isn't too bothered by it. Neither should she be.

Whereas where I live we have now 1500+ new cases per day. And with the delta variant you better believe I am wearing my mask. Even outdoor meetings where we have more than 6' apart. If people try to give me shit I just say I live with someone who has underlying heath issues and am being cautious for their sake. That shuts them up real quick.

Being vaccinated is not a pass go collect 100 $ . A few of my friends (all vaccinated) went to Vegas a few weekends ago and came home with the delta variant. Yikes!

How did it affect them now that they are vaccinated? Was it as severe or are the symptoms less? How long did it knock them about for? Breathing issues?

Bit late but can you state your countries that you live in. In Australia, we’re only at 11% fully vaccinated.

Peanut butter and banana on toast
Jam and cheese
Green apple and salt
Pineapple and salt

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gem03
I just asked abt Leo sun taurus moon men but why is me being a virgin such a big deal???

Its not a big deal.
But sadly there are men out there that will view you as a challenge because your a virgin. Next time I'd say keep this information to yourself until you know the person better and can adequately judge whether they are a douchebag or not.

click to expand

This ^^^ and the big deal maybe your naivety. That’s not an insult btw, it’s a big world out there.

How old are you?

We can do it when you’re comfortable??? Why does he presume you are going to have sex with him?

Be careful love, that to me screams of someone that holds no respect to the fact that you haven’t just jumped in bed with anyone or found the one.

Yes trust yourself and take it slow. You don’t want to be a notch on someone’s belt.

That’s probably the worse thing about being single… it can be a long time between drinks 🤤

Over here, there are a few people that work in the outback. One of my friends works 2 weeks on 2 weeks off but some have 3 n 1. We call them fifo “ fly in fly out”

I often think, that would suit me too a tee, someone that was here 2 n 2 🙂

Gives time for yourself and then quality time with them.

Posted by DMV
I also think it’s very brave to admit you get lonely. Most are too proud to admit it.

Same here.

Same, I always say. I’m never alone but sometimes I can feel lonely.

It’s a bit of the grass is greener though.

I do love my life and not answering to anyone and just doing whatever I want when I want. Only accountable to myself.

Then, I look at my friends that are couples and there are some things that are nice but then I remember the “me” in a relationship and I much prefer the “single me”

You were in a relationship with him for 3 years and he didn’t choose to marry you, instead he married someone else while he was still in a relationship with you.

My question would be why are you still there? Kick his arse to the curb as he did yours. Nothing good is going to come from entertaining him and his woe is me life.

He’s ok, sort of, he’s been in touch with the bf but trying to put it on him saying that he’s the one that cut him off. I’ve seen that behaviour with other bf’s that he’s had. He treats them so well until he doesn’t.

He also has a few family members there which have reached out to him.

I’ve heard some stories which are out of character though and for him to cut me and his aunt who is another really close friend is really out of character. We are his family/friends here in Auss if he ever wants to come back.

The bf, even though his heart is breaking is strong. And yes @DMV he does need to learn how to navigate life. He parties and drinks like there’s no tomorrow. He needs to adult and get back to work and a normal life. This is where my scales swing, that, and the lost boy I spent the night with in the hospital at rock bottom. He never did address the real issues back then.

Just ask for a real one.

I don’t know why you keep calling her your friend??

Friends are people you trust and have your back through everything… not people lurking in your life waiting to drop you at any chance they get!!

And before making anymore excuses, you are the one that is suspicious of her!

He’s one of my bffs, he’s 30 this year and been through a lot in his life. Just before covid, he took himself off to the hospital after downing a bottle of whiskey during the day. That day, I knew things weren’t adding up and kept ringing him until he answered and let me in. Long story short, he came home with me and stayed for a couple of weeks before returning to our home land and where his family live. From there, he seemed to recover, came back here, got a job, lost it again due to covid. Got a bf move back home, split with the bf, moved back again during 2020 and found love again.

His bf was the best ever, all our friends love him and he seemed too as well. They were living in separate cities in Australia but my friend left his job to move up north to be with him. Then all of a sudden he books a flight back home… that was 8 weeks ago!

He’s gone AWOL. Won’t answer anyone’s calls or messages, has gone off social media or remains low, not posting or liking anything.

My friend has a few flaws as we all do but his biggest is he lies. The lies are generally about boosting himself in others eyes about his finances mostly. My other friend and I have enabled him by not calling him out on it, instead just rolling our eyes so to speak.

Anyway, I don’t know where he’s at? He’s never cut us off like this before and I’m trying to understand why?

Is he depressed again and running from everyone. (this guy makes new friends easily, people take him into their lives very easily-just one of those lovable people that you want around and even when you’re mad at him you just want to hug him)

Any insight to how Virgos think? Tbh, I believe he’ll just all a sudden contact me randomly and come up with another bs story as to why he hasn’t but I am worried and I do miss him… even though I want to kick him because I’m annoyed! My scales are tipping daily on this.

Is the Virg guy that answered questions around??

October 9th

Can you explain Independence Day? It’s not the first I’ve heard of it but I’ve never really looked into what it was about. I imagine it’s similar to Waitangi Day in NZ and Australia Day in Auss.

I could Google it now but I’d rather hear your take on it. Oh and do you know what those days are about?

20+ pages are for the crazies anyhow

Youre official Now, you’ve got the attention of the monarchy around here 😉

Posted by Virgodvn

Posted by Undine

Posted by Virgodvn

Posted by DonnaLibra
Maybe he wasn't so keen on the sex and isn't in a hurry for a repeat. I always tell girls if you are going to have early sex with a guy make sure you give him something he won't forget anytime soon. Otherwise you may be looking at a ghost.

I don't think tha t was the problem to be honest...

Don’t even think about the sex! People saying such things probably don’t remember how awkward their first time with someone new was. Second date it is early, but not “too early”, considering that the majority are doing it on a third date.

I suggest you ask him directly about meeting this Saturday. Perhaps he gave you space, because you practically asked for it, saying you were busy. Perhaps he has something planned for this Saturday, and feels conflicted, to cancel or not to cancel. Or perhaps he realised you are not the one for him, which has something to do with his personal preferences, rather than being a negative reflection on you, or your behaviour. If you want to know the answer, ask him directly, without hesitation.

Yes you are right, it's better to ask directly and to know where I stand... But somehow I already know that probably he is not interested anymore from how he is reacting. I feel a little disappointed because I think it was an act from the start.. But it's my fault for trusting too early.. Another lesson learned 🙁

click to expand

Sounds like his end goal was sex to me and he got that. They (some guys) pull out all the stops to get what they want and then pull back. I believe, Your instincts Are on point!

How about just take it for what it is, you both are interested in each other enough to explore. Stop trying to read into him so soon and go on a date and see how you get along. It’s almost like you are trying to read a crystal ball and know where it’s going before it’s even begun. The problem with this is you’re looking for all the negatives first. Let your guard down and go with the flow!