Thanks Nef, I followed it a aPP last night but didn't see the toenails til now

Yes I do, if there is indecision for any reason give me space especially if I have asked for it. I will get back to you when I am ready and have sorted through it, don't make the mistake of trying to force me to hurry up...

Each to their own, if you prefer prostitution and possible risks of diseases and death because you think using an imitation method is vile, more power to you!

I have a gf that lost her childhood sweetheart to cancer 2 years ago, they were together over 20 years, remarried before he died and had a 2nd honeymoon. they also have two children together. She is still young in her mid 40's and within a year she was dating again and now living with another man very similar to her husband.

She simply just couldn't be alone...it's been rough and she has had a lot of people putting in their 2 cents worth including her children but she has chosen to live her life the way she wants. The man that she is with is a lovely guy and he takes back seat still to the husband as he lives in their home with the 2nd full sized wedding picture displayed in the living room, associates with their friends that are always remembering him and even has his ashes in the same room that they sleep in!!

She just simply cant be on her own, some people are like that... she is very happy and has something to live for again?


I on the other hand lost the person that I thought I would spend the rest of my life with...although I have moved on and had other partners, I have not stayed with anyone for any length of time and I'm doubtful that I will find someone again. I don't need someone to make me feel whole, if they should come around I hope that I aren't too closed off to recognise him.

It really comes down to the person in question, some people just have to have someone and others are quite happy and alright on their own. In my world, of the people I know that have lost to death it's a 50/50 thing as to whether they have moved on or stayed single and waited for their loved ones.

And you think that prostitution is any better than using a toy?? Really?

Oh Amy, you're looking rather beautiful...going somewhere special??New beau


I know exactly what you are talking about here OP, I get like that too bending over backwards to help out others, friends mostly, and even going without so that they can have but then I am short and direct, even mean to my closest family members. I find it's because I'm tired, it's draining being nice all the time. My cancer daughter keeps me in check though, she takes so much and then she tells me straight and tells me exactly the way I am acting.. It's not received well at first but after I've had a think about it I always apologise.

Personally I think you should just bring his behaviour up to his attention and tell him how it makes you feel...then leave him to think about it himself.

Not sure about the sex thing though...never had a problem even when I was married for years!

You also need to put a bomb under him to take you out...he's nesting and getting lazy and that's all you will get once he makes himself comfortable doing nothing...that;s the life you are going to have and if you want more, you better do something about it. It helps to find a couple or two that you both have things in common with maybe even befriend one of his mates partner.

Why do you think it's weird Bling? Some lonely people out there that arent promiscuous but also want something close to the real thing!

I had to google that...lol

I'm sure it'll be worth every penny

First time I've seen the Libra in you

My brother uses:

Do you have sex on the first date?

Would you mind lying down while I do?

And for some reason it works!!!

Well they always gain a laugh and that's an attraction for me there...someone that has me laughing!

My mistake Elle, Poisonous Stinger pointed me that way...

I normally mirror...so find it hard to tell someone that is generally a nice person that I'd prefer he go back to where he came from and then I end up talking to him all night...

This is what I was really thinking when I put the question up because I have no problem being rude to men with "little dick syndrome"

LS I cant see what you put up? But Nefer's comment has me baffled as to what it is... You name should be "KING OF LIBRAS" what better person to represent us!

If I came across someone like you in RL Kol I'd have no problem smacking you down...you are so transparent in your intentions...I dont give anytime to rude arrogant little pervs, so wouldnt be a problem. Plus I wouldn't feel bad at all! Sheesh someone did a number on you little man...so much anger...go jack off it might relieve some of that tension

And another thing, not all woman are out looking to get laid/picked up or have some dumb jackass like yourself pay for anything. Some of us like to go out and have fun with our girls and dance catchup talk & drink!

On the other hand, and I realise that these guys are really out for kitty but I get annoyed when they dont take the subtle hints of disinterest and hang around. Why should I have to resort to being blatantly rude.. why should any gal?

Normally I would excuse myself and go to the toilet and not return to that person but instead talk with my friends. Or lie and say I'm seeing someone!

Posted by THEKingofLibra
Well that's easy. I put both my hands on her breasts and yell "THE MILKS GONE BAD!!!"

Question was...how do you handle it? Politely without being offensive /aggressive or a prick


brings to mind...maybe I should act interested and come on hard and easy while vigorously scratching my pussy!

You're in a bar/club/park/shops, where ever...

Someone approaches you to show they are interested/pick you up/flatter you BUT doesn't leave

BUT YOU AREN'T INTERESTED

how do you handle it? Politely without being offensive /aggressive or a prick