He’s one of my bffs, he’s 30 this year and been through a lot in his life. Just before covid, he took himself off to the hospital after downing a bottle of whiskey during the day. That day, I knew things weren’t adding up and kept ringing him until he answered and let me in. Long story short, he came home with me and stayed for a couple of weeks before returning to our home land and where his family live. From there, he seemed to recover, came back here, got a job, lost it again due to covid. Got a bf move back home, split with the bf, moved back again during 2020 and found love again.

His bf was the best ever, all our friends love him and he seemed too as well. They were living in separate cities in Australia but my friend left his job to move up north to be with him. Then all of a sudden he books a flight back home… that was 8 weeks ago!

He’s gone AWOL. Won’t answer anyone’s calls or messages, has gone off social media or remains low, not posting or liking anything.

My friend has a few flaws as we all do but his biggest is he lies. The lies are generally about boosting himself in others eyes about his finances mostly. My other friend and I have enabled him by not calling him out on it, instead just rolling our eyes so to speak.

Anyway, I don’t know where he’s at? He’s never cut us off like this before and I’m trying to understand why?

Is he depressed again and running from everyone. (this guy makes new friends easily, people take him into their lives very easily-just one of those lovable people that you want around and even when you’re mad at him you just want to hug him)

Any insight to how Virgos think? Tbh, I believe he’ll just all a sudden contact me randomly and come up with another bs story as to why he hasn’t but I am worried and I do miss him… even though I want to kick him because I’m annoyed! My scales are tipping daily on this.

Is the Virg guy that answered questions around??

October 9th

Can you explain Independence Day? It’s not the first I’ve heard of it but I’ve never really looked into what it was about. I imagine it’s similar to Waitangi Day in NZ and Australia Day in Auss.

I could Google it now but I’d rather hear your take on it. Oh and do you know what those days are about?

20+ pages are for the crazies anyhow

Youre official Now, you’ve got the attention of the monarchy around here 😉

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Posted by DonnaLibra
Maybe he wasn't so keen on the sex and isn't in a hurry for a repeat. I always tell girls if you are going to have early sex with a guy make sure you give him something he won't forget anytime soon. Otherwise you may be looking at a ghost.

I don't think tha t was the problem to be honest...

Don’t even think about the sex! People saying such things probably don’t remember how awkward their first time with someone new was. Second date it is early, but not “too early”, considering that the majority are doing it on a third date.

I suggest you ask him directly about meeting this Saturday. Perhaps he gave you space, because you practically asked for it, saying you were busy. Perhaps he has something planned for this Saturday, and feels conflicted, to cancel or not to cancel. Or perhaps he realised you are not the one for him, which has something to do with his personal preferences, rather than being a negative reflection on you, or your behaviour. If you want to know the answer, ask him directly, without hesitation.

Yes you are right, it's better to ask directly and to know where I stand... But somehow I already know that probably he is not interested anymore from how he is reacting. I feel a little disappointed because I think it was an act from the start.. But it's my fault for trusting too early.. Another lesson learned 🙁

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Sounds like his end goal was sex to me and he got that. They (some guys) pull out all the stops to get what they want and then pull back. I believe, Your instincts Are on point!

How about just take it for what it is, you both are interested in each other enough to explore. Stop trying to read into him so soon and go on a date and see how you get along. It’s almost like you are trying to read a crystal ball and know where it’s going before it’s even begun. The problem with this is you’re looking for all the negatives first. Let your guard down and go with the flow!

Interesting insight to the “other woman” in “my Taurus husband is cheating on me” thread

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It has to be the phones because I've swiped messages saying one thing and the swipe or voice to text features have autocorrected it to say other than my message. Lol
I now try to make a habit of proofreading especially more important texts and emails.

Yeah I know it’s the phones, just thought there might be some random funny stories out there from incorrect wording

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Hahaha did you do that on purpose?

Is this Gobby reborn?

No, it was never intentional. The only times my handset played up was with her.

For example, when we first met, I asked her out and she gave me her number. Moments after parting, I discovered that the number didn't save! Such a hiccup has never happened before or since. It took months before we bumped into each other again.

Yes, it is I.

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Welcome back and stay clean 😜

Well… someone/thing was trying to tell you something there then.

My mate played a trick on me once and changed my predictive word “Yes” to “I can send you more pictures”
Luckily, I realised it after someone messaged me about my daughters car I advertised on fb market place. We had a good laugh about his party trick 😂

Hahaha did you do that on purpose?

Is this Gobby reborn?

It causes minor stuff ups all the time. I swipe to text but don’t always proof read my messages, especially if I’m in a hurry with a few things on my mind … which is most of the time.
Sometimes I read back after it’s sent and realise I sound like I don’t speak English at all.. something I’ve always been conscience about when speaking. Then, wham my texts take that all away in a couple swipes! Another thing, not sure if anyone else has this problem but my “in” becomes “on” or “if” becomes “of” all the time. Anyone know of a way to stop this apart from turning predictive off?

I just answered a friends message invitation with… you guys … and it came out as …you gods lmao

Got me wondering if anyone has gotten themselves or someone else into trouble texting because of predictive or even sending the wrong message to the wrong person?

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Posted by Moloko_vellocet
This has got to be the most pathetic read through on here.

I’ve never met a libra woman that wasn’t desperate or was intelligent.

I object!!

Thank you, I think

That wasn’t about you. I was objecting to mokos statement as I’m libra.

I can’t be bothered reading this thread… not my cup of tea and you wouldn’t be thanking me for my opinion

Cliff notes version
2 years ago: crush on Virgo coworker, who is not single
Present day: fucking Virgo coworker, who is still not single

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Yeah, I briefed that.

To be honest I know some libra’s that are alley cats but some of us have morals. Probably 50/50 😂 🤦🏼‍♀️

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Posted by Moloko_vellocet
This has got to be the most pathetic read through on here.

I’ve never met a libra woman that wasn’t desperate or was intelligent.

I object!!

Thank you, I think

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That wasn’t about you. I was objecting to mokos statement as I’m libra.

I can’t be bothered reading this thread… not my cup of tea and you wouldn’t be thanking me for my opinion

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This has got to be the most pathetic read through on here.

I’ve never met a libra woman that wasn’t desperate or was intelligent.

I object!!

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Where there smoke there’s fire 🙄

I tired to send them a little advice which I believe was ultimately received everything in due time

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No you’re attention Seeking, creating drama to fulfill your life!

You go around the threads trying to provoke a response from other users and when they don’t bite, you make a thread get the response and attention you’re looking for, even if it’s negative!

Where there smoke there’s fire 🙄

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good topic

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It's something I have noticed in a recentish dating experience I had late last year...shorty and I had engaged in a casual affair, with me taking pains to make my status as it related to the relationship clear. I let her know what I was up for, what I was not up for, and we had frequent conversations on where my head was leaning towards in regards to commitment.

As we casually dated we explored the issue of forming a more permanent bond, she wavered more than a few times and I decided the lack of stability was not something I was willing to bank on...I ended the sexual and romantic aspects of our connection earlier this year...we were "friends" for 3 months until she discovered that I started to deal with my ex AFTER we had finished dating.

She ended the friendship and revealed a boat-load of grievances which seemed to paint a relationship past where I wasn't clear about my feelings and emotions...it also came to light that she considered me her bf though I've explicitly told her even during our fwb/dating situation that I was single...

The entire thing is curious but when I shared the story with my homies (men and women)...all of them have had at least one story of their partner losing the plot and believing in a reality that didn't exist.

I'm curious as to how something like this happens...

You clearly knew it was a FWB and vocalised it however, she wanted and was hoping for more which you also knew.

Why didn’t you cut it there??
You were never on the same page and you decided you were getting what you wanted out of it so let it continue.

I don't manage others feelings, its not my job and not within my ability to do so.. besides we explored the issue, that isn't how she presented her feelings....there was no stated desire for commitment it was more like "I like you let's see where this goes". All the while I was clear on my stance towards her:

We can kick it but I'm not rushing to a commitment one way or another at the present moment, if it goes that way, fine...but...it's not that way now, we're both single.

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You are aware that women say that hoping you fall for them eventually. There isn’t many that can handle or really want FWB. I think you know this and just use it to your advantage to get the end result.. sex.

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Have you ever been delusional in your dating approach?

Helped a friend who has been?

How did you or they end up breaking with reality? How did you/they heal from it?

And btw, you’re not dating, you’re fucking. If you’re describing it to them as this you’ve already taken it out of context. I think it’s you that has to be more honest with it.