How many people listen because someone else advises them??? Seriously? I have children and no matter what I say at times they will find out for themselves, I've done it against my friends advice and u bet you have too.
Try all you like but there will come a point in time where you'll work out that some don't/won't/can't listen or hear you. They are numb because of their own desires.
But I am not attacking her.... If someone came up to me and pointed out, with logic and facts, that what I was doing in situation A was wrong I would at least listen to their point of view and see if it made sense to change. I would value their input and be grateful they took some time to think about me.
And this is where you need to except that a LIBRA does this in their heads at their own time!!
She may listen and take in what you have to say but she may not change what she is doing. If you don't like it then the choice is yours as to whether you sit around and be a witness or leave.
YOU CANT MAKE SOMEONE ELSE DO WHAT YOU WANT THEM TO DO BECAUSE YOU THINK THEY ARE SELF DESTRUCTING!!
I do not understand why you all view it as an attack. If you are drowning in a pit of excrement that you walked into, of course I am going to try and save you [advice] and tell you how you went wrong [constructive criticism].
What I can not stand, is that you KNOW you're wrong and you still PRETENTIOUSLY broadcast you are right.
You are attacking someone, they will instinctively defend themselves right or wrong! Seriously, how can you not understand this? Another example then...
If someone came up and punched you in the face, how many would go nuts and start smashing that person back? How many would just take one swing and leave it and how many would try to understand what bought all this on?
You can sit there and give advice and deliver reality checks til you're blue in the face, but SOME people just will not listen and continue to self destruct. You just gotta say treetrunk it and back off or walk away at that point. :/ Getting sucked into their issues when they won't bother to do anything about it isn't worth the energy.
Look at the other side of the coin...I'm speaking from hers and yours from his, yet I think we are saying the same thing...