Listen to yourself, P and Nef are both good and delivering advice particularly on pisces AND yes without sugarcoating it!! Sometimes that's exactly what we need esp us Libras!
If it's too airy fairy then it will just confuse us more!
It's really something that me and my friends and family never discuss or fuss over ever! If I have to BOOK an appointment to see someone of feel this is what they expect then I'm NOT going to be comfortable enough to go shit in their toilet should the situation arise, so why would I even want to be around them! Maybe it's in the way I was bought up, even at dinner time and someone is there another place is set, you arent asked to leave! But I do know people that arent comfortable with that...I much prefer the way I live.
Now acquaintances ie: work collegues or people you have just met are different but you failed to state that this might be what you were saying.
I show up unannounced all the time to my friends and relatives and there's never been a problem and vice versa....if there was we wouldn't be so close...Maybe that's it be cause we are close we don't have to make appointments to meet with each other!
I'd rather have an unannounced visit with my house in a mess than noone show up at all and be sitting lonely when I can enjoy others company...life's too short!
But, I know where you are at...2010 was a prick of a year so I'm glad things are going well for you, as with me, I feel the change in things to come...or they have started to already