Posted by hades


but hey, what i understood from your statements, you are treating your partner like an object which doesn't have feelings... it's like you go to the mall and put on a shirt which you think might looks good on you... but after trying you didn't like it and you just leave it... yeah, that's a right thing to do when you want something you like and suits you...

now the problem is human ain't no object like a piece of fabric... they do have feelings, agree? and you don't buy a partner... it's something more than that - mutual agreement... if you try putting yourself in this situation, i bet you'd say that's nasty... anyway, don't feel offended.. that's your style and if someone dislike it, don't feel grumpy... it's just the style doesn't mesh...



hades

Isn't that what dating is?? Cos I've been tried on for size over 1 - 5 dates and then the conclusion was, it's not there! And that would be by men other than a libra.

Personally I don't see the problem as long as when the person decides that there is no real future with the other that it isn't done in a "nasty" way!

Yes I did. The only time lions look ferocious is when they are on the hunt!

And you are looking fine too LS. Much nicer than the smokin kitty, it didn't suit your persona.

I'm still waiting for mine...

An accurate dxp one Scorpius

You seem to have all the answers and it would only be a matter of time before she realizes that you weren't coming back... So why the post in the first place? You have to understand that just because your feelings have turned off from this person, you can't expect the same. Deal with it, she thought you were special and you're worth the effort. So it's not meant to be but there is nothing you can do to speed up her recovery, that is completely out of your hands!

No youre a big cuddly pussy (:

Yep those Pisces are a work of art aren't they? Mine is ever so bloody nice to me all the time and I try to keep him at arms length and then I let my guard lower a little he starts up with the teasing again!!!

Total sexual frustration!!!

I cant help but notice the woe is me look on the OP face but somehow it also feels like he aint doing it tough but instead lovin all the attention. After all he is finding out exactly what she is doing! **just saying**

Of course she wants him back she's just been dumped and so naturally she's going to come back fighting. However if he has given her reasons as to why she was dumped then she can work the rest out herself. It's still going to take time but eventually she'll realize herself to move on. He only needs to be man enough to have the one talk and then he can move on without further contact. It has to be done right in the beginning bcos 1. It'll never be done afterwards, he just won't bother and 2. If it is done much later, it allows the dumpee to believe that there is still a chance as they still have feelings for them!

Welcome back, sweet fluffy cat

Posted by LibraLuv
"This has to be the most frequent complaint I see about us on here. We ARE NOT getting in too fast, it just looks like we are. People always come in here saying how quick we move and then we turn off... we weren't attached in the first place. It was a new relationship. We move quickly to see how it is and if it fits, great; if not, we move on.

Not saying it's right, just that it happens."

I agree with you right here. (female pov)-I live in the moment. I can definitely jump in fast but, it takes a long time for my heart to catch up! Underneath the smile and fun, I'm usually dissecting the person. Sad, I know. It's a protector for me.
please continue....

I totally agree with everything said right there ^^^^

Moving quickly is def not a libra thing and people are always assuming that we do. Just because we experience extreme emotional thoughts and feelings in the beginning they soon pan out when the lows of reality set in to balance us out. The first month can feel like a whirlwind until our feet touch the ground...

Oh and I just wanted to say to the libra men here... Reading your comments makes me proud
What a bunch of respectable gentlemen with high values!!!

Well I look at closure as a dumpee as reasons for why the split happened. Given it isn't something that is going to accepted straight away but at least she won't be left wondering as she goes through the motions librasid.

And what's with the ugly smoking cat? Put the hot smoking bod back up!

Enfant, you still got it bad for that Pisces chick? What's happening?

Oh Wgamador, you aint that heartless! Who jilted you to give you a jaded outlook?

Cant fool us here you "Big fluffy cat."

3 weeks is not a long time. Don't be so heartless and allow her to go through the motions. If you aren't communicating with her then what is your problem? I hope you gave her closure! It might be what she needs.

My neck.... But once I get use to someone knibbling there then it's all good (:

I had this with all pregnancies and it didn't subside til after the baby was born. I used quick eze which is a peppermint lollie form of antacid. Disgusting really but I use to hold it under my tongue and suck when I needed it. There is a new one out here called tums and they taste way better but they didnt come out til my last pregnancy!! Ask at your local chemist but really it's just part of pregnancies with some people unfortunetly!

I've had 2 guys ask me out in a carpark outside the local shops!!! Total strangers... Weirdest pickup but I went out on a date with both.

I'm in Queensland but the floods are further up north. I have a few puddles in my driveway which is wonderful with my new home and carpet considering the earth here is RED!!

But seriously the poor buggers up there have been flooded out every year since I moved here. I would have packed up and moved on after the first time the waters rose to the roof tops!

Possibly, and I haven't really checked the date offend original posts. It happens quite regularly and gains my attention when someone else is talking or commenting to this ghostly person. Lol

I haven't taken it personal but it has made me wonder why I can't see there post and I've looked through the thread trying to find it. Lol

I was being facetious and pulling your chain ;P

I admire people who are willing to improve in areas that they are lacking! What's to laugh about?

What's wrong with a bit of self help Shaks? Don't you do it??