SassyKiwi

Posted by Black-Mamba
I'm one of those people I'm sorry

it's because I and many others lack true connections and purpose our souls feel empty

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I respect self awareness. I also understand we all at some point do these kinds of things to fill some empty void in our life. I guess it’s a matter of finding people who don’t feel they gotta fill an empty void in their life which is also extremely difficult lol xD

Response to edit: I hate other gen zers. I don’t and have never related with them, most of my close friends are gen y or older

What placements, energy or aspects cause this?

I just cannot stand today’s average person who is either busy with being obsessed with social media, on a billion dating or phone apps, gossiping or being nosy, envying others, busy on their phones or mindlessly browsing when they are being paid to work, etc. The average person has lost basic decency and the desire to be efficient and impactful in life. I myself am not perfect but I don’t do any of that butter and just want to know where these similar individuals reside.

I personally have Cap and Aqua energy that I think make me extremely intolerant to such people. Ignoring their existences help keep me sane.

Girl all mutable moons are trash

I too used to be anti-Apple before I got my first iPhone a couple years ago (I got my first iPod back in 2006). Their stuff really does last. I mean I am still anti-Apple. I just really loved the picture quality of iPhones and wanted to give it a shot. I do not like to admit it has been serving me well.

My question is how do they have the time to maintain all that ?! I try to take the easiest / laziest route to looking cute. Heck I don’t even brush my hair every day or else my waves get flattened

Posted by MyStarsShine
Yes I have. To live in a country i love, near the sea and mountains, in a safe and friendly environment.
I have found peace and freedom and do what i love.

Omg which country is this? I too have imagined myself one day residing in such a place. Please share more details. What kind of dwelling are you in there?

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I think I have. I don't look up at the ceiling fan when I wake up in the morning and dread going to work.

I have a nice balance of living in the city versus living in the country. I'm in a good place and I'll have plenty of options to travel soon enough. 😊

Ugh that is kind of an issue for me as I’m helping my parents who live in the city consider moving to a bigger home but the good ones that don’t cost absurdly double are all out in the suburbs on the outskirts of the city with the heaps of empty land and cows. My dad & I work together within the city and are just struggling to let go of the city for a bigger home in the ‘country’.

I'm at the outskirts of my major city with the cows and it's affordable still here in Texas. I can drive into San Antonio with some time management but live far enough to not deal with light pollution. Perfect!

I’m in Texas too! Houston. The housing prices here are literally at their all time highs, even in the suburbs..

i remember you can get a mansion there for 250K have things changed much in 4 years

Maybe COVID will revert it back lol

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I thought it would too but it’s not going to. A family friend got a home back in 2011 or so for $ 240k. 3,800+ sqft, 5 bedrooms, 4 baths, gated community. It’s value is now near $ 400k. It’s also in the outskirts of the city.

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I think I have. I don't look up at the ceiling fan when I wake up in the morning and dread going to work.

I have a nice balance of living in the city versus living in the country. I'm in a good place and I'll have plenty of options to travel soon enough. 😊

Ugh that is kind of an issue for me as I’m helping my parents who live in the city consider moving to a bigger home but the good ones that don’t cost absurdly double are all out in the suburbs on the outskirts of the city with the heaps of empty land and cows. My dad & I work together within the city and are just struggling to let go of the city for a bigger home in the ‘country’.

I'm at the outskirts of my major city with the cows and it's affordable still here in Texas. I can drive into San Antonio with some time management but live far enough to not deal with light pollution. Perfect!

I’m in Texas too! Houston. The housing prices here are literally at their all time highs, even in the suburbs..

i remember you can get a mansion there for 250K have things changed much in 4 years

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Maybe in the deep country side far from actual civilization. To give you an idea, my parents are looking for a 5 bedroom, around 4,000 sqft home not too far from the city that was built as recent as possible, I think the cheapest I’ve seen is $ 430k.

Posted by Prince_Pisces
I'm only interested in entertaining and enjoying myself. We're here for a limited time anyway.

Yes ofc but how to do this when you have loved ones who are high risk? Or are you just another one of those apathetic millennials livin it up like pre-covid?

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I think I have. I don't look up at the ceiling fan when I wake up in the morning and dread going to work.

I have a nice balance of living in the city versus living in the country. I'm in a good place and I'll have plenty of options to travel soon enough. 😊

Ugh that is kind of an issue for me as I’m helping my parents who live in the city consider moving to a bigger home but the good ones that don’t cost absurdly double are all out in the suburbs on the outskirts of the city with the heaps of empty land and cows. My dad & I work together within the city and are just struggling to let go of the city for a bigger home in the ‘country’.

I'm at the outskirts of my major city with the cows and it's affordable still here in Texas. I can drive into San Antonio with some time management but live far enough to not deal with light pollution. Perfect!

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I’m in Texas too! Houston. The housing prices here are literally at their all time highs, even in the suburbs..

Posted by Antiphates
Yeah, even ages ago. I just treetrunked up by straying from that path and find personal happiness. That ruined everything and now I'm mostly potatoing ahead trying to rekindle that fire.

What was this previous path that you strayed from? And don’t reply if it’s gonna be ambiguous!

Posted by tiziani
Not necessarily. I definitely used the fear of death to exercise and schedule everything, plus a lot of common sense flooding in where I keep a budget, and plan all my work by the hour.

but once I started making full use of my time, I started getting chickeny "I can learn this skill too, and this, and this" which is a classic way to lose track.

I am better off just doing instead of thinking too far ahead.

Honestly I fear aging more than death and hate how vain it is. Men are just stinkin lucky their value skyrockets with age as women of all ranges appreciate the wisdom and maturity that comes with it. Does not work out as well for women.

And yesss. I get so much more things done when I completely stop thinking about it and just actually start doing it no questions asked.

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I’m sure all this covid butter has caused major existential crises. Before all this all I cared about was looking the cutest at all the parties/events I went to, traveling, eating out, etc. I don’t think I can do any of those completely safe within the next few years. Not definitely with this oompa loompa as pres. So now I think I’m settling for popping out an Elon Musk or a Keanu Reeves as part of my new life goals. Just makes life easier during old age ya kno? Put mama in an oceanside home. I don’t know I’m still trying to figure things out. What about yall?

share pics of your cute outfits, i am always looking for ideas

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I don’t use social media so I don’t always take pictures, I mostly do if it’s a formal event. It’s just my Leo placements that crave looking my best if I’m gonna be seen in certain settings other than that I love my sweats at home!

Posted by Devil
I'm trying to forget the past so I can become what I need to become.

So I can go and do how the Italian mafia does it and get revenge for what has been done to me after 3 years when the object of my revenge thought I forgot.

What was done to you? And you can become whatever you need to become as long as you own your mind and understand that whatever thoughts that come your way can be controlled. I suggest Eckhart Tolle audibles if you haven’t checked them out already. Helped me become mentally stronger when I needed it.

Posted by WarAngel
I think I have. I don't look up at the ceiling fan when I wake up in the morning and dread going to work.

I have a nice balance of living in the city versus living in the country. I'm in a good place and I'll have plenty of options to travel soon enough. 😊

Ugh that is kind of an issue for me as I’m helping my parents who live in the city consider moving to a bigger home but the good ones that don’t cost absurdly double are all out in the suburbs on the outskirts of the city with the heaps of empty land and cows. My dad & I work together within the city and are just struggling to let go of the city for a bigger home in the ‘country’.

I’m thinking about having spicy grilled cheese sandwiches for dindin

I’m sure all this covid butter has caused major existential crises. Before all this all I cared about was looking the cutest at all the parties/events I went to, traveling, eating out, etc. I don’t think I can do any of those completely safe within the next few years. Not definitely with this oompa loompa as pres. So now I think I’m settling for popping out an Elon Musk or a Keanu Reeves as part of my new life goals. Just makes life easier during old age ya kno? Put mama in an oceanside home. I don’t know I’m still trying to figure things out. What about yall?

I’m so scared of this.

I had nice silky pin straight hair when I was young and then BAM puberty made it wavy. I enjoy my wavy hair but the shorter it is, the more wavy/tighter the waves get so I keep it long to hip length to make gravity give me looser waves. However I suspect after I have any kids in the future that my hair might get straight up curly like my mom’s did 😫 I would hate that so much. I am trying to figure out life hacks to contain it.

I stopped using a straightener after high school because I don’t need that extra damage.

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Posted by Aquarelle
Why is it so hard for some of you to give emotional support?

It's easy for me to be emotionally supportive and/or emotionally receptive/perceptive, and it's actually something that I have chosen to invest my time and energy doing for folks on the daily.

However...

The opposite can be said for my ability to be emotionally vulnerable; therefore, that does make it more of a challenge for establishing an emotionally deep/intimate connection.

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Personally the best emotional support I consistently ever received from a friend is a male Pisces. They might even be better at it than the females tbh. Masculine sign men are the worst at it.

Who let you steal mommy’s phone to get back on here