No I'm a thinker and I act when I'm convinced and thought it through enough....so far it has got me where I am, with no regrets. i find if I dont think first I regret later and that is with most cases...impulsiveness doesn't work with me!
Pesca that's sacasism or reverse physcology...some people here cant even see what they have written themselves and after years of trolling these boards I feel the same way alot of the time...I just dont express it because I know they dont hear anything but what they want to hear!
I have a Leo moon too BF, but as I said, I was half prepped for him to say no lets stay friends or something to that effect but to be completely ignored!!! That sent a whole lot of different messages to the brain!!
Some people are thinkers Shaks, simple as that. Going into any situation without thinking is well just plain STUPID! You always have to be mindful on consequence because there is always consequence to your actions!!
It comes down to who is rejecting you and how cruel that rejection at that moment in your life.
That's a good point in my situation Wga, never really thought about that...I was all prep for him saying no and would've happily moved on knowing once and for all...INSTEAD I was completely ignored! And ignoring me felt like he was saying you are NOTHING!
Everyone gets rejected, if a confident man gets rejected he will have absolutely no emotional reciprocation because the primitive mentality of a hunter is to always remain logical.
And a Hunter is probably looking to pick up rather than make a long term investment?
When a woman gets rejected she takes it personal because they are predominantly emotional.
And is seeing the potential of a S/O.
Reasons are multifaceted on why both genders reject potential romantic partners whether if it's short term/long term.
And OMG VB, you share the same birthday as my daughter...we dont get along at all and can barely be in the same room for an hour before we start!!!
Mind you when we were living together it wasnt quite as bad...but then it was my house, my rules, my way and she had to listen and talk!! She also has communication probs with her Dad that she is currently living with and he's a Saggy!
A few months ago I asked someone out and was ignored...OMG, that had my head in a spin for roughly 5 weeks! I thought I could take it when I went in but turned out, it churned around in my head for weeks. Alsorts of things popped into mind as I silently argued my way clear...I seriously had the Devil sitting on one shoulder trying to shake up my confidence more and the Angel making me see it as no biggy! Through it all now, but would be very hesitant to go there again...
It makes me wonder how you guys do it time and time again...with the old skool thoughts that the guy should make the first move etc, I bet there are alot of you that have been knocked back time and time again! Does it effect you this way too so that you need a period of time to get over it? Is your selective process different?
I really liked this guy and wanted things to move past the friendship stage and thought they would BUT I was clearly mistaken!
Or is it easier to find a good woman than to find a good man?
How do you treat your S/O as compared to any other person when flirting?
If it someone I've just met or I'm clearly interested in, strangley I lose all confidence and flirt very little..maybe it is the fear of rejection but they have to show me they are interested before I can turn it back on again and then it is mild...
As for the other questions....am I flirting?? I thought I was just being friendly!
CG, you went into this knowing it was a FWB...not something i really believe in because we all know that a girls gona catch feelings...I feel for you, but hope this is a lesson in itself. You're not cut out for FWB BS, be patient and wait for someone real. He is out there somewhere!
MAAAAAATE!!!!! Stop being sooooo damn nice! Just by your answers to us, I can see how lovely you are but it doesn't turn me on...Now as a Libran woman I want that LATER....much LATER, i want a FUCK YOU ATTITUDE in the beginning!!!
I want to know that I have won something that I have had to fight for your attention a little becuase I know you are interested but lately I'm not so sure because you havent been giving me the attention I deserve....and all of a sudden I want it back!!!