Posted by libra sunPosted by sweethearts
Why go behind their backs? Ask straight up if you can have a look at their text messages. You are suppose to be in a COMMITTED relationship so why cant you put all your cards on the table openly and honestly. If they have nothing to hide then there wont be a drama about it however if there is something to hide then there will be opposition met. Sneaking is just that sneaking no matter how you portray it or make excuses for it..some may be able to live with it, not me. I dont even go into my childrens private things.
If a guy asked to see my texts I would leave him. I have nothing to hide, he just has no need to see them, they are MINE! By saying "can I see your texts" he is saying "are you cheating on me?". If he is suspicious then he can just go!click to expand