Posted by DetailsPlease
Yea, and this Libra ???Male?? should have consideration to step up and say well you??ve been doing a lot allow me to help you. That??s bullshit. That??s like saying if someone is bleeding on the streets let them bleed, because they probably put their self in that situation. Bullshit!! Sorry. The only thing she is going to learn is that some men are willing to step up and some men won??t.
In the perfect world and through the eyes of women...maybe that will happen but in reality "if it aint broke why fix it" is what alot of guys act on!
Why do you think woman are said to be naggers?? Because when they want something done they want it done NOW...so they ask more than once because the majority of men do things in their own time...in alot of cases the women just go ahead and end up doing it themselves and eventually teach themselves to do everything and be self sufficient!
I'm not saying it's right but I've seen it happen alot...
Ever heard the saying "woman can multitask" "if i want it done right I do it myself"
Another example is when the newborn baby comes home...in alot of cases the women takes the whole job on herself..how many woman let the man get up in the night to help with the baby, whether she is breast feeding or not??? No we make the excuse, he's got to work tomorrow or whatever, I'll handle it. How many men can almost count the number of nappies they have changed on their hands???
In your friends case, he's not going to step up to help out if she hasnt asked and continues to keep doing everything for him, everything is going along cruisey as far as he knows. She'll have to put a bomb under him in order to wake him up!!!
The fault is also with "women" and the excuses in our own heads as to why it's better if they handle it all!