Yep we are all human...so put the shoe on the other foot and what and how would you feel if your Beautiful Beautiful Lady was doing all that with some HOT guy and then coming to you all apologetic???
For me, I'd be totally devastated that you were flirting with someone else AT ALL...this is what contributed to her kissing you so stop pretending you had nothing to do with it and were innocent. Once you except that then maybe your Lady acts like a Lady and can forgive you...
Although the trust factor has gone until it can be regained...however long that takes!
I've heard of people that have met online people...some are fine and I've heard int he news how some girls have met up with randoms and then been murdered or paedafiles that are pretending to be younger than they are. I'm sure they have pics that look legit too...
Think seriously before you act... could be ANYONE!!
You know sometimes our lists for the perfect partner are almost unobtainable...esp if it is 2nd time around and you have shared a huge portion of your life with someone else...
We are still looking to be swept off our feet and hopelessly in love with the new significant other..
But honestly how long does that honeymoon faze really last for???
I think the questions you should be asking yourself as well are:
-Do you see yourself with this person for the rest of your life? Happy to be working together and growing old together.. -Do you share the same interests in the long term? -Would you want to nurse him when he is sick or will he really be there for you? -Does he have your back? -Is he enough for you that you wont want to look further or will you always be looking for someone better?
Ask the hard questions first PD and then figure what you are really feeling with this man.
As for turning a FWB into a relationship if that's what you decide...I'll leave that to the others! lol