The thing i don’t like about the aqua is the coldness. I didn’t like it about a Gemini I used to mess with. THE gemini later on came back to apologize and ask for another chance which I said no.

Aqua told me she’s uncomfortable with affection and feelings make her 🤮.

That’s relationships though. Being vulnerable and caring for someone else’s well being. Whether a friendship or something intimate.

I’ve realized through spending time with her. Aquas are similar in thinking to us sags. They just don’t really have the fire for passion. She does have an Aries Moon though. So internally something has to be going on.

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It’s the kind of companionship I’m looking for. She says she doesn’t want a commitment.. I don’t either

The sex is interesting and she’s smart and pretty

Plus she can really cook . Her dad is Italian and her mom is Puerto Rican/Black

She makes amazing culinary dishes from her background . I play sous-chef and wash dishes.

Bc she and I are Aries mooners. I’m just curious how long this might last. I’ll stop messing with others if it goes like this.

So you're looking for companionship, and you're willing to stop sleeping with others... But you don't want commitment?

Don't get it.
Maybe figure out wtf you want first

Mutable Sag + uncommitted Aqua - having relationship benefits without the actual label. Unspoken bond and commitment... this sht show match is a failure waiting to happen.

Why is it a failure waiting to happen lmao... it’s weirdly relationshipish

Cuz I’m not a fan of this paring lol nothing personal towards you... just overall Sags

lol we sags are great with no pressure

Is this true? I wonder if my solo ways are the reason why he keeps coming back.

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As long as you aren’t forcing me to do something or explain myself. I’m happy.

I’ll gladly be with someone as long as it’s not “forced”... if I enjoy your company all the time or majority of the time . I don’t mind not seeing other people. Because you are a benefit.

It’s easy to reverse psychology me to like you. But it’s never with blinders on. I don’t catch feelings to let someone disrespect/play me.

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I still think, it was due to her being detached, that made you wanted her more.

If she had been clingy and needy, you would have been gone already.

Oh come on Sag.

She is clingy! She's over there everyday, from what he's saying lol Honestly I don't mind clingy. I like knowing that you are there for me and want me.

Lol thank you boo! We get each other.

But why didn't you like my statement saying you were in a relationship though! Do you boo boo! Quit pretending like you don't care lol I know her little detached ass is getting under your skin!

IS it just a game though. I’m not used to women not being attached to me. I clearly see signs, in my opinion, that she is. But her words, at least when sober are saying she isn’t.

I need the power dynamic to shift back to me. I’m mutable so I let her fixed ass kind dictate the flow, but I’m not just a pet penis you just feed and exercise.

I don’t like not knowing what the other person is thinking, especially when their actions and words are in conflict.

You just have to pretend like it's not happening and don't listen to her words. lol She's just trying to feel you out. Her actions are showing you that she likes you, so continue doing what you're doing and don't fuck it up! lol

And you are a pet penis that she obviously enjoys so let her set the pace and be there for her.

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It’s about me!!!! Why everything have to be about the woman 🙄

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I still think, it was due to her being detached, that made you wanted her more.

If she had been clingy and needy, you would have been gone already.

Oh come on Sag.

She is clingy! She's over there everyday, from what he's saying lol Honestly I don't mind clingy. I like knowing that you are there for me and want me.

Lol thank you boo! We get each other.

But why didn't you like my statement saying you were in a relationship though! Do you boo boo! Quit pretending like you don't care lol I know her little detached ass is getting under your skin!

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IS it just a game though. I’m not used to women not being attached to me. I clearly see signs, in my opinion, that she is. But her words, at least when sober are saying she isn’t.

I need the power dynamic to shift back to me. I’m mutable so I let her fixed ass kind dictate the flow, but I’m not just a pet penis you just feed and exercise.

I don’t like not knowing what the other person is thinking, especially when their actions and words are in conflict.

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I still think, it was due to her being detached, that made you wanted her more.

If she had been clingy and needy, you would have been gone already.

Oh come on Sag.

She is clingy! She's over there everyday, from what he's saying lol Honestly I don't mind clingy. I like knowing that you are there for me and want me.

She's playing the hot and cold game. You're a female Sag, you don't operates like how the Sag males does. She might be there but she ain't giving in when it comes to emotions.

I've been with a Sag sun Aries moon before. I do know they love the chase. Even me, having my venus in Aries, I would prefer to chase than to be chased.

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Is it a chase though? She sleeps and has sex with me ... cooks and spends all her free time with me.

I don’t chase anything. She’s the one that brings up she has no feelings for me. So wtf you over here everyday trying to boo up then?

One day she was like I like you... but I don’t like, like you. Another day it’s, I think you are super cool and I love spending time with you.

So another day I go, well we both like each other so I don’t mind you being here everyday. She jumps up and goes I don’t like you. Confusing as hell...

Wtf is that.

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You mention she’s been through a lot. She may have some serious issues with trusting men. So that could play a part in her behavior.

Really though, you have to figure out what you want. Or you both just might play this game for awhile.

I just want to make sure I’m nit damaging her by being honest. She says she doesn’t have feelings , I don’t agree. She says she just thinks I’m cool and we are fwb, I’m completely fine with that.

I want to be a distraction for her not a rebound/new relationship.

I just don’t want her hiding her feelings to keep me around. I don’t mind her being around like this all the time either but every day is more than fwb. If she’s just being an aqua and detached fine.

You're in a relationship! Stop fighting it and just go with the flow!

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No no no! I can’t be in a relationship. I’m still trying to get over my scorp ex... plus relationships are bad they give me hives.

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I still think, it was due to her being detached, that made you wanted her more.

If she had been clingy and needy, you would have been gone already.

Oh come on Sag.

She is clingy! She's over there everyday, from what he's saying lol Honestly I don't mind clingy. I like knowing that you are there for me and want me.

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Lol thank you boo! We get each other.

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I still think, it was due to her being detached, that made you wanted her more.

If she had been clingy and needy, you would have been gone already.

Oh come on Sag.

Lmao... her words say she isn’t. Her shacking up with me last 3 weeks say otherwise .

She went home last night and we made plans to meet up Thursday over phone just now. We will see if she can make it til then without seeing about coming over.

I don’t get why y’all think we don’t like clingy. I love clingy. I don’t like possessive and jealous.

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Isn't this the lesbian girl?

Yea she prefers the company of other vag... which gives us another thing in common lol

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It’s the kind of companionship I’m looking for. She says she doesn’t want a commitment.. I don’t either

The sex is interesting and she’s smart and pretty

Plus she can really cook . Her dad is Italian and her mom is Puerto Rican/Black

She makes amazing culinary dishes from her background . I play sous-chef and wash dishes.

Bc she and I are Aries mooners. I’m just curious how long this might last. I’ll stop messing with others if it goes like this.

So you're looking for companionship, and you're willing to stop sleeping with others... But you don't want commitment?

Don't get it.
Maybe figure out wtf you want first

Mutable Sag + uncommitted Aqua - having relationship benefits without the actual label. Unspoken bond and commitment... this sht show match is a failure waiting to happen.

Why is it a failure waiting to happen lmao... it’s weirdly relationshipish

Cuz I’m not a fan of this paring lol nothing personal towards you... just overall Sags

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lol we sags are great with no pressure

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You mention she’s been through a lot. She may have some serious issues with trusting men. So that could play a part in her behavior.

Really though, you have to figure out what you want. Or you both just might play this game for awhile.

I just want to make sure I’m nit damaging her by being honest. She says she doesn’t have feelings , I don’t agree. She says she just thinks I’m cool and we are fwb, I’m completely fine with that.

I want to be a distraction for her not a rebound/new relationship.

I just don’t want her hiding her feelings to keep me around. I don’t mind her being around like this all the time either but every day is more than fwb. If she’s just being an aqua and detached fine.

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Start seeing her as person instead of a cook would be step one and stop seeing things as "trades".
If you like her you should tell her but ensure you do so by telling her that you like her for the person/human being she is.
Besides, don't make this thing about you but about her.
From you description she deserves it more than you at the moment.

I do see her as a sum of more than her parts. I was just talking about what she does that I appreciate. I love food and she’s great at cooking .

At end of day her lesbian leanings are I think conflicting with her dealings with me.

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It’s the kind of companionship I’m looking for. She says she doesn’t want a commitment.. I don’t either

The sex is interesting and she’s smart and pretty

Plus she can really cook . Her dad is Italian and her mom is Puerto Rican/Black

She makes amazing culinary dishes from her background . I play sous-chef and wash dishes.

Bc she and I are Aries mooners. I’m just curious how long this might last. I’ll stop messing with others if it goes like this.

So you're looking for companionship, and you're willing to stop sleeping with others... But you don't want commitment?

Don't get it.
Maybe figure out wtf you want first

Mutable Sag + uncommitted Aqua - having relationship benefits without the actual label. Unspoken bond and commitment... this sht show match is a failure waiting to happen.

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Why is it a failure waiting to happen lmao... it’s weirdly relationshipish

Depends on what you are looking for... the more feminine the more fukbois you will attract.

It’s a balance of sexy and demanding respect from people that come up to you.

I tend to treat women the same and then letting their personality dictate how I modify my behavior.

All women want a confident, funny, secure man, but anything after that is up to her

It’s the kind of companionship I’m looking for. She says she doesn’t want a commitment.. I don’t either

The sex is interesting and she’s smart and pretty

Plus she can really cook . Her dad is Italian and her mom is Puerto Rican/Black

She makes amazing culinary dishes from her background . I play sous-chef and wash dishes.

Bc she and I are Aries mooners. I’m just curious how long this might last. I’ll stop messing with others if it goes like this.

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in your opinion...

I heard sag suns are always attracted to cancer moons

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THat would make sense... my scorp ex is a cancer moon and

My bff in the whole world, my number 1.b @saggurl88 is one too 😘

I know you water beaters don’t like emotions.

How do you express emotion passive-aggressive likeness for someone.

As a fire/water domininate I show it easily.

Anytime I call out this aqua I’m messing with, she adamantly denies it or downplays it.

Things she’s done:
Opened up about childhood abuse
Opened up about divorce
Opened up about her promiscuity to have power over men

Cooks for me
Communication regularly

Threatens to stop coming over due to it making her seem clingy... then proceeds to ask to come over

Says all the things she likes about me, then proceeds to tell me it’s a shame I have a penis.

Compliments my body, then immediately says something negative about it and the fact a penis is attached to it lol 😂

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maybe is truly not that much into men as far as sex goes and geez, she sure is making herself at home there - cause any red-blooded real woman would be draining your ass

Yeah she was here last night... so 18 out of 20 days so far. Thankfully she’s going back up north for her birthday next week. ... and apparently I’m pet sitting. Grrrr

We haven’t had sex enough for me to pet sit! That takes commitment!

and you won't get it - she is in control

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She’s used to controlling ppl. I don’t care how cute she is... I’m not whipped and won’t be . I was using this time to figure her out. I’ll be the nice guy and watch and analyze someone’s behavior.

We wouldn’t get along as more than fwb. She’s too stubborn and over values her position, which is clearly a sign of insecurity... I’m going to have fun showing her how I move. She likes me. But her being a fixed sign it’s going to be interesting.

I like it. Not in love with it. Sometimes hot to go around the world

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I thought you were doing the dating thing? Why do you allow her to come over so much. Her saying to masturbate when she is not around is what I say to MY MAN. You are not her man. Its like she doesnt want you to get it else where. Yall sound like a couple. Is this the chick that doesn't orgasm?

Yeah. She’s weird. She’s orgasmed a few times. Just takes some dirty talk and a little bdsm.

I don’t know why I let her come over so much. I guess because the situation is easy and I know nothing will come from it?

Yeah she is acting like a couple even though she doesn’t want a commitment. Last night she said I think you are really cool.

Sounds like she thinks you guys are more then just friends tho. Like her telling you to masturbate when she is not around? So what are ya plans with this? How do you exit? Or do you like how things are going ? What are you guys considered FWB?

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Well I still plan on leaving end of year/early next year to California.

From her past, she’s never had someone around to be a real friend and help her shape her future. She’s always supported others. I’m going to help her get back into college, fill out grant and loan paperwork and since she’s doing business, I can help her with class stuff, just so she can finish atleast her associates. She is about 1.5 semesters from finishing.I can get her a decent job with my connections.