Yeah Bella, I remember clearly and the twit that was hard balling you...she's barely here now anywho.
Sometimes I can come on here and not be in the best of moods and can let it all out on someone because I cant believe how naive they are!! I think alot of people do that and let off steam on some poor unsuspecting soles. Then again sometimes you feel like you are being attacked all over the place when someone offers up harsh advice and everyone jumps on the band wagon (some deserve) but alot of the times you have unintentionally said things or not really read things properly. A Scorp lass has been getting a bit of flack lately and probably more for skimming over and not really reading things properly and then coming out fighting!
Anyway best to just disappear for a bit then come back....
I understand it's her cross to bare...but what I saw was a husband throwing it out there trying to pick up or find a potential partner that he can cheat with. Fully knowing we were aware that he was married and then can use that as his excuse why not to leave.
And a woman who only 3 weeks before was the life of the party without her man around turning into a timid doormat when he was.
I believe the night didnt end so well for them as she left before it was over...who knows whether he was held accountable.
Yes there are alot of strong woman that wouldn't put up with this type of bullshit out there, I am one but then there are alot of people in circumstances that keep them in their relationships for reasons like financial, children and just plainly being scared because sometimes better the devil you know than the devil you dont! Another thing alot of the time when a woman leaves it's because it really has been thought through and there is a plan of attack.
My mother and step dad have been together for nearly 30 years....not an easy combination. I find my mother to be totally self fish and feel for my step dad most of the time. He very rarely stands up to her and when he does she turns on the false tears...*shakes head*
As long as you are both prepared to meet each other in the middle when it counts, I think anyone can make a go of it but when one makes all the rules 90 percent of the time...what a miserable life!
The guy I grew up with, was like a cousin but we arent related. Recently he expressed his desires to me and although it was really weird at first, the idea isn't all that appalling now, it feels quite natural...although we havent seen each other in 14 years and wont til Feb...dont know how it will feel face to face...
Or not make a deal about it? It's not a big birthday and mostly to me it really goes un-noticed but I know I'd be hurt if he forgot it or didnt mention it. After all it's splattered across facebook whenever someones birthday comes up...
Your hurting and pretty bad by the sounds of things....and to top it off buddy you really are just making yourself look like a complete fool.
But I still feel for ya, because you are going to have this bitter pill to swallow next girl that comes round. You really need to reflect and grow a little from this and dont be so angry. The only person really upset here is you, you're spitting venom and thats sad...
It doesnt matter, even if you put "READ MY PROFILE FIRST!" in the heading line. I had a play once and kept changing my description of what I was looking for. I started getting really specific and puting things like a YOUNG person, GOOD looking, GYM freak with great body and getting really descriptive only to find all the fat old bald guys still trying to hook up!!!! What gets me is the ones that dont even put their pics up...delete!
It's a personal thing and you have to be comfortable with it if you are going to or neither will enjoy.
You guys are a laugh, we dont all feel it the same way everytime and as it has been explained before sometimes it can be nothing but irritation if you've got it wrong and there is a very fine line between pleasure and pain...so be careful to not generalize and check it with the woman you are with ;P
Well the woman I saw at the hens day was fun and loud and the one at the wedding was very quiet and sub-dued.
@ lildol & Hyp....do you honestly think that this maybe true??? Swingers and couples like that are generally both outgoing and I dont think she would have sat there like a doormat if she was into it. But then i never told you about how she was on the night.
In my younger days, I have cheated and been cheated on and know the feeling on both sides. Now if I am in a steady relationship, it doesnt happen. But I understand what you are saying Hyp, the belief that you wont get caught and the mixture of alcohol in a lot of circumstances and of course you have to be that way inclined makes you ignorant of the effect.
It's too easy to say sorry and it only ever happened once and cry with your partner and appeal to the years you have spent together and the life you have built...I believe alot think that once is forgivable so will carry on until they are held accountable and then the remorse will be seen.
In fact he really just came off as a jerk, I guess some day someones going to take the bait...