I've met her a few times and she doesnt seem to be the type, think she just has a joke of a husband that is making a joke out of her. Feel sorry for her really.
@ Hypno: If it suits your style but I'm personally monogomus and have no desire to be with multiple partners even though I am single. It's not my way. There's no worse feeling in the world finding out that the person you love and are devoted to has cheated, I wouldn't want to put anyone through that.
Was at a friends wedding this weekend and this guy at our table was with his wife. He proceeded in flirting and making suggestive comments about the other girls at the tables breasts. And openly flirting most of the night with each and every one of the 4 girls at our table and anyone that came to chat. At the end of the night, his wife got up to call a taxi to take them home. He left her outside and came in and said to me, you can text me if you like... Me being rather pissed looked at him and said I dont have your number and looked at him oddly. Then I said arent you married to which he replied Yes and I said, Well then, and walked away shaking my head!
See the crazy thing is this guy obviously is the type that will throw it out whereever he is and eventually someone will take him up on his offer. He's married and doesnt care that his wife is with him when he's trying to score. I'm not sure if she is aware of what he is doing but he didnt seem to care. Can she be that blind?? Damn I didnt think to ask his star sign!
Women will tell you what kind of a man they really want, yet they'll only respond heavily to the type of man they DONT tell you about. Women are terrible at acting according to any logically-constructed image they formed in themselves about an ideal man. They respond to different kinds of stimuli.
Yeah you're on to it Shaks...I want I want in my mind but then he doesnt do it for me
the one that does it for me is not the one my mind wants but my heart does...
Oh I appreciate a man who has great respect and affection for their mother, because thats the way they treat women that they love but when push comes to shove he better be prepared to back me if something important comes up or I'm out of there!!! When I say important I'm meaning something in our lives...not just general bickering over nothing.
And Sometimes mother-in-laws want to include themselves in you personal problems and I wont have that!!
Did you try your luck in the online dating thread (pick their signs) in Astrology, think it was lilldol thread.
Thanks for the help here, I like the way you guys are even though you get a bit sulky, I guess everyone has their thing. And the different input from you all does help me to understand cos Libra has alot of pride too...or maybe that's where that Leo side of me is coming in!!!
And yeah I had to extend the olive branch before he came bounding back all apologetic, but he wasnt apologising for any problem just for not being around the last few weeks...lol, cant believe I find that funny!
Sex in a relationship requires work after the honeymoon period is over. Girls give it out on tap in the beginning with little or no stimulation so the guys dont understand why all of a sudden things have changed...but they do
It becomes like eating the same meal everyday for a week or two, same basic meal with no sauces or spice. But it takes work on both sides to introduce new ways and this is where you need to start talking, it's an issue that needs your attention because sex is important in a relationship, sometimes more important for one than the other & you've already recognised there is a problem.
It happens in almost every realationship, it's how you deal with it that matters LR.
Good, because I'm not comfortable buttering someone up and stroking their ego all the time especially when they stroke their own. Credit where credit is due though, I fine with that.
Constructive criticism...you think??? Somehow I'd tread very carefully there, I've picked that up. Our family are always cooking and we offer constructive criticism all the time to each other and it's always taken a little offensively...he's a chef, I can imagine me telling him it needs a little more flavor or something is missing...dont think he'd talk to me again somehow!!
Haha I get that, he's always reassuring me that he doesnt mean to be a show off, but it's just that he is good in what he is doing...which is just about everything. Personally i find it refreshing because I dont feel like I do anything exceptionally well...I know I'm good but dont necessarily do anything GREAT!!!
He appreciates my imput and knows that I'm not needy but he keeps pointing to "expectations" and I'm just finding out now whether he feels that way because other girls may have put that on him or he might be picking that up off me somehow...
Well, let me ask: Do women really want men to mature?
DY I think there is a difference in being young at heart and immature. But your point is valid, i have noticed the mummies boys and in fact that is one question I always or want to know about. How much they love their mothers...now that's a double edged sword!!!