Bachelor #1 Virgo
Bachelor #2 Leo?
Bachelor #3 My EX...waht site is this??? lol Sagi
Bachelor #4 Taurus

Just tell me if I got 50% , I always get 50% of everything but really I'm almost completely in the dark with Horoscopes!

From someone special I'd like anything unique and from the heart. The best ever Christmas present I got was from someone I was seeing at the time, he didnt have much money and he bought me a bottle of wine and wrote a beautiful note inside and then picked up his guitar and sang me a song he had written for me... Turned out to not be such a nice guy after all and the song was a take off from another with the words changed around but I'll never forget it and the way he made me feel at the time

You can take my advice or not...but it was meant for the creator of the thread, Angel.

I share my experience and what i have seen, I have dealt with my own so verbally attacking me just bounces off this is called maturity. I am not intentionally ramming anything down someones throat but sharing. People will chose and hear what they want from someone elses opinions and take what they need and discard the rest.

I did state that I wasnt meaning this to be offensive but obviously it was...cant change the way you feel.

OMG PROvs everything you said was so true, complete denile that anything was wrong and it was all me-me-me...

And for some strange reason it never bothered me...like it would have with someone else especially the me-me-me part! Never found that appealing at all... I think I need my head read, so out of chartacter for me. I care alot about this person and my tolerance levels are so much higher with him.

I do find it hard to offer alot of flattery unless I'm really impressed...how will this effect?

Sometimes I feel like my purpose is just to love someone unconditionally and raise my family in an honorable way.

Take it from a 20 year experience (I never saw it coming either)...yes it starts that way and yes she will make all the excuses...but you are trying to reassure her about her insecurities when she is asking for public opinion is what I see & the reassurance of the family perhaps being her worth!

Even if do go ahead with the family Angel, always keep your mind on wanting to further yourself and find that special thing in your life that will make you feel completely happy with yourself. Kids are wonderful but they grow up and become little people and soon enough dont need you anymore and then you are left older and still trying to find yourself. I've experienced it first hand but it's such a common thing, alot of women by the time their child is going to school are at a loss as to what to do with themselves so some have more kids to allow more time and before you know it you've reached middle age and still have the same problem!

I dont mean to be offensive Nic, it's an individual soul searching thing. Being behind her 100% is great, just dont make it about you. It's not just my own experience I get this from, it happens all around the world and is so much more common than you realise!

Haha quotes, all taken from the bible!

And the WHAT is the hardest question to answer for some... I think it comes down to what makes you happy and makes you feel good about yourself. For some they paint and love what they acheive there. i always revert to writing lists of what I like cooking, socialising, working out, blah blah blah and then think what I can put to work and make money from.

Good luck Angel, at least in this early age you are already questioning it so hope you can find something exciting.

As much as you are a couple Nic, this is an individual thing something that you cant fullfil for her. Maybe she appreciates your imput (but shouldn't it be in private) I'm not saying she doesnt but I personally find you are like my ex and smothering...

Haha, yep I'm exactly the same...maybe it is the Libra thing. It's so much more comfortable than having to exert yourself.

But really Angel, ask around and who really is happy in their lives completely? They might enjoy their work but are they happy at home? Or they love their home life but are unfulfilled at work. Similarily, the single want to find someone and settle down, the married love the life of their single friends.

I guess what I'm telling you and myself is at some point you have to realise how fortunate we really are...you have a job, it's security and in the most recent times so many people lost their jobs and have had to struggle financially. There are hardly any jobs going here, work is very scarce but fortunetly for me it's not a necessity but a desire.

Sometimes when we start looking too hard for something we never see it even when it is right under our noses...

All that said, I'm still looking for something too, I think you just have to realise it can take time so dont let it get you down

Yes they do Fumi, but then it's hard to not think like that when we women treat them like that!!!

A catch 22 perhaps...

One thing I've noticed here Bella is the younger guys flirting with all the older ladies on here...You all seem to be in the same mind (so to speak) and can laugh and joke around with each other. I wonder if it would be like that if we all had a dxp party, who would actually be able to talk with whom. Not many of the young girls chat with the older guys unless they are getting fatherly/man advice.

So in my opinion, older woman younger guys quite a possibility...

No it's been something that I've had all my life...I dont have money problems and could easily buy a business or go into some kind of venture but i have no idea what I want to do either! I'm not passionate about anything and have never been passionate about anything more than 50% so nothing grabs me and makes me want to go for it!

Everything else in my life is great, I love myself but not completely because i feel like I'm not doing anything. The worst is when people ask what I do, and I dont do anything...and whats more even if I was doing something it's not as if it'd be something i'd be completely passionate about!

So I understand where you are coming from, trick is to find something you really want and then give it a shot.

Seriously how many men actually leave you and tell you why or when...most just leave a woman hanging from the looks of things around here....Why should you expect anything more from a Leo???

The Libra isnt me...I love love love kissing nearly more than the deed...then again that maybe because I'm starved of affection these days!!

Thats because he is still innocent...wait til he meets a girl!!!

I've tried it but wasnt easy with it, I didnt find people were lying but then I guess it depends how good a judge of character you are. I only met one person and we are still good friends now.

Recently I've been chatting with an old friend online, we live in separate countries and there has been expressions of interest from both parties. We've hit a snag now after 6 months and you cant talk about anything really in depth that needs sorting through. Especially when one doesnt want to know (men) It's like having a one sided arguement, so frustrating. I think unless you can openly communicate then through the internet just adds more complications in my experience.

DB is the male PA...

Fair enough call...my friend is also experiencing similar treatment from the girl he's being seeing & texting lately...wonder how he is getting on. Might give him a text to see.

OOwww your almost old enough Ian.... Well so long as you promise not to throw your toys out of the cot if I wont play your game

I find that really interesting Dogsbody that you have given one week for her to contact you and then you have decided to walk...when alot of women here dont hear from guys for an easy 2 weeks at a time and the advice given is that a guys week is like a girls hour!

This isnt an accusation just an observation...

Nothing exciting happened but it was a good weekend all the same and I'm so over cold weather DA, NZ was notorious for that ! Prefer to be doing anything or nothing in the beautiful sunny Gold Coast!

@ PD, I wish I had your weekend does sound divine!