Easy, I do it everyday so I’ve had a lot of practice. With everything that’s all it takes.

Now reversing with a tailor that always does my head in because you turn the wheel the opposite way to where you want the trailer to go?!?!? 🤔

To me a man offers protection love and a feeling of being safe plus companionship, I in turn look after them, make them feel warm and invited plus companionship.

Again you need to break the cycle one way or another smh

In all honesty, this is never going to work. Love should never be this hard and this is like a battlefield. Sorry, I don’t think there’s anything you can do.

Please Gem, stop reading their texts they are torturing you, go back to your oblivion and bury your head.

He will only make a choice if he’s pushed by her... and I don’t think it’ll be anytime soon, once the kids have grown though might be a different story.

I see you are frozen with fear of loss so enjoyed what you have, but think about you and prepare yourself.

Sun: Libra Lib 15°34’35’’ 6D
Moon: Leo 8°32’36’’3D
Mercury: Scorpio. 4°57’41’’ 7D
Venus: Lib 7°42’24’’ 5D
Mars: Leo 27°54’52’’ 4D
Jupiter: Leo 1°37’27’’ 3D
Saturn: Pisces 24°47’31’’ 11Retro
Uranus: Virgo 21°37’55’’ 5D
Neptune: Scorpio 20°36’31’’ 7D
PlutoPluto: Virgo 19°13’57’’ 5D
Node:Taurus 17°44’59’’ 1Retro
Lilith: Pisces 21°19’54’’ 11D
Chiron: Pisces 22°56’26’’ 11Retro


: Taurus (ASC) 3°55’32’’
2: Gemini 2°36’42’’
3: Cancer 4°46’58’’
4: Leo (IC) 9°04’17’’
5: Virgo 11°53’02’’
6: Libra 10°17’51’’
7: Scorpio (DESC) 3°55’32’’
8: Sagittarius 2°36’42’’
9: Capricorn 4°46’58’’
10: Aquarius (MC) 9°04’17’’
11: Pisces 11°53’02’’
12: Aries 10°17’51’’

Thank you

I’d really like to just travel again one day and not just within my country. I’d take anyone’s offer or do it alone at this point! :/

1,2,4 and in some circumstances 5.

Rejection hurts but with it comes growth

There is a block function 🙄

Unrequited Love - Pisces
Tainted Love - Cancer, Leo
Good Love + lovin - Libra, Sagittarius

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You need to ignore her trivial texts, she’s telling you to leave her alone and then making sure you’re still hooked... no wonder you’re confused! Talk about 2 personalities :/

Also, go off socials yourself, the last thing you need is to be stalking and that’s what will happen. It’ll be hard at first but plan a whole week and make sure you don’t return her attempts at contact for at least 7 days. Give her exactly what she asked for!

This. ☝️

I wish I could take your ass off the grid somewhere. Get the fuck away from this chick and clear your head out.

Wish I could as well its hard when you love someone and I can see the good in her but she has a split personality at times it really let's her down.

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Answering her will not break the cycle which is what you need to do.

It feels like everyone here speaks plain English except you.. or do you have compression issues?

You need to ignore her trivial texts, she’s telling you to leave her alone and then making sure you’re still hooked... no wonder you’re confused! Talk about 2 personalities :/

Also, go off socials yourself, the last thing you need is to be stalking and that’s what will happen. It’ll be hard at first but plan a whole week and make sure you don’t return her attempts at contact for at least 7 days. Give her exactly what she asked for!

Ignore it, not your problem. Let her sort out her own issues even with your mother. You’re on a break and enjoying your time without her.

Sometimes we wish/ask for things we don’t really want. Give her hers.

You sound like a possessive friend.
True friends can go weeks months and years without seeing each other but when they get together it’s like only yesterday when they saw each other. Maybe you need other interests.

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My non-committal cap ex/sons dad is now saying he wants to marry me. It figures he is saying this now, 3 years after I left and now that I have finally started to move forward with my life. I wish I could say this was an April fools joke. Why now? This feels like a sick joke the universe is playing on me. He first brought it up a couple days ago and I firmly told him that that ship has sailed. I thought he would drop it after a while. I reminded him he has done this before, where he would dangle the carrot then switch up on me and say he can’t give me what I want and deserve. But that seems to have only made him more persistent. He said he had a fear of failure/divorce and that was why he had his doubts before, but is now saying “when you know, you KNOW. And now I know”.

This was what I wanted to hear for so many years, while I was trying to be patient and forgave him for the time he cheated. Was practically begging him to go to therapy and/or church with me so we could work on repairing what HE broke. So now that he is saying it after all this time has passed and walls have been built, I only have a sinking feeling in my stomach. He said it’s been on his mind for about a year but he is just now mentioning it. He has always been flirtatious and dropped hints, always kissed me on my cheek when we dropped our son off to each other so I knew he still had residual feelings, but never dropped the marriage bomb until this week. I just feel so sick to my stomach for so many reasons. A part of me believes he’s being truthful, but another part of me is like I have come way too far to turn back now. And he is the father of my son so I do still love him, but it’s more of that familial type of love. This whole situation really just sucks. 💔

That sickness in your stomach is your natural instinct’s. Go with it, it won’t ever be the same and I do believe will be short lived. You want the fireworks and you deserve it so hang out for that. It might be the Pisces or someone else but now that you’ve had a taste.. wait for it.

Your naivety shows your lack of maturity which is why he chases a woman not a girl.

Pick up a dictionary to find out the meaning of that sentence.

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With the whole front page full of Leo shit, Nahh, I couldn't be lucky enough to catch one of them.. The universe dumping this bs on me. -_-

I'ma just start off by saying.. WHAT IN THE ACTUAL FUCK?

So.. this dude (Virgo) was my first crush in Junior High, he was a complete jerk to me. Picked on me, teased me and was just an asshole. We hooked up once in High School when I was drunk at a party, but aside from that we never had anything together, I wouldn't even call us friends. Anyways, Saturday morning I got a friend request from him on Facebook, I accepted it and he immediately starts msging me with the ol:

"Hey stranger, how ya been" and trying to make small talk.. His profile picture is of him and his girl together and his profile is full of cute stuff she tags him in, so clearly not a single dude.

I'm not the type to beat around the bush so I was like "aren't you all wife'd up now"

He said "gf but we have our days. wbu".. I told him that I thought it was fairly normal in relationships to "have days".. but he is actually engaged and anyone can see that just by looking at his Facebook, so I don't know why he was trying to downplay the status of their relationship when I clearly know otherwise.

Then he hits me with "yea I’m never home work lots. be nice to see ya someday been awhile"..

So I said "Maybe if shit doesn't work out with your girl. I ain't about to dog her"

He replies "Lol I mean hang out, catch up silly geez"

So I said "Innocent enough, but I don't think your girl would see it the same way."

He says "If ya keep your mind out of the gutter I’m sure she won’t care"... Spinnin it on me!! What the hell!?

I told him I wasn't buying it and that I thought it was bad news. He asks "Why"

I said "Cause you engaged af and never had much interest in hanging out before. So why now?"

This is where I'm confused.. cause the reply doesn't even make sense with what I asked.. He said:
"You never talked to me either, don’t talk to anyone from school really always workin away"

So then I just asked him about work cause wtf kind of a response is that!?
So I'm not insane right? This dude is trying to side chick me or hook up right?

I’d say curiously got the better of you because he was your first crush and we always hold hope on that becoming real. But you’ve also called it, he’s looking to play around. He’s away a lot and thinking back, he clearly knew you were crushing on him back then and played with you.. he’s looking to play around again.

I wouldn’t block him... I’d ghost that MF and show him, you’re living your best life!

When you left here last, you had had enough of her treating you the way she does and she was trying harder to make it work with you... see how quickly she has flipped this around and got the ball back in her court? You will always have the raw end of the stick in this relationship and you’re prepared to take it. You have no choice but to sit around and wait until she makes her decision either way as you have very little pull.

Sorry, just my assessment

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Posted by GemCurioThe1
You are... now... choosing to sell yourself short. He has 3 strikes already. First he lied by omission. Then he established major attachments outside a relationship with a woman who is currently pregnant. Last, he is simply what he does. If he's willing to step out on the woman with his children, you're no match for his children. Virguy advice to you Virgal.

Don't do this to yourself. He has been offering you empty words, and there's no convenience in the world that would make a man stay where he doesn't want to be. Would you want to trade places with his pregnant baby momma??? I'm asking because that's the karma you're building remaining in this situation fully aware of it. Just saying...

there's no convenience in the world that would make a man stay where he doesn't want to be.
You know I told him something like this & he responded that he was staying because of his son. He didn't want his child's mother to take his son from him. I think there is a lot more to the story then what he telling me. He's a lawyer and he knows the law will prevent that from happening if he's doing the right thing - which makes me believe there's more. But that's not for me to even worry about. You are right about karma - there's no way I would ever want to be in that situation & as a woman I put myself in her shoes and I can't even imagine what she must be going through with him.

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As much as it pains you, you did nothing wrong... unless you continue after you’ve learned the truth.

It’ll be hard to walk away but in time you’ll realise you escaped a lifetime of more hurt. I’m not sure you even believe any man would be worth that. Be strong and walk away and block all contact from him. It takes 30 days to break a habit (the need for his contact) it’ll take longer to move on but take those 30 days as your first step.

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I'm Virgo Venus too. I got mushy with my ex the other night. I wonder if there's some mushy planet thing going on right now. It usually feels so gross and uncomfortable to say that stuff. I think Virgo Venus prefers showing through action than expressing words which is a huge problem in our relationships. Great you put it out there though. I know it's awkward and weird for some of us so go you xx

Yes I found out the moon is in cancer now 😩 and I’m already a cancer mooner 🙄 so it makes it harder to conceal my mush lol

😂 I'm a Cancer Mars and my Sun is in the 4th house so maybe that's what it is lol. My ex is a Cancer Sun. Damn Cancer stuff 😣😂

Females get attracted to what their Mars is and Men get attracted according to what their Venus is.

So you having a Cancer mars means you'll want to drown in a lot of water plenty of times in your lives. 🌊

I'm Cancer Mars and he's Leo Venus so you're spot on. He drives me crazy and frustrates me so bad though. Yesterday he sent me a picture of 2 pairs of addidas asked me which he should buy.

Me: I like the ones with the green
Him: they look too busy.
Me: So get the grey ones then.
Him: but I want your opinion
Me: I gave it to you. You didn't like my opinion!!!! Which one did I say?
Him: the green ones
Me: so what's my opinion?????

Anyway, that's just one example of EVERYTHING. so frustrating 🙄

A man who can't decide on what color shoes should he buy, sounds really immature to me.

Chronic indecisiveness is a major characteristic found in lack of maturity.

Looking at your fire sun and fire moon combo, it's gonna be a headache for you to tolerate. Hope you're prepared for it.

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This ^^^ actually looks like negativity and you keep chopping and changing your mind in all your posts ?