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Good to know his compliments are genuine! Scorps tend to give me a vibe of liar though because you guys can be quite secretive/not revealing the whole picture type of people. I understand Scorpio's trust issues with people tend to be fragile, but can't expect people to reveal their entire being whilst not revealing yours too. Then that triggers my trust issues. That's my policy.

The preference for privacy doesn't make Scorps liars anymore than it does for Earth Suns, and it is hardly limited to Scorps.

If he has never given you any reason to doubt him, it isn't really fair to him to perceive him as a potential liar at this point just because he doesn't blab his life story to any creatures that moves.

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Yeah you're not wrong 😅 probably my trust issues in play here. I'm very aware of my need for security, especially in the past, I'd get security when we'd both be open about our life stories or easily share them almost immediately just to show we aren't guarded, lying/untrusting people.

But we've only known each other for just over a month at this point, so only time can unfold this story and trust will build 😅

I don't see why I have to tell someone I'm possibly interested/have options with other people if I'm not serious with anyone yet 💀 I'm not a cheating type at all.

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Never mind my last question, I just scrolled back and found it. lol Oh I have told none of this to Scorpio, reading about how possessive or jealous they can be. And how much they aren't afraid to use revenge. No thanks.Scorps tend to give me a vibe of liar though because you guys can be quite secretive/not revealing the whole picture type of people. I understand Scorpio's trust issues with people tend to be fragile, but can't expect people to reveal their entire being whilst not revealing yours too. Then that triggers my trust issues. That's my policy.
If he has Scorpio sun AND Mercury? He probably already knows you’re seeing other people which is likely why he seems “secretive”. The hypocrisy between these 2 comments is… interesting. 🤔 lol

Oh not him. Not so far anyway. He's been quite open sharing stuff about his life. I just mean Scorpios in general tend to be quite secretive or not showing the full picture. So I kinda expect that even if any Scorpio seems open, they're probably still hiding more 😂

Scorpio paying for my taxi ride to and from his place for tomorrow. Had no idea how caring and accommodating a Scorpio can be 😅

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I’m rooting for the scorp.

I know we are notorious for some things, but one thing about Scorpios that no one can deny, we accept as you are, the good the bad the ugly and we don’t judge you for it, because we have already faced and embraced our own good, bad and the ugly. Also we are reliable and we keep our word.

His compliments are genuine… a Scorpio will never tell a lie to flatter you. We mean what we say and we say what we mean.. so he really does think those things about you.

You'll accept us for who we are, unless you have a narcissistic personality disorder, then you don't. But that applies to anyone with this disorder tbh. Sad.

I believe you though and I do really appreciate that he clearly accepts me as I am.

Good to know his compliments are genuine! Scorps tend to give me a vibe of liar though because you guys can be quite secretive/not revealing the whole picture type of people. I understand Scorpio's trust issues with people tend to be fragile, but can't expect people to reveal their entire being whilst not revealing yours too. Then that triggers my trust issues. That's my policy.

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I didn’t want to derail my other thread, so we can talk here a bit.

Here is my opinion:
-Pisces guy doesn’t respect you. He doesn’t see you as a person/woman worthy of attention and effort. You leave his place feeling used, he doesn’t even have manners to offer a drink or similar. I think you should cut him loose. Plus, he is healing from his ex and is not emotionally available.

-Taurus guy wants a threesome and that’s also a red flag. Suggesting this to a girl you just met means he just sees you as a sex object. You will feel unworthy, dirty and used afterwards. I mean, unless this is your sexual fantasy too and you can get into that with 0 emotions. But if you are gonna think about it later and have some doubts, don’t do it.

-Scorpio guy seems like a fair game. We don’t know enough about him yet, but at least he seems to treat you with respect. He offered actual dates/activities and cared enough to offer a drink/cook for you. He also said he likes your mind and didn’t mind your emotional tantrum. These are good signs. Unless, he is only doing this to get laid (and I can’t imagine him being a desperate simp, so hopefully not) you should also give him a fair chance.

And my last question is, why are you doing all this? Have you been hurt in the past? Just experimenting? Boredom?

I have Leo mars too and don’t pay attention to bad rap it gets. It’s a very hot mars to have!

Yeah honestly after everything with the Pisces guy, I read a quote that said "She realised her value when it was apparent that he didn't value her". Resonated so hard. I feel like it's a Leo and Libra thing that we just want to feel loved, valued and like an important part of someone's world. That's what I'm looking for.

The Scorpio guy literally paid for my drink without telling me lol and yes, him complimenting my mind is probably one of the best compliments I've ever received. But yeah, I'm definitely still going to keep valuing myself and see what his intentions are with me first. My only issue with him right now is he has so many main Scorp placements and I know Scorpio placements can make one quite secretive or not revealing the full picture or a tendency to lie frequently. I really don't like that kind of behaviour. Also, he seems to like talking about himself quite a bit more than asking me questions, which triggers my Leo Mars 😂 but I think that's a red flag anyway?

Why I'm doing this? I'm just waiting for the right person to be with for life. And since 2021, I've just been focusing on working on myself. I left 2021 only for self love, didn't even look for love with someone else. Now I feel ready for a serious long term relationship. And because I haven't been looking and have been taking new opportunities, meeting new people at the moment... You can imagine what the Universe does. Once you really don't look for love, it looks for you.

best of luck with the scorpio 🙏🙏

are you on your saturn return?

coz i got covid in 2020 then got cheated on in 2021.

can't wait for more treats coming my way for 2022-2023 🤪🤪

Thank you

Nope, my first Saturn Return is in 2030 when I'm 29 apparently. Why are Saturn Returns significant again? I forgot.

Sorry about your situations. I got cheated on in 2020 by a Leo Sun, go figure. You and I deserve better, fellow Virgo.

i'm turning 29 this year.

and yeah we do so don't give everyone the time of day.

nowadays, i feel very little desire prob coz i don't want anyone at the moment 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

How about a hot Leo romance?

i've failed that date 😭😭

and our personalities are very different which is partly prob why i'm so attracted. i'm just gonna chill out with seniors. maybe play some bingo 😅😅

He never pursued you after that one date?
Maybe you should reach out and kiss him passionately this time. They love cat and mouse chase games.

i kissed him on the cheek. he kinda turned his head for my lips. i almost ran to my car lol. very awkward i wanna forget it happened. now that i think about it, i prob seemed so uninterested and digusted with him. but really i was just nervous and kinda embarrassed. couldn't even really text him until much later on coz my phone died. i always get misinterpreted😭😭

hell i wouldn't call me after that 😂😂

my friends told me maybe he just really wanted to have sex coz he jokes about filming his young neighbors having sex on his fb and must've felt annoyed how he spent so much money on me and still not get laid. and that maybe he thought i was just one of those gold diggery girls just out trying to take advantage. can't blame him, he barely knew anything about me coz i spoke very little and just let him do all the talking 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

but if he really knew me lol that's usually the opposite of what happens to me 😭😭

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I call that the classic "awkward Virgo syndrome". Why are we so awkward when it comes to intimacy lmao

It's on him if he wanted to spend money on you, just saying. True kindness should come without conditions and expecting being owed in some superficial way.

I'm surprised you didn't talk much, do you have Leo or Gemini placements? Cause I consciously have to control talking too much, especially of myself.

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I didn’t want to derail my other thread, so we can talk here a bit.

Here is my opinion:
-Pisces guy doesn’t respect you. He doesn’t see you as a person/woman worthy of attention and effort. You leave his place feeling used, he doesn’t even have manners to offer a drink or similar. I think you should cut him loose. Plus, he is healing from his ex and is not emotionally available.

-Taurus guy wants a threesome and that’s also a red flag. Suggesting this to a girl you just met means he just sees you as a sex object. You will feel unworthy, dirty and used afterwards. I mean, unless this is your sexual fantasy too and you can get into that with 0 emotions. But if you are gonna think about it later and have some doubts, don’t do it.

-Scorpio guy seems like a fair game. We don’t know enough about him yet, but at least he seems to treat you with respect. He offered actual dates/activities and cared enough to offer a drink/cook for you. He also said he likes your mind and didn’t mind your emotional tantrum. These are good signs. Unless, he is only doing this to get laid (and I can’t imagine him being a desperate simp, so hopefully not) you should also give him a fair chance.

And my last question is, why are you doing all this? Have you been hurt in the past? Just experimenting? Boredom?

I have Leo mars too and don’t pay attention to bad rap it gets. It’s a very hot mars to have!

Yeah honestly after everything with the Pisces guy, I read a quote that said "She realised her value when it was apparent that he didn't value her". Resonated so hard. I feel like it's a Leo and Libra thing that we just want to feel loved, valued and like an important part of someone's world. That's what I'm looking for.

The Scorpio guy literally paid for my drink without telling me lol and yes, him complimenting my mind is probably one of the best compliments I've ever received. But yeah, I'm definitely still going to keep valuing myself and see what his intentions are with me first. My only issue with him right now is he has so many main Scorp placements and I know Scorpio placements can make one quite secretive or not revealing the full picture or a tendency to lie frequently. I really don't like that kind of behaviour. Also, he seems to like talking about himself quite a bit more than asking me questions, which triggers my Leo Mars 😂 but I think that's a red flag anyway?

Why I'm doing this? I'm just waiting for the right person to be with for life. And since 2021, I've just been focusing on working on myself. I left 2021 only for self love, didn't even look for love with someone else. Now I feel ready for a serious long term relationship. And because I haven't been looking and have been taking new opportunities, meeting new people at the moment... You can imagine what the Universe does. Once you really don't look for love, it looks for you.

best of luck with the scorpio 🙏🙏

are you on your saturn return?

coz i got covid in 2020 then got cheated on in 2021.

can't wait for more treats coming my way for 2022-2023 🤪🤪

Thank you

Nope, my first Saturn Return is in 2030 when I'm 29 apparently. Why are Saturn Returns significant again? I forgot.

Sorry about your situations. I got cheated on in 2020 by a Leo Sun, go figure. You and I deserve better, fellow Virgo.

You are a baby!
Are you looking for a husband to settle down with?

Why did your Leo cheat on you? And with what sign?

And Scorpio was born on 11/20. All I know is that he had Aqua mars and some Sag planets. They say Scorpio-Sag cuspers are the worst. I don’t know the rest of his chart. This was many years ago.

Aries men can be pushy and aggressive. My first love was Aries but I left him for a Cancer guy. Aries still would message me even after having a wife and children. Go figure!

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Compared to a lot of people here, yeah I guess so! 😂 I'm 21. So I don't think I should be killed here for having options to choose from. How old are you, if I may ask? Yes, I'm only looking for loving and stable long term relationships. So it hurts when I get used for only physical. I preferably want a life partner, but I know each partnership we have is meant to teach us a lesson anyway. I'm still unsure about marriage and don't get me started on having children, I have a bit too much on my plate right now to think about that.

I don't know why. I guess Leo, like yours, didn't like long term commitment. He gave me the piss poor excuse that he suddenly realised that he was poly yesterday and wanted us to join with that other girl he'd been talking to for the past 2 weeks whilst we were dating. Greedy. I confronted that girl and told her to stay away from him because if he has the balls to cheat on me, he will surely cheat on you with someone else once he's bored. I never got her birth details though. I would think she's a Sag just because I know how magnetic Leo and Sag are to each other.

Typical Aries. I just want no drama for once. At least Scorpio is treating me with respect.

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I didn’t want to derail my other thread, so we can talk here a bit.

Here is my opinion:
-Pisces guy doesn’t respect you. He doesn’t see you as a person/woman worthy of attention and effort. You leave his place feeling used, he doesn’t even have manners to offer a drink or similar. I think you should cut him loose. Plus, he is healing from his ex and is not emotionally available.

-Taurus guy wants a threesome and that’s also a red flag. Suggesting this to a girl you just met means he just sees you as a sex object. You will feel unworthy, dirty and used afterwards. I mean, unless this is your sexual fantasy too and you can get into that with 0 emotions. But if you are gonna think about it later and have some doubts, don’t do it.

-Scorpio guy seems like a fair game. We don’t know enough about him yet, but at least he seems to treat you with respect. He offered actual dates/activities and cared enough to offer a drink/cook for you. He also said he likes your mind and didn’t mind your emotional tantrum. These are good signs. Unless, he is only doing this to get laid (and I can’t imagine him being a desperate simp, so hopefully not) you should also give him a fair chance.

And my last question is, why are you doing all this? Have you been hurt in the past? Just experimenting? Boredom?

I have Leo mars too and don’t pay attention to bad rap it gets. It’s a very hot mars to have!

Yeah honestly after everything with the Pisces guy, I read a quote that said "She realised her value when it was apparent that he didn't value her". Resonated so hard. I feel like it's a Leo and Libra thing that we just want to feel loved, valued and like an important part of someone's world. That's what I'm looking for.

The Scorpio guy literally paid for my drink without telling me lol and yes, him complimenting my mind is probably one of the best compliments I've ever received. But yeah, I'm definitely still going to keep valuing myself and see what his intentions are with me first. My only issue with him right now is he has so many main Scorp placements and I know Scorpio placements can make one quite secretive or not revealing the full picture or a tendency to lie frequently. I really don't like that kind of behaviour. Also, he seems to like talking about himself quite a bit more than asking me questions, which triggers my Leo Mars 😂 but I think that's a red flag anyway?

Why I'm doing this? I'm just waiting for the right person to be with for life. And since 2021, I've just been focusing on working on myself. I left 2021 only for self love, didn't even look for love with someone else. Now I feel ready for a serious long term relationship. And because I haven't been looking and have been taking new opportunities, meeting new people at the moment... You can imagine what the Universe does. Once you really don't look for love, it looks for you.

best of luck with the scorpio 🙏🙏

are you on your saturn return?

coz i got covid in 2020 then got cheated on in 2021.

can't wait for more treats coming my way for 2022-2023 🤪🤪

Thank you

Nope, my first Saturn Return is in 2030 when I'm 29 apparently. Why are Saturn Returns significant again? I forgot.

Sorry about your situations. I got cheated on in 2020 by a Leo Sun, go figure. You and I deserve better, fellow Virgo.

Leos are pussies. For all that big talk, sometimes I feel like I have bigger balls than them, lol.

Very vain and egotistical men. But when they are good, they are the best.

I just broke up with my Leo in January 2022. He didn’t cheat but he couldn’t commit and was emotionally distant.

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Their inner child is just a tiny little kitty cat at the end of the day haha

Oh shit, I'm sorry about your break up. You deserve better, ffs we all deserve better than these "men". It sucks when someone is emotionally distant or unavailable. Physical can only go so far.

Also what is it with so many people breaking up in December 2021 and January 2022? Scorpio also broke up with someone in December and Pisces broke up with his ex in December or January too. My Aries girl friend also broke up with her ex in December.

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I definitely think that Leo and Scorpio planets trigger each other. I had this Scorpio guy I was dating who tried to blackmail me for sending nude pictures. It ended in me getting a restraining order against him. To this day, I don’t trust Scorpio men. 2 women at my university were shot to death by similar “brave men” who harassed them and blackmailed them over the same thing. They can be manipulative, narcissistic and egoistic. Also, silent treatment. Can’t stand it because it’s a form of manipulation.

But I mean, despite all this, I don’t judge people on their sign. I judge them on their character and actions.
I think you should stay alerted, but also go into it with positive mindset and no big expectations. Just see what happens.

“She didn’t realize her true value until she realized he didn’t value her”.
I love this! 💗

And yeah, I am definitely on a spiritual and emotional journey myself. Some days are better than others.

Good on you for getting away from that and getting that restraining order, that dude sounds messed up. What were his other placements? I've always found Aries placements rapey as well. Almost got that vibe with the Pisces because of his Aries Venus.

I agree. It's funny that people look at Leo as the only likely narcissist of the zodiac. But my Scorp mother has a narcissistic personality disorder. And she's a nightmare to live with.

Yep, I've already kinda experienced that silent treatment from the Scorpio, because he felt really guilty and embarrassed about drunk spam texting me videos and voice notes the night before lol but I showed him that I still accepted him and he came back round, warm and fuzzy.

True, we're also all different in character because of the experiences we go through, the trauma we have to heal from etc.

Wishing you the best of everything with your journey in life ♡

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I didn’t want to derail my other thread, so we can talk here a bit.

Here is my opinion:
-Pisces guy doesn’t respect you. He doesn’t see you as a person/woman worthy of attention and effort. You leave his place feeling used, he doesn’t even have manners to offer a drink or similar. I think you should cut him loose. Plus, he is healing from his ex and is not emotionally available.

-Taurus guy wants a threesome and that’s also a red flag. Suggesting this to a girl you just met means he just sees you as a sex object. You will feel unworthy, dirty and used afterwards. I mean, unless this is your sexual fantasy too and you can get into that with 0 emotions. But if you are gonna think about it later and have some doubts, don’t do it.

-Scorpio guy seems like a fair game. We don’t know enough about him yet, but at least he seems to treat you with respect. He offered actual dates/activities and cared enough to offer a drink/cook for you. He also said he likes your mind and didn’t mind your emotional tantrum. These are good signs. Unless, he is only doing this to get laid (and I can’t imagine him being a desperate simp, so hopefully not) you should also give him a fair chance.

And my last question is, why are you doing all this? Have you been hurt in the past? Just experimenting? Boredom?

I have Leo mars too and don’t pay attention to bad rap it gets. It’s a very hot mars to have!

Yeah honestly after everything with the Pisces guy, I read a quote that said "She realised her value when it was apparent that he didn't value her". Resonated so hard. I feel like it's a Leo and Libra thing that we just want to feel loved, valued and like an important part of someone's world. That's what I'm looking for.

The Scorpio guy literally paid for my drink without telling me lol and yes, him complimenting my mind is probably one of the best compliments I've ever received. But yeah, I'm definitely still going to keep valuing myself and see what his intentions are with me first. My only issue with him right now is he has so many main Scorp placements and I know Scorpio placements can make one quite secretive or not revealing the full picture or a tendency to lie frequently. I really don't like that kind of behaviour. Also, he seems to like talking about himself quite a bit more than asking me questions, which triggers my Leo Mars 😂 but I think that's a red flag anyway?

Why I'm doing this? I'm just waiting for the right person to be with for life. And since 2021, I've just been focusing on working on myself. I left 2021 only for self love, didn't even look for love with someone else. Now I feel ready for a serious long term relationship. And because I haven't been looking and have been taking new opportunities, meeting new people at the moment... You can imagine what the Universe does. Once you really don't look for love, it looks for you.

best of luck with the scorpio 🙏🙏

are you on your saturn return?

coz i got covid in 2020 then got cheated on in 2021.

can't wait for more treats coming my way for 2022-2023 🤪🤪

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Nope, my first Saturn Return is in 2030 when I'm 29 apparently. Why are Saturn Returns significant again? I forgot.

Sorry about your situations. I got cheated on in 2020 by a Leo Sun, go figure. You and I deserve better, fellow Virgo.

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I didn’t want to derail my other thread, so we can talk here a bit.

Here is my opinion:
-Pisces guy doesn’t respect you. He doesn’t see you as a person/woman worthy of attention and effort. You leave his place feeling used, he doesn’t even have manners to offer a drink or similar. I think you should cut him loose. Plus, he is healing from his ex and is not emotionally available.

-Taurus guy wants a threesome and that’s also a red flag. Suggesting this to a girl you just met means he just sees you as a sex object. You will feel unworthy, dirty and used afterwards. I mean, unless this is your sexual fantasy too and you can get into that with 0 emotions. But if you are gonna think about it later and have some doubts, don’t do it.

-Scorpio guy seems like a fair game. We don’t know enough about him yet, but at least he seems to treat you with respect. He offered actual dates/activities and cared enough to offer a drink/cook for you. He also said he likes your mind and didn’t mind your emotional tantrum. These are good signs. Unless, he is only doing this to get laid (and I can’t imagine him being a desperate simp, so hopefully not) you should also give him a fair chance.

And my last question is, why are you doing all this? Have you been hurt in the past? Just experimenting? Boredom?

I have Leo mars too and don’t pay attention to bad rap it gets. It’s a very hot mars to have!

Yeah honestly after everything with the Pisces guy, I read a quote that said "She realised her value when it was apparent that he didn't value her". Resonated so hard. I feel like it's a Leo and Libra thing that we just want to feel loved, valued and like an important part of someone's world. That's what I'm looking for.

The Scorpio guy literally paid for my drink without telling me lol and yes, him complimenting my mind is probably one of the best compliments I've ever received. But yeah, I'm definitely still going to keep valuing myself and see what his intentions are with me first. My only issue with him right now is he has so many main Scorp placements and I know Scorpio placements can make one quite secretive or not revealing the full picture or a tendency to lie frequently. I really don't like that kind of behaviour. Also, he seems to like talking about himself quite a bit more than asking me questions, which triggers my Leo Mars 😂 but I think that's a red flag anyway?

Why I'm doing this? I'm just waiting for the right person to be with for life. And since 2021, I've just been focusing on working on myself. I left 2021 only for self love, didn't even look for love with someone else. Now I feel ready for a serious long term relationship. And because I haven't been looking and have been taking new opportunities, meeting new people at the moment... You can imagine what the Universe does. Once you really don't look for love, it looks for you.

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Here's the ones who can be just friends:
* One or both is/are homosexual, Asexual or not attracted to the opposite sex.
* Both parties don't fancy each other
* They are family
* They used to go out and broke up, but stayed friends (especially if they are in new relationships)
* The age gap is massive
* They both have severe mental health issues (such as having the mental age of a child)
* They are seeing other people and genuinely won't cheat

true.

I'm glad someone gets it. The powderkeg is two lonely single people and neither knows what they want.

2 single lonely people sounds so pathetic and lame lol

They could hook up for pity sex followed by a session of talking & crying & ice cream.

It's not lame or pathetic it happens more than people think or would admit. The thinking being bad company is better than being alone.

Oh yeah, I am not disputing it doesn’t happen. To each their own. I have friends who literally can’t be alone. They jump from relationship to relationship just to have someone. Anyone. Any warm body will do.

I am just saying personally I can’t imagine worse scenario than that. I don’t want to be on the receiving or giving end of pity sex.

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Geez the Pisces guy I had sex with. Turns out it was pity sex for him because his physical desires were going crazy but he's still healing emotionally from his ex.

That's why I felt used. Fork that shit. I deserve better. Pisces can be so melancholy like this too often, and I know that as a Pisces Moon myself lol

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Some of you wanted updates about my Pisces vs Scorpio guy situation so here it is.

- Had sex with the Pisces twice but can say I feel used because he's healing from a breakup from a few months ago still. Also I feel like he judges me a lot more or misunderstands me more/we think a little too differently. He's a great, helpful friend though.

- Taurus guy has entered and keeps bothering me about having a threesome with him. But I've told him I'm not interested in him like that. Don't know what's his reply yet.

- Scorpio has the higher ground here. We're very similar in opinions especially when it comes to spirituality. He doesn't judge me (or as obvious as the Pisces anyway) and doesn't doesn't my views within spirituality either which is super important to me and something the Pisces failed at. Scorp and I also have the exact same ideal dream date. A picnic in nature/somewhere scenic. And he said "I like the way your mind thinks". And that compliment blows past most physical compliments I've ever received. I hardly get complimented for my mind and intellect :')
We're both incredibly love and care about our fashion and the way we dress/present ourselves too. We both love abandoned and apocalyptic looking places, planning to go to some together. We make each other laugh a lot and send silly photos of our faces with filters and stuff to each other which is important to me because I like someone who can be both serious and silly, which is something Pisces doesn't like to do. Scorpio said "I really like your personality, your mind and you're genuinely beautiful". My heart is melting lol but I'm still gonna stand my ground because for me, actions matter more than flowery words.


He's the only one who's seen me in one of my huffy puffy, stressed out and argumentative moods with someone and it's a mood I don't really like showing to potential love interests. So I thought that would put him off, but he isn't. That means everything to me.

Scorpio has Sun, Moon, Mercury and Venus in Scorpio, but Mars in Libra. So I'm curious about what I'm dealing with here.

Frankly, Scorpio has bought me a drink and paid for it without telling me and offered to buy me a meal. And now on Sunday, we're planning to walk through a forest, go back to his where he'll cook dinner (I'm gonna help) and tie dye shirts together. Pisces is still too hung up from his breakup I think because I've gone home hungry from his place every time. No it's not their responsibility to feed me, but I was his guest, I feel it's a kindness to at least offer your guest and friend something to drink or eat when they're at your home. That's what I was taught anyway.

What are your astrological placements?

Virgo Sun, Pisces Moon, Gemini Rising, Libra Mercury, Libra Venus and Leo Mars. The confident, bright aura of my Leo Mars attracts a lot of people 💀

Libra Venus + Leo Mars = ho.

Wrong…Definitely not in my case!

Weak Venus. Not loyal. High libido and quite the temper.

It's just not a good combination. Example: OP is juggling 3 different men. Nasty.

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Bit presumptuous without actually knowing me. I'm not in a serious relationship with any of them, so I don't see why I can't have options to really understand who is the right one for once. I'm incredibly loyal once I'm serious about one person. I don't need sex/not horny everyday at all. The Pisces guy has the higher sex drive than me if anything, probably because of his Aries Venus.

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I think so, unless they have that unspoken sexual tension going on.

Yeah, I know. What a deep subject 🤯

Dude, don't get me started on the intoxicating or weird sexual tension. I thought it wasn't possible to be just friends, because the guy would always fall for me or vice versa. Or both of us end up crushing on each other. But I finally am just friends with a Taurus guy. He did have sexual feelings for me, but since I rejected having the same type of feelings, he is okay just being friends with me.

It's possible!

Posted by MareInfame
Scorpio sounds like the best choice👌🏼 Much more meaningful than the other two.

Pisces - isn’t “with you”. He’s still with his ex (heart and soul). So, you are wasting time with him.

Taurus - also waste of time. Only interested in an opportunity (not YOU). Opportunity for that threesome.


Good luck with the Scorpio… he sounds lovely 😍

Thank you, yeah you're right about the other two. Taurus reacted hurt to me saying I don't view him sexually, but I responded assertively and stood my ground. The only issue I've encountered with Scorpio so far is that he likes to talk about himself a bit more and likes to flaunt his achievements/flex his body 😅 maybe it triggers my Leo Mars idk 😂 I care more about heart, soul and mind than body flexing anyway. I get no one is perfect, but men, amirite?

Posted by LadyNeptune
I'm a fan of dating multiple people in the early stages. Keeps you from clinging onto someone too quickly and allows you to discover more about what you want and need from a partnership.
Personally was never into fucking multiple people at the same time, but that's me. Whatever works for you works for you.

As long as your honest with them and, most importantly, yourself... you can't go wrong.

You're not wrong. I am learning that through multiple people coming through at once, I'm able to discern who's actually right for me better

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Posted by allrounder
Some of you wanted updates about my Pisces vs Scorpio guy situation so here it is.

- Had sex with the Pisces twice but can say I feel used because he's healing from a breakup from a few months ago still. Also I feel like he judges me a lot more or misunderstands me more/we think a little too differently. He's a great, helpful friend though.

- Taurus guy has entered and keeps bothering me about having a threesome with him. But I've told him I'm not interested in him like that. Don't know what's his reply yet.

- Scorpio has the higher ground here. We're very similar in opinions especially when it comes to spirituality. He doesn't judge me (or as obvious as the Pisces anyway) and doesn't doesn't my views within spirituality either which is super important to me and something the Pisces failed at. Scorp and I also have the exact same ideal dream date. A picnic in nature/somewhere scenic. And he said "I like the way your mind thinks". And that compliment blows past most physical compliments I've ever received. I hardly get complimented for my mind and intellect :')
We're both incredibly love and care about our fashion and the way we dress/present ourselves too. We both love abandoned and apocalyptic looking places, planning to go to some together. We make each other laugh a lot and send silly photos of our faces with filters and stuff to each other which is important to me because I like someone who can be both serious and silly, which is something Pisces doesn't like to do. Scorpio said "I really like your personality, your mind and you're genuinely beautiful". My heart is melting lol but I'm still gonna stand my ground because for me, actions matter more than flowery words.


He's the only one who's seen me in one of my huffy puffy, stressed out and argumentative moods with someone and it's a mood I don't really like showing to potential love interests. So I thought that would put him off, but he isn't. That means everything to me.

Scorpio has Sun, Moon, Mercury and Venus in Scorpio, but Mars in Libra. So I'm curious about what I'm dealing with here.

Frankly, Scorpio has bought me a drink and paid for it without telling me and offered to buy me a meal. And now on Sunday, we're planning to walk through a forest, go back to his where he'll cook dinner (I'm gonna help) and tie dye shirts together. Pisces is still too hung up from his breakup I think because I've gone home hungry from his place every time. No it's not their responsibility to feed me, but I was his guest, I feel it's a kindness to at least offer your guest and friend something to drink or eat when they're at your home. That's what I was taught anyway.

What are your astrological placements?

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Virgo Sun, Pisces Moon, Gemini Rising, Libra Mercury, Libra Venus and Leo Mars. The confident, bright aura of my Leo Mars attracts a lot of people 💀

Posted by AbbyNormal
Dated that combo and—it’s really important you know what you want. They do. They want a faithful partner they can trust, not someone who will entertain multiple lovers. My ex fiancé had this same chart except for mercury in Sagittarius and he’s the best partner ive ever had by far. Cheating really hurts this type of person probably further than most. It’s hard for them to trust so that betrayal is a no no. When they leave, they leave for good. But they will try to make it work to all odds if they really care about you.

I see what you're saying, yeah. I am faithful and loyal. But I'm not even dating any of them right now. So I don't see why I can't be free for once and not commit my heart fully yet to any one of them until they show me who they are and their dedication to me. I'm also working through my own trust issues.

Since you've dated that astro combo though, how secretive are they? That's my biggest thing. I don't like people lying and keeping so many secrets from me 😅

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Posted by Krabss
Make sure scorp doesn't find out about the pisces, you are fucked. All personal planets in scorp, except for mars i'll pray for you 🙏

Been wondering about that...whether each knows about the others in this...square...

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Oh I have told none of this to Scorpio, reading about how possessive or jealous they can be. And how much they aren't afraid to use revenge. No thanks. I have two Scorpio parents so I know 💀 Taurus is the only one who fully knows what's going on. He wants the threesome before I get into a relationship with one of them pft because at least he doesn't support cheating.

Posted by Krabss
Make sure scorp doesn't find out about the pisces, you are fucked. All personal planets in scorp, except for mars i'll pray for you 🙏

For so many Scorpio placements, he seems pretty chill though 💀 I was expecting a much more intense personality. And I have 2 Scorpio parents so I know how intense they normally are. I know they're very secretive/not share all info type of people though.