I was having a debate with a few friends and wanted some anon feedback.

Is there any truth behind pillow talk? not just the you like that you like this.... but when people blurt out I love you etc. I know hormones are flying but. Should you take any of what's said for truth.... kind of like being drunk?

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You must be a bum if you have so much time for that tbh

Lmao my first thought too.
4xs a day, your skin is gonna rub off from the friction. Unless it’s a one minute man 🤣

By the way ladies, the honey pot brand makes an AMAZING vulva cream. 10 outta 10. Will soothe you after some rough sex
I want the 🐱 torn up in theory not reality 🥴

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After 2 orgasms I'm good for a session really, but I prefer the one and done during the week. After the gym lifting I'm typically horny.... nah. I like short sessions bc I don't beat off. I like 5-10 minutes of good fun.... I only really do the 30 min or more on weekends.

I like variety... some days/session just oral, or warm up and regular.... once women in my experienced are aroused you don't have to go to pound town for 10+ min. give em one or two O's and have them ready to come back....

but if I only orgasm once in a day... i'm still horny

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My Aqua was pretty lowish sex drive, she was more the cuddling type but when we happened to pass by a sex shop and she saw this ball clamp thing she got all touchy feely, strongly hinting that I should wear one.
So if you're willing to go there...

This^ Aquas like kinky stuff. Make it interesting, add new things, do not make it routine.

Also we are sapiosexual. Take her out to some interesting places, do something fun together, not only dinner, take her to exhibition for example then to a bar for drinks to chat about what you guys saw together. It will help her relax.

Take her outdoors for hiking and have sex in woods.

She's definitely sapiosexual.... any time I help her with statistics or editing a paper she's ready to pounce.

Btw, @ixi idea of having hobbies isn't out of blue. Maybe not for reason to kill time but Aquarius likes people who has their own life and interest they can share with them too

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most definitely. I have a ton of hobbies... so many that she's taken interest in a lot of them. we teach cycle classes sometimes together, we both hike, I bowl (she's terrible), I play soccer/football, we work out together, we both cook, like to travel. a lot of my hobbies she's taken on and vice-versa... literally best friends. I like when she goes out with friends because I take that time to actually do nothing but watch tv/sports.

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My Aqua was pretty lowish sex drive, she was more the cuddling type but when we happened to pass by a sex shop and she saw this ball clamp thing she got all touchy feely, strongly hinting that I should wear one.
So if you're willing to go there...

This^ Aquas like kinky stuff. Make it interesting, add new things, do not make it routine.

Also we are sapiosexual. Take her out to some interesting places, do something fun together, not only dinner, take her to exhibition for example then to a bar for drinks to chat about what you guys saw together. It will help her relax.

Take her outdoors for hiking and have sex in woods.

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She's definitely sapiosexual.... any time I help her with statistics or editing a paper she's ready to pounce.

Oh no no no.. I'm not worried about the leeb. the only problem is she told him Sunday she was going back to me, because he kept pressuring/trying to manipulate her to have sex and she kept saying no...and he flipped out... so that started some extra drama. She did tell me he asked to meet up to understand why she's going back and what he did wrong. The truth of the matter is she's already come back... even if its just fwb until everything dies down.

I've literally spent the last 6/7 days with her... we've had sex 5 of those days (Sunday included). like we used to actually. The only problem is she's been initiating the sex.... and I think its more for like make up sex. She doesn't say yes when I ask for it though.... she said it's because she knows I always want IT and because of that there is no reason for me to ask. I'd like to get it when I ask for it too though.

Seriously though, Between her job, sister, mom, school, future career, wanting to be a mom. It's just like how do you live in the moment. It's like you guys are playing chess in your heads by yourself and trying to figure out every right move. how do you think about the present and not 100s of potential outcomes

I was reading ranking charts and Sags rated 2 or 3 for sex drive (Scorps were 1 and cancer was either 2 or 3) and Aquas ranked 11 or 12 for sex drive.... so that's why I added sex because It was saying Aquas are so stuck trying to solve problems sex is an afterthought. so was just curious how to pull them out their thoughts.

How do we get Aquarius women out of their head to focus on the current situation/make decisions/have sex?

The cerebral processing these women do is off the charts.... what are some secrets to get them to live in the moment.

All this sag man hate… while I do like shiny new um toys…. I’ve kept it in my pants far more than out. I’m a very physical sag so if our drives don’t match up I’ll stay if everything else is great and wander so I don’t fight with you because your drive is low…. It’s tough just to leave someone you really like just because of sex

All this sag man hate… while I do like shiny new um toys…. I’ve kept it in my pants far more than out. I’m a very physical sag so if our drives don’t match up I’ll stay if everything else is great and wander so I don’t fight with you because your drive is low…. It’s tough just to leave someone you really like just because of sex

I didn’t think manual stimulation of my man tits got me aroused. You have aqua placements so maybe the quirks are curious to you. That’s just fucking weird. Maybe y’all had a convo where something like that was discussed?

I know nothing about cancer placements but he seems beta ish. Do you like beta type guys? I thought aquas were into alpha types.

When does your sex drive die down… I thought by 30 I would be “normal” but I’m pushing 40 and still am super horny daily and it might not be 4 rounds a day but 2-3 make me happy. I can go a day or two without then I’m cranky. Just curious

Are their placements that make you hyper sexual?

Huge flirt… don’t know why exactly… 🤷🏾‍♂️ I get reined in by friends all the time. Need a co@k blocker with me everywhere.

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Anybody that thinks the president actually has direct influence over issues that are happening right now (outside of student debt relief and other executive orders) has no business discussing politics. He’s actually doing the right thing in making Congress/house make the policies because that’s their jobs. You want to point fingers point to the deadlocked senate

Oh I bet you were the main one crying about Trump all day and how he ruined the world lol.

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Nope. Your pre-conceived notions are part of the problem we have in this country now. Neither trump or Biden are good candidates but at least one understands ego works for business and not actually dealing with people. You don’t have to build relationships sitting on a house of cards. Bravado only goes so far.

Anybody that thinks the president actually has direct influence over issues that are happening right now (outside of student debt relief and other executive orders) has no business discussing politics. He’s actually doing the right thing in making Congress/house make the policies because that’s their jobs. You want to point fingers point to the deadlocked senate

I’m in the 400s easily… don’t really want nobody to know that. I really don’t give a number I think that’s pretty ridiculous to do. I don’t have any stis or kids(I think) so move on.

But if I did give a low number it would be because I’m compensating for the girl being inexperienced. Women get self conscious if you’ve had plenty of partners or disgusted if they are more monogamous and long term relationshipy

I don't understand how you can magic 8 ball a question with your non-dominant hand? Like... you would have to answer the question just because the pen is in your other hand its not going to move like a ouiji board

Personally I think 18 is way too young to have a kid. I think I’m about ready now 20 years later… a young adult raising children without worldly knowledge and life experience is tough and potentially damaging. Especially seeing he’s not with the kids mom and the constant push/pull.

It sounds like he wants you to get in where you fit in. It’s cool he’s sweet and attentive, you sound like my aqua with her rebound. But don’t settle. He has some growing up to do and you are past that. Not to mention the love bombing will stop and you will start psychoanalysis and rational deduction(I see it already starting) … and you will regret it down the line.

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Also, Sag men, What characteristics that a Gemini woman possess that makes you fall in love with her as compared to the Sag woman? I notice that when a Sag man discuss a Gemini woman, he calls her his queen and beautiful, and is head over heels. But when referring to a Sag woman, he just states that she is fun, and that she gets him

I would say the Gemini I dated, I liked her because she's fun and she got me.... it's that dual personality that's a drag. Sex was eh tooo.

the sag..... its like you are both the same.... its really like a good friend that you can do anything with.... no depth really there, both are looking for adventure.... so you got an instant buddy to do things with, but no teeth....at the same time its light and fun.

That sounds boring. lol I'mma have to take my love back 😏 Light and fun adventure is for friends.

FWB! grrrr yeah baby yea

FWB on my terms only lol Fucc yo FWB!!!

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LMAO. I luv you... sexually....not emotionally...that's too committal.

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Gemini woman . Two sags together would be a bit one-dimensional and emotionless and not enough attachment to keep them together

And you believe that a noncommittal Gemini woman would attach to a Sag man better?

Geminis commit it's just that people don't let us go hot and cold and do our thing. We're committed underneath but they look too much on the surface and get fearful and once you do that you will push the Gem away. Sags don't care, they just want to have fun and if you say no to them they will go have fun with someone else so that frees the Gem so she doesn't have to worry and she'll want to be with him more and more

Hey you. Nice to see you back!
And yup so true. There is a certain amount of stability in the freedom you give a Gemini, once a person understands their needs.

Answering Op's question-I think Gemini women are better suited for Sag Men as well. I find most Sag men to be boring and non committal. I don't find Geminis to be this way. Geminis are very upfront about their feelings, so things progress and get deeper then surface level.

Boooring?!? you think I'm boring @saggurl88

That's what she said...Lol! Besides, you would choose a Gem over a Sag, now would'nt you?

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I'd take Gem over Sag yes... depending on placements... GEM with the on/off switch is a PITA... unless she's worth it most of the time.

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Also, Sag men, What characteristics that a Gemini woman possess that makes you fall in love with her as compared to the Sag woman? I notice that when a Sag man discuss a Gemini woman, he calls her his queen and beautiful, and is head over heels. But when referring to a Sag woman, he just states that she is fun, and that she gets him

I would say the Gemini I dated, I liked her because she's fun and she got me.... it's that dual personality that's a drag. Sex was eh tooo.

the sag..... its like you are both the same.... its really like a good friend that you can do anything with.... no depth really there, both are looking for adventure.... so you got an instant buddy to do things with, but no teeth....at the same time its light and fun.

That sounds boring. lol I'mma have to take my love back 😏 Light and fun adventure is for friends.

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FWB! grrrr yeah baby yea

Welcome to the club. is his moon where his fire is? placements are important.

Aqua sun/Aries moon - They are really like unevolved sags in a way. Aquas rationalize EVERYTHING and don't make a decision.... SAGs jump at EVERYTHING and rationalize afterwards and don't make a decision lol... But placements help. we all need some grounding at some point.

Aquas and sags get along great.... its when does the depth happen that is normally the problem.