You're short aren't you Cajun????

But to me u feel genuine and I'm sure he can tell to.. just live by the virgo saying if it's meant to be it will be. U did enough now u just wait.

I get this too, you've done enough for now. You need to stop contacting him and let him realize you're someone that he wants to have around. He seems to like you as a person as he comes to talk with you when he sees you but if he feels you are chasing him and he hasn't made up his mind where he wants you in his life then he may just take the high road and stop all communication. Point is Dont scare him off, he may start to feel like he is being stalked!

The other thing is I hope you are also open if he is not interested in you as anything more than a work collegue.

So we can see where the newest comments are coming in. Being in a different country and having different time zones it makes it differcult to tell what the time is where this site originates from. We in Australia are from what I can gather something like 12 hours ahead.

The whole idea of this board ladies is the pros and cons of situations and hearing other peoples input into it, so you can then assess it yourself having heard from different angles. You are never going to get 100% agreement on any given situation and depending on it you will get alot of negative. If however you aren't prepared to hear about the negative because you dont feel it applies then dont address it or let it go over your head.

If all that gets too much then simply dont put yourself out there for public opinion!

If I have in fact offended you it wasnt my intention.

Do they??? Not in my world... that's what I put it down to. You English and Americans are so forward in thinking and obviously actions.

I've never seen or heard of anyone in Australia/NZ go to great lengths to search for a random they met one night. (In my circle of friends and friends of friends etc)

Not that I'm against it, each to their own. Just new to my world but I'm learning lots on dxp about people.

We Librans get cursed and laters too all the time but then I think lost signs do. Maybe it's the way you feel about what they are genralising about you guys. Look at the Scorp board now they have alot of haters BUT the difference is they take it as compliments and how great they are in bed or how everyone just wants to be with them!!!! lol

You know with P's advice she sometimes goes a little overboard but that's just through frustration with some of the crazies on this site. Mostly her comments make a lot of sense but the truth is also a hard thing to take at times when you are emotionally caught in the situation.

Now back to you, personally I think people should talk face to face, you cant see reactions through texting or computers and you cant really have a genuine discussion. Guys dont necessarily want to talk about emotions anyway so he may even not want to go through the whole thing with you but you have to try if you have finally made up your mind on him. Get your answer once and for all and then live your life.

I just read the book Act like a lady, think like a man. Steve says yes you are entitled to ask those questions out right and so you should. Why woman dont ask some of the hard questions just makes it all the more easier for men to have relationships with no commitment. So go get your answers and DONT settle for anything less than you want, it's not about compromise!

Hey you are obviously both not ready at this point so why force the issue and maybe in the future you will both be in different stages of your life and be ready for each other.

Yes Satori, maybe so and good luck to her I hope she does manage to find him and then let us all know about it.

BUT it is rather a drastic measure to put adds in local papers and generally going on a witch hunt looking for a man she had met for a couple of hours. Most would obsess over them but wouldn't put it into action like this. Maybe going back to the club in hope that he also may go back there too. It does look rather desparate when i dont think she is the desparate type!

As a woman I'd be really flattered if a guy did this for me...I wonder how a man would feel about it?!!?!?!?

You will be judged because you've left yourself WIDE open to it, you are the type that would fuck a woman's husband just because you have no respect for yourself and would try to steal him away.

the grass is always greener with you lot!


Read & listen to the mature 17 year old ^^^^^^^^

And your comment about the other girl....I would put this down to DUMB & DUMBER!!!!! If you didnt get that you are the dumber one at least she has the man answering to her!

Oh and no doubt he will be back, and you'll promise to keep your mouth shut next time so that it doesn't upset his girlfriend. Why wouldn't you go back and bang the silly mole that gives sex with no strings!

These 2 ladies are giving you some insight to what it looks like from the outside in so dont be offended but take it in to consideration as to why he would act/speak the way he does.

You've heard the saying "actions speak louder than words"...well your actions are clearly stating "friendship" to him, therefore as a friend or mate he will tell you of his conquests as he would a male friend. Your actions are there all the time you are with him.

Your words which you have stated twice aren't heard, as he has both times said. "you dont like me like that" and no discussion has gone any further.


Personally I think you should decide whether you want to take a chance at a relationship with this guy or whether you think the friendship is worth more. If it is the friendship then you'll have to suck it in when he talks about who he may be dating or with.

If you think there is more, then you need to approach him...he may only ever see you as a friend but you need to at least find out for sure...which means talking!

Well I cant work out whether you are for real or not! This sounds like a JOKE if you ask me cos I cant imagine someone would be so utterly dumb or have "NO SELFWORTH" at all.

If you are for real you need to go to councilling and learn to love yourself. Not much more to say there, at 23 you should be mature enough to have some insight!

Sorry dont think anyone here can help you...

You're friends...so try asking him

How old are you KB?

OH SHIT ANOTHER ONE@! Go back and re-read your post again and if the answer doesn't come back and smack you in the face... THEN YOU'RE TRUELY LOST!!!!

And I'm being polite!

OH SHIT ANOTHER ONE@!

Hey Star, the ninety day rule chapter should be posted here for a few of these girls to read...Particularly a few of the ones that hang out in the Libran forum! I dont frequent all the signs but I guess there'd be a few in all of them!

Yes I'm still learning...but more open to personal change and one thing that has always bothered me is someone paying for me. Even so far as my gf pointing out she has noticed I wont allow them too either. Hmmm something I can try and work on and NOT feel I have to give something back in return.

Also learnt from my ex to do things for myself whether it be the heavy lifting or moving around of furniture etc because if I had to wait on him to do it for me then I'd be old & grey before it happened or I'd be nagging all the time. So I became Ms Independent that doesnt need anyone to do for me.

Oh wouldn't it be nice to have someone around to do some of that stuff!!!

All in all this is a GREAT book to read, very easy reading too.

Well if he does then he's a keeper!!!! lol

What would PP know about a pretty woman??? He's only into pretty men! lol