.......doubt that you are giving off the vibes that you dont want, if the attention that you are getting is not what you want...soooo, dont think that it is anything that you are doing...and dont doubt yourself miss libra...i know how that it!! and i also know why you dont know how to address it...because you werent looking for that kind of attention to begin with and when you got it,
it threw you off for a bit, and also you dont like to be rude or hurt other's feelings...right?!?!??!
I've been thinking and when someone comes in with a flattering remark to just come back with, thanks but what do you expect to get from that?
And when someone offers to pay for my drink (I dont like men paying esp if I dont know them) do you still want to pay if I have no intention of talking to you?
GEEZ I know it sounds rehearsed but these are the 2 most common occurances, sometimes they are drunk and sometimes they are just old and forward (generally the ones that offer to buy because they think that's the way to get to talk to you)
@SD What sort of trash blatantly asks a woman to go home with him? What a lack of respect!
This is what upsets me, I know I shouldn't make it about me but I find it HIGHLY OFFENSIVE that a guy looks and trys to treat me like this!
And I think it calls for ME being a little MORE Agressive in the above situations!
M Bull, grow up you've pulled this accusation out of your arse for Ging.
Where do you get that she is jealous of her sister (because she's a clean freak and can't understand why her sister can live like that??) or where her fiance wants to screw her sister. Clearly she has upset you for whatever reason and you are just trying your damndest to get a reaction!
Maybe you should have had a little more fun when you were younger then you wouldn't be sooo bent and twisted over someone on an internet site
You'll know the mother of your babies when you meet her diddy, no rush you are still young...in fact most guys need to be at least over 30 to even be mature enough to be having babies. It's a huge commitment and one that is generally left to the mothers to handle!
Ok so you are saying you are the exception...the 20 odd percent that really can keep their feelings out? Cos you cant say that it can be 100% as we couldn't say that either but I feel it would swing more in our favor.
Go on with your life as before you guys hooked up and stop waiting around for him period!
If he makes a plan with you, tell him that if he's still keen on whatever day it is he can call then and confirm. Sounds like he's lazy & boring if all he wants to do is hang out doing nothing... Do you want someone like that because he won't change!
The only good thing so far is that he actually talks and listens.
I think you should really assess whether you want to be with this guy or not...can you see yourself with him in 20 years and what sort of life can you see? Sometimes we can be blinded by what we think we want or having someone to love us so we feel more fulfilled.
Go back to the basics and make him chase you again, whatever made him chase after you in the beginning throw it back out there. Get him working for what he wants.
And stop with the arguements, I know you are frustrated with him because you aren't getting what you need but I bet he doesn't even know why or what these arguements are over. They are probably stupid little things which will eventually turn him off you. Some people think that the make up sex is the best thing, NOT Librans they would rather not have to go through arguing...it upsets our scales! And if it's constant then we will look for a way to escape!!!
Muse, we always think of the good times of past loves when we are unhappy. But the thing is we never remember why we left in the first place so if you get weak and want to contact him...start thinking of the reasons you left.
I'm happy being single...maybe a little lonely for intimacy at times but love my freedom and just looking out for me
OFA thats exactly what I think happens with the girls...we are effected differently with sex. I would even think over a period of time had my FWB gone more than the 3 rounds perhaps into more like months then I would've started having expectations of some sort. I think it's just the way women are.