The problem is with men & women is that you dont speak the same language. It's not a star sign thing at all.
You suggest some fun sporting thing and he tries to back out... I would too mostly, it's probably not something he is interested in so therefore it doesn't appeal. DO you have anything in common...go with that. It's about geting to know each other and doing the things you BOTH like together. Not just something you like the sounds of. Many times I see women dragging their spouses out shopping and they really DONT look like they are having fun. In fact I bet neither end up having a good time!
@somechick,
no we dont like being confronted about personal feelings etc but I would think that is because it's at a point where we haven't made up our minds on it. From what I've seen here you girls are wanting to know how these guys feel about you after they have been going out for a month or two and pushing for clarification of an exclusive relationship! Try not having sex with them til you get what you want!
If however it is talking about something that has come up within your realtionship then pre-warn about the topic first and give a little time so they can digest it and have some answers. I think it's being put on the spot that makes us feel like we are being cornered.
And to be honest I think I'd run from another Libra as I've worked hard on myself and making snap decisions esp on the small stuff because I found it all too frustrating!! lol