Well I dont know about being a slut P, I think they fool themselves into thinking that they'll inch their way into the persons heart this way BUT in fact they are putting out so, it then comes down to "Why buy the cow if the milk comes free?" scenario...
I think it's been feed into both women and men that there are 10 men to every one woman(probably more, not sure on the stats) so there is this desparation on the woman's part and men holding themselves out for "the exception" but in the meantime taking all that's on offer!
Was at the casino last night in one of the bars and the attitude of men, they think they can just flick you an eye and you'll come running or in talking to you, you will give it up! One guy was piss(sistant) enough that around 3 other guy mates he kept coming back not taking NO!!!! Then at the end of the night, there was a circling of men around the joint like SHARKS for their prey...the desaparate few left were just being picked up!!!! **Shakes head**
Back to the FWB, As Lady M says: I agree!
It only works for a woman who is utterly embarrassed of her "friend"...but enjoys the sex and conversation.
what you described ... "getting in with a guy long enough to try and turn the tables on him" ... isn't friend relationship, rather a manipulation.
In which case, the woman in this scenerio isn't even his friend, if she is lying to him about her intentions .. in which case, if she isn't even his friend and treetrunking him ... then it's not even FWB ...
I agree it is a manipulation, it's part of the game play that most women think they have to do in order to get someone. Looking around this thread everyone is playing it or asking how to...
And I also feel that what starts as a FWB in the womens mind changes during the sex...fucking is just that with most men but with women it's a whole different thing...
Hey when I meet up with people from my past...(school days) I look at where they are today, back at school I was a nobody special and a wont get anywhere type unlike all the cool kids. But today I have a very comfortable life and DON'T have to work and I look good too, so I dont see anything wrong with feeling great about that! Not that I would rub it in anyones face out right but just happily pleased with my own progress.
To be honest most people that look after themselves feel good and there aint nothing wrong with that, I admire big women that oooze confidence, they normally have great personalities! And I dont think it's just Librans it's the positive people with their glasses half full!
Over here in Australia they eat fish and prawns! Never heard of any of that before either but it's the Aussie way.
And you were right the first time, it's the celebration of the last supper when he broke the leven bread and passed it around and then the wine a symbol of his body & blood. Sunday is when he died and Monday his resurrection.
Your just being stupid right PP??? You mean to say you've been walking around for 19 years and you have no idea what Good Friday and Easter is??? You had no idea why they call it a public holiday or were even curious? You dont have to be a church goer to have your eyes and ears open. And fyi it's not just old, boring & ugly people that go to church.
Maybe it's the German because my mother doesn't have much of a temper or it dont show much, she gets hurt and gives me the crocodile tears to get what she wants, both to me and my step dad...but we are on to her now!
BUT the grudges...yep that'l be a scorp thing! And the silent treatment...mostly though she comes back to make peace with me 80% of the time BUT will NEVER ADMIT IF SHE IS WRONG... where I have learnt to.
My daughters bf who was exactly half my age last birthday and I get on really well together. We could talk easily enough and would pick up on each others moods. We generally liked one another BUT he frustrated me on loads of things. Can't comment on the physical at all as he is like a son but if I had to put my mind there...he was too much like me and the things I dont like about myself and want/would like to change.
At the end of the day I think I would end up hating someone like that as a partner!
i think it's also natural to be curious of someone that shares something like a birthday or similar upbringing with you and it's only EVIL if....you act on it!
I'd say yes for me, if I loved you as a partner/lover i'd come back....
She said she wants to live alone and make mistakes while she is still young
This is something that is bugging her and she has to see for herself, we dont do things unless we are almost 100% sure that it is the right decision.
I dont fully understand the letter unless that was her way of letting you know how much she cares in the hope that you may wait for her to come to her senses. We want our cake and eat it plain and simple & if it doesn't work out for her you could be around to pick up where she left off!! I know that sounds very selfish but unfortunetly that's the way it is...I think alot of people can be like that.
Oh and if she has asked you not to contact her then dont! That will probably bug her more than anything...the act that you have gotten on with your life as if it meant nothing for her to have left in that manner. I would think that at some stage around 3 months or so she'll accidentally contact or run into you.
Play it cool-warm but not cold or hot...
My ex was a cancer...a dynamic relationship, I love him forever!
Of course you knew the answer but just wanted confirmation that it was the right one!
Yeah Ging we are like that, I cant tell a guy trying to hit on me that I'm really not interested because you look 100 years old and I look 30 to fuck off and I wish I could!!! So what do I do, I politely chat to them and try to find some stupid bullshit excuse to get away so I dont offend him when I feel as if they are offending me in even trying!!!! I drive myself mental!!
So yeah definetly know where you are coming from there, but you'll find a way to politely tell her to piss off , without her realising that's exactly what you're saying!
I see alot of Scorp women like their Libran men. Mostly not a great match from here. The last guy I was with was a Scorp, never been with another and not sure I'd bother again. Couldn't take the hot and cold treatment but then that might have been the maturity thing! Or possible men in general these days...
Yeah my daughters nearly 20 and she is a nut case over Edward!! Hey Vegas sounds the place to be then huh? They only started closing everything down the last couple of years and so now it's illegal to be open at all, use to be until 12 in the afternoon. The clubs open at 12 midnight but it's the days that drag on. Not one to sit and watch the box for long periods of time!
You mean what's good about Friday??? PP Are you serious? It's the last supper celebration of Christ supposedly...
So turn the tables and ask him what he was doing with his ex and whether he feels what you did was worse than what he was doing. Make a point of where he is coming from and how self rightous he is trying to come off.
If his only problem is the fact that you lied he needs to get over that before you can move on in your relationship. He's probably only upset because of his guilt in what he got up to during the split.
You are young & naive but you dont have to be bullied in a relationship, this guy sounds controlling and being in the army they are taught to be that way. Be careful, go in with your eyes wide open, go in as his EQUAL not a sub-servient other. Which is the way it looks from here.
Get rid of her, cant you smell a rat? She's already telling you she is more fun to be with and trying to come between you and aries...soon enough she will be causing trouble between you and aries.
Sometimes us Librians have to make stand and tell someone straight up that their attention is not wanted. You've made up your mind that you dont want her like that, so whats stopping you, the scales seem well balanced in this situation.
Oh and drop the friendship cos you cant be friends with someone that wants you...really