Never got with a Gemini before but a good friend is one and he is in and out of relationships all the time. Even moves in with someone and it doesn't last longer than a year. His marriage didnt work as he commited adultary and then that relationship went no where after they produced a child. So I would think thwice with a gem should I meet one, he is full on in love within the first few dates and then runs as fast as he can whne the woman is hooked!!

Mum - Scorp
Dad - Libra
Step Dad - Libra

Me - Libra

Hate my father but that's because he was an alcoholic when he left and after 37 years is stil an alcoholic and thought it was OK after all those years to bring it around my children when he came to visit!

Mum and I dont see eye to eye much so we are best only seeing each other once a week or maybe twice, I have no patience with her but I think it's more the Asian side than the star sign. She to me isn't fair...

Step Dad is great and will do anything to help. Love him

Thanks Lou, problem here is most of the time I can be here you guys are all asleep. Think there is somewhere around 10-12 hours difference! Here in Auss everything closes now even the pubs and clubs...not that I want to hang at the clubs playing those silly poker machines.

Ended up watching Twilight again with my daughters and a friend...bored already half way through so I thought I'd check in again here.

Outside is fairly quiet all around...even my screaming neighbors aren't screaming at each other which in itself is a flaming miracle!!

It's the only day of the year that nothing is open and it's the only day that i always want to DO SOMETHING like go shopping or eat out or have a drink out!!!! Yes it's probably more because it's the only day, at least Christmas day is full on with family etc. We aren't religious so the day means nothing to us except that everything is shut!!!

So I'm eating chocolate and cooking because I'm bored so I want to eat!

I think you need to take direction of your own life and let him fall into it where he will or where you want him. You still want him around but you need to get out there and do things with him and without him. That'll gently let him know he cant be there every single day.

Yes you are falling back into the same routine that you had with him before the split and you know you dont want that,
as you are starting to feel smothered and bored with him again. It's almost like hindsight so now it's up to you to be able to make the moves to keep your man and also spice up your life to where you want it.

Oh not one for those types of movies but funny I relate to you because of that pic.

Maybe so Vhero, but love will see you through to a nice friendship when all is said and done. With love generally comes respect. And at the end of it all it's nice to be able to maintain that sort of relationship with someone you invested so much time with

Is that your real picture MM?

No it suits you and makes you look like the type that takes NO CRAP! Which I'm sure is true to you...hehhe

Haha that was my ex of 20 years and I!

Hun if he really wanted you he wouldnt be messing with you. You need to get strong and make a firm decision to keep out of his way then. i know it's not easy because you want to be around him...been there but at the end of the day you are too good for all this bullshit.

Believe that there will be someone that will consider you "The exception" You're young and you really want someone that will be there all the time standing beside you...especially when further on down the track there may be kids involved. he is showing NO signs of being dedicated or honest & faithful if he can treat you like this now!!!

that was quick, did you read my mind???

What happened to your pic??? You dont look anywhere near as mean now ging! haha

I text alot too but have learnt that it doesn't help in an intimate relationship where you want the person to feel you and visa versa.

i truely beleive it's a lazy form of communication cos it certainly isn't much cheaper than a call esp if you have to text back several times to get the point across.

I'm with you Ging, if they are deserving then yeah no problem but if they are a rat then Hell No!!! And I'd probably rub it in just to see the reaction!!!!

Why do you bother?? This guy has been dicking you around for months now and you keep hanging around. i dont think he is playing games with you, you seem to be the only one playing and in doing this you are tearing yourself apart!! Do yourself a favor and listen, stay away from him and where he hangs out. I know it's a hard thing to do and will take sometime to get over him 3-6 months but you do need to take yourself away from the situation SS and stop destroying yourself!!

He really doesnt care what you're feeling. Get strong in the belief that you are a beautiful person and at the end of the day it is his lose! Only you can help you now!

@ P

Cool glad your 100% certain, having just come out of a separation and one that was quite amicable I know for a fact that when others get involved it can start to turn things in ones mind! particularly SOLICITORS, (it's their job to drag things out as long as possible and they are good at stirring) & family & mutual friends. The tug of war is harder than some would think and to add to it money plus wrongful doing...you'd have to be quite a person to be able to stand your ground through it.

Me a Libra, he a sagi...20 yrs

nothing that I would call a relationship in the lst 3 1/2 years. Enjoying singledom but still eyes wide open...

Are you sure P??? If you were traded in for a younger model can you honestly say that you would still be willing to give half away for him to throw at her???

Well that would depend on why you were splitting up in the first place. if it was him leaving or infidelity on his part then I probably wouldn't!

However I think that by law, is the ticket was purchased before you split and with your joint monies then the spouse is legally entitled to 50% . That would be the other consideration, dont know if 50% would be what I was willing to give so there would have to be some secrecy on how much was won etc!