Not in my case of the Sagi being 3rd highest...although 20 years is a good run

Obviously he's made his mind up!

Talk to him about it and if you're not ready then let him know that....only problem there is that if you pro-long the situation then most guys will carry on with the relationship and it might not ever come up again....even when you are ready!

Why is it that men and women are never on the same page????

Hahaha bonding caps...how sweet

When I have been at parties (which I now avoid) or at gatherings I am one of those people around whom others gather and are always smiling, laughing and enjoying themselves.

You're a good looking man, people are drawn in by looks.



I feel for you, if you want this addressed, have you tried counseling? Your name alone (Depressed Angel) makes me feel that something has happened to you when you were young to bring about this outcome. Not to say that being a loner is wrong but getting answers to understand yourself better could help you alot.

Are you close with anyone, mother, father, sister, brother?

You interacting & sharing on the net here at dxp shows that you do want company...

A skinny little white guy gets into an elevator, looks up and sees this
HUGE black guy standing next to him. The big guy sees the little guy
staring at him, looks down, and says:

'7 feet tall, 350 pounds, 20 inch dick, 3 pound testicles, Turner Brown.'

The white man faints and falls to the floor.
The big guy kneels down and brings him to, shaking him.
The big guy says: 'What's wrong with you?'
In a weak voice the little guy says,

'What EXACTLY did you say to me?'
The big dude says: 'I saw your curious look and figured I'd just give you
the answers to the questions everyone always asks me.

I'm 7 feet tall, I weigh 350 pounds, I have a 20 inch dick, my testicles weigh

3 pounds each and my name is Turner Brown.'

The small guy says: 'Turner Brown. . . .. Sweet Jesus, I thought you said,

'turn around'.'

If you yelled for 8 years, 7 months and 6 days you would have produced
enough sound energy to heat one cup of coffee.
(Hardly seems worth it.)

If you farted consistently for 6 years and 9 months, enough gas is
produced to create the energy of an atomic bomb. (Now that's more like
it!)

The human heart creates enough pressure when it pumps out to the body
to squirt blood 30 feet.
(O.M..G.!)

A pig's orgasm lasts 30 minutes.
(In my next life, I want to be a pig)

A cockroach will live nine days without its head before it starves to
death (Creepy.)
(I'm still not over the pig)

Banging your head against a wall uses 150 calories an hour
(Don't try this at home,maybe at work)

The male praying mantis cannot copulate while its head is attached to
its body. The female initiates sex by ripping the male's head off.
(Honey, I'm home. What the...?!)

The flea can jump 350 times its body length. It's like a human
jumping the length of a football field.
(30 minutes..lucky pig! Can you imagine?)

The catfish has over 27,000 taste buds.
(What could be so tasty on the bottom of a pond?)

Some lions mate over 50 times a day.
(I still want to be a pig in my next life...quality over quantity)

Butterflies taste with their feet.
(Something I always wanted to know.)

The strongest muscle in the body is the tongue.
(Hmmmmmm..)

Right-handed people live, on average, nine years longer than left-handed people.
(If you're ambidextrous, do you split the difference?)

Elephants are the only animals that cannot jump.
(Okay, so that would be a good thing)

A cat's urine glows under a black light.
(I wonder who was paid to figure that out?)

An ostrich's eye is bigger than its brain.
(I know some people like that.)

Starfish have no brains
(I know some people like that too.)

Polar bears are left-handed.
(If they switch, they'll live a lot longer)

Humans and dolphins are the only species that have sex for pleasure.
(What about that pig??)
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It comes second to nature with the Y generation and there isn't anything wrong with texting in general, but think that somethings shouldn't be texted... for instance texting to inform someone that someone close has died!! Discussing the breakdown of the realtionship and whether to fix it or not. IMO of course

For instance as a Virgo if a relationship is going really well I might pull back a little so as not to smother the other person involved.....pacing the relationship if you will.


WOW believe it or not that really shed some light on the matter!! I would have thought it was a control movement a sort of tug-a-war. And funnily enough it's what I would do like in the case of friends when we are seeing each other a little too much.

Yeah, I've decided that I'm going to rule it out with the next guy that I'm interested in. I think the thrill of ringing someone and breathing in their ear as stormy says was part of the excitment. You aren't sure what to say but you know you just want to hear them! Of course I'd have to hit it on the head as one of the rules of dating! lol

You read some of the threads here and couples are in trouble with their romances and they are texting each other to get the point across??? WTF???

I guess if I'm doing that it's a COP OUT, easy to text and send it through and not face up to it. Still I guess it's going to continue this way more and more and eventually we will become like robots, swallowing pills for food and all dressing the same.

Biggest mistake is stupidly thinking you could be friends after screwing someone that has feelings for you when you are involved with someone else and not thinking there would be a reaction from your action!!

Take some time out and think about others and not solely yourself especially when you are going to hurt someone else in your choices.

Secondly, except some of the blame to his reaction. The guy is hurting and wants to hurt you back or make you love him, obviously he isnt thinking straight right now. No fool like an old fool as they say, have you ever stopped to think of how much damage you may have caused to his self esteem????

It's never a one sided, within a relationship breakdown whether it was FWB or exclusive but with you gloating here of how you've fucked someone else up, that dont look to great on you personally!

Well could it be looked at as, the mirror effect in which we act out the way we are and have been treated? I see alot more men abusing a womans love than I see visa versa plus read about it here in the threads.

Then again it's promoted through the tv's, movies and stars globally that sex without commitment is sooo acceptable so if moral standards are being lower and glamorized then it's acceptable isn't it??

With friends texting is good, you do get to the point but with guys, if they are breathing in your ear at least it's putting them on the spot to actually communicate for real. How is it then when you meet up with them, do they have anything to say or do they just look at you? At some stage there has to be open communication dont you think...unless it's only sex and you want nothing more!

One thing I've noticed is that these days everyone opts for texting instead of phoning, personally I feel it leaves alot of room for doubt and mixed messages as men & women see/read things differently.

A sign of the times maybe....but it's a lazy form of dating and it seems to be allowing the guys to use this tool as a BOOTY CALL more than to actually get back to basics and learn to communicate. As if these guys need any less encouragement on talking to us!

Not to mention sneaky texts to someone that you desire whether they are in a relationship or not, heard of soooo many people being caught out from spouses checking their partners phones etc.


Do you think this adds to the break down and lack of respect/communication there is out there these days?

He's acting like he got nothing in return from me....uh huh.

YOUR WORDS NOT MINE!

It's hard not to look judgemental when you so readily point out the facts and think it's a great joke that this guy bought expensive gifts for you (with your hints of desire)and then you laugh in his face when he tells you how much he is in love you! I've seen people who drop hints of what they want, it's quite sickening really but some fall for it and provide as yours did, poor fool! Difference with you gf's is that they aren't there to win you over so there is NO comparison!

Seems to me that is why you tried to keep up the friendship, so you could see what else you could get from it..I ask who paid for all the dinners/movies/outings of the 4 dates?

So send back the gifts as you would a diamond ring bought under false pretence...

WOW you guys are really showing us here that once it's over it really is over huh? You have read the threads here and how the guys are doing the hot/cold thing with most chicks in all star signs.

So maybe my questions should be What is with the Hot/Cold treatment, what does it mean and are we wasting our time?

Posted by AquariusGoddess
Yeah....I just don't understand the things that he chose to tell my boyfriend. He told him that I was a GOLDDIGGER .....uhhhmmm okaaaay. Everytime this Libra guy brought me something its because HE WANTED TO.

Like I wanted a blackberry pearl and I mentioned to him that I wanted one and he all surprised me with one. He wrapped it all beautifully...and I was like "Thanks, but YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO." and he said "Oh, I wanted to." My lap top broke and I threw a whole bunch of money away on trying to get it fixed to no avail....and I didn't even ask him and he brought me a new and expensive laptop. I DIDN'T EVEN ASK. I couldn't afford my gym membership anymore so I was bummed about dropping it and when I called to cancel it...I found out he had gone to the gym and prepaid my membership for a year.

And he paid for tons of other stuff too...BUT I never asked for or even expected these things from him....he went out on his own and did these things. And now he's using it against me like this????????? WTF. He's acting like he got nothing in return from me....uh huh.

You mentioned the blackberry and that you wanted one and he bought it....YOU ASKED! When you excepted the first gift it was a way of telling him that's what you want from him...you hold out your love and probably gave more to him after he bought you gifts. Seriously you knew what you were doing, complaining that you cant afford your gym membership and complaining about not being able to fix your computer. How dumb do you think people are, you clearly were milking the guy for all this and giving back in return...some people would call that something else!!!

Well hope this guy gets over you pretty fast and remember "What goes around comes around!"

Thanks Dream, which one are you in the pic?

Funny how guys can cut off completely and GET OVER someone when ladies dream on for months even if the guy was no good she's still willing to take him back and try again. Hmmmm

Which star sign are you?

Like to hear from an indecisive Librian Male...

Ahahahaha that may be a problem with having a younger guy. All the real exercise we need is in the sack They have sooo much more energy and want to still play which is great if you have always maintained that life style but can be hard if you haven't. I gym regularly but I know my limitations and certainly dont over do anything, it really isnt worth all the pain afterwards!

Go with it but make sure he and you are aware of what your body can and cant take!


To be honest all that sounds way too much for me esp the one week cycle tour!!!! You got to be joking!!! I wouldn't last an hour! lol

Relationships. Def not libras!! lol maybe cancer, saggy, I'm limited here
partnerships?
friendships. def Taurus, cancer, aqua, scorp
families. leo, virgo, cancer

funnily, cancers & taurus are prominent in my life. Others I only know one of each or have never asked.

Ok no takers, ladies should I plant one of these on a few boards? Which signs do you want feed back from? If any. Probably def Scorps...