I pinched this thread from Dogs who pinched it from the Aries board, but its an interesting one

Best Match For Libras

In relationshjips?

In partnerships?

As friends, companions?

In families?

She has a hell of a lot of patience trying to help people that dont really want to listen. Fine words of wisdom. Sometimes it takes going through a time where you do actually hate men to be able to see through them!

Unless you can turn your feelings off for him...which you've already admitted you cant then it has to be the way it is. Just as well he is an awesome guy that wouldnt take advantage of you in that way, your vunerability. But he's done the best thing by you by distancing himself. Someone will come around the corner one day and they will be willing to wait until you are ready whether that be by marriage or whenever you choose. STOP making excuses for the way you feel about sex before marriage. GOOD ON YOU for having the class to be able to stick with that, you are one in a million!

2nd time around...should be better than the first time (Song)

Alas..it was the same! we were explosive the first time with our differences of opinion and that certainly didnt change the second time around. We still had a firey relationship hot & heated in and out of the bedroom! No regrets though!

My good friend has webbed toes!!!!! EEEEWWWWWWW I cant even look at them, imagine being with someone and they wanted you to suck them!

Yeah the stars have been saying that the last month. Nobody has with me but then I've moved country and another is dead so hope he doesnt!!!!!

STOP trying to Sabatage your new relationship!!!

Yes Librians do this there was a thread here a few months back and it seems like it's a librian thing to do. Your insecurities are coming from other failed relationships and you need to realise that if you bring this into your new relationship you will end up pushing him away!


I've been having some inner-world trouble. I'm dating a GREAT guy. He's a Sag and we get along perfectly. He is demonstrative and romantic (but not too romantic). He never leaves me wondering, always calls or texts. He always makes an effort and it's wonderful to be with a man like that for a change.

Listen to yourself and what you are saying here..just be happy and go with it.

Me wonders WHY you would go out with Libra again, yes agreeing to remain friends is one thing but why would you go on a date??? Not once or twice but THREE times...sorry FOUR!! Even if the bf knew, you were still leading the Librian on and messing with his feelings AGAIN! I can see why he would be hurt and wanting to fuck your life a little!!!

You see you might fool yourself into thinking that it's ok and in a grown up world you can be friends with someone you fucked around with but Evidently and in Reality YOU CAN'T, real people real feelings!

Also be on the watch for the consequence of your action with your Gemini...it'll always be in the back of his mind...

Think guys here are too chicken to answer real questions honestly...

As I said I've been in that situation briefly and all I worried about is what people would think and at the end of the day they didnt think badly at all. Relationships are difficult, alot dont make it past the first 1-3 months anyway for loads of reasons. If the situation came up again I wouldn't have any hesitation in exploring it, so if it feels right with you go with it but take it slow. Fav saying:

It's better to have loved and lost , than not to have loved at all!

So you'd suck his Dick but not his toes!?!?!????

You've heard the saying age is nothing but a number. If you are compatible and he is mature enough for you & you both want the same things dont worry too much about what people are thinking/saying there will always be opinions. And maybe lots of them but today I dont think it's frowned upon as much, biggest prob;ems will come form those closest to you.

I went out with someone 16 years younger but it wasnt long before I recognized his lack of maturity and life experience. My mother has a younger partner (15 years) and they have been togther 30 years this year. My brother has a younger wife of 10 years together now for 14 years. So I've seen it work and as all relationships it can still have problems.

Shamar Moore

Ohhhh Yeah!! I know he's the one!!!

Yeah I learnt the art of making the big decisions in my life, well mostly... I guess it's the small stuff and the continual questions these days you get with simple buying your lunch that gets me. Like MacDonalds, you ask for a Big Mac and then it starts...

I guess I better work on making instant decisions but after awhile all I hear is blah blah blah and I'm like who cares just get what I asked for I obviously dont really care or I wouldve said I'll have aBig Mac with large fries and ketcup and a coke and YES upgrade the bloody lot cos it's only another 50 cents!!!

It really is apart of me that frustrates ME cos it gets me EVERYTIME!!! But I can laugh about it in the end!

I've broken it off with someone because I could see that he wasn't treating me the way I needed and that i wasn't Number one in his life. As alot of women here, doesnt' mean that my feelings changed for him but rather I couldn't see his changing for me so thought in the long run best to cut ties to save further hurt.

Therefore the thoughts went on for what seemed like an eternity...

Yes I get it every situation is different but from reading on here ALOT of women go through the same thing even though their situations are all different but similar hence the reason for my question to men...

Just like the book "he's not that into you" it's more confirmation and insight as to how you tick

Thanks for responding

Hey Xo, you go ahead and ask your questions too. The heading is just to lure the men to give a response, hopefully from each sign.

Interesting so something has to remind you of her in order for her to pop into your mind. We (generalising here) just keep thinking of the situation and what could have been, should we have done things differently, did I do something wrong...A million questions! I guess it would only be if we still care for that person.

It's not as cut and dried as you enfant but then is that because you really dont have feeling for her? See I can do that if that person didnt touch close to my heart...

I try really hard to make sure that I can make decisions in my personal matters as quickly and without regret as I can. Don't like that indecisive side of me as a Librian, and I feel great when I do make up my mind,

AND THEN.........


I walk into Bakers delight to buy a pkt of hot cross bun, would you like regular or chocolate or mocha? Ummm can I mix, yes... then you get a free bread do you want wholemeal multi or white? ummmm multi please, white flour or wholemeal? Ummmmmmmmmmwholemeal, sliced thick or thin? Are you serious, what's with all the choices, I'm like do you have to ask all these questions it's 8.30 in the morning and my head now hurts!!!! And then I'm going to go home and I wont know which one to choose to eat!!!!

We had a good laugh but I'm serious!!!

If I have to choose out of 2 then I'm generally ok with it but ask me out of 3 or more then you have my head starting to spin.

Sometimes I just say "you pick" because I'm not that fussed just someone else make the decision whether its blue or pink or green or violet or red with blue dots or white with pink squares!!!!!

Because I find it all exhausting!

How does it make all you librans feel and how do you cope/deal with it?

Hey Sucha_doll,

Yeah hate hate hate confrontation, especially if it's not something I've made my mind up about yet. It puts pressure on me to make a decision and I CAN'T do it on the spot!!!

Perhaps if you pre-warn what you want to discuss and give him a couple of days to mull over it...then have your discussion. He may try and escape the whole talk but I think that at least he wont be un-prepared because he would have had the time to at least think about it.

I've almost run from a situation like that, got up and walked out the door as my ex was bleating at me...(that's what it sounds like because I'm not listening) looking back now it was a sad desparate situation but I felt I was in a corner and you've all seen what happens when you trap someone/something in a corner...

Just to clarify, I'm not in this situation although I have been. It's just that a male friend of mine stated that yes he did do these things...mostly women here talk about, so I was curious to know if indeed men went through a similar thought process but were just stronger in the end and wouldn't let their emotions get the better of them.

Read the threads here and every zodiac sign has a women who has been given the HOT & COLD treatment so I just wanted to hear from men of each sign went through some of those mentioned.

Thanks for the imput DS, I realise you cant speak for ever Virgo but it's still of interest