So take one day at a time and stop trying to read too much into his every move. Somtimes I think you/we can be so reliant upon what the stars are saying that you forget their is a person involved here. Just see how you go together naturally, I bet he isn't looking to the stars to see if you are the right girl for him!

Also i hope you are over your last guy and this isnt a rebound thing... Best of luck AYa and more than anything just go with it and have fun!

Not at all, I dont tolerate cheating and certainly dont entertain it. My MIND will never be OPEN to that!

You are here looking for empathy for your situation trying to make your librian look to be the "Bad Guy" when in fact you are two timing and proving everything I've read about gemini women.

As for spazzing out...I have no emotions in this at all, all I'm doing is pointing out your faults by asking you questions to maybe enlighten you to your own situation to which you are blantantly blind or chose not to see yourself and the way you uphold morals.

Your heading "why are librian men so confusing?" Maybe because they like to play around with confused girls!??!?!?

You see as in an affair with a married person they can have their cake and eat it when and if it suits them because there is no worry of the pressure of settling down having kids etc because the other party is already spoken for. So he can play his games with you and never really have to own up to anything!

He owes you absolutely NOTHING!!!! No explainations or faithfulness. You are nothing at all to him...Certainly NOT his GIRLFRIEND because you are someone elses girlfriend!!!

Do you honestly think he should be honest with YOU or faithful to YOU or not have his options open because in my experience you only get that, if you can give it back! AND YOU CAN'T!

BTW Why havent you dumped your bf? It's been another year... Are you holding on until you have a replacement?

Do yourself a favour go back and read your story again and look at it, as if it was someone else telling it...

Winterborns right you've created a fucken mess!

to be honest it doesn't matter what is in the history of you and your bf of 6 years. You owe it to him and yourself to leave and make a clean slate. Why are you hanging in there?

As any other relationship, you won't/cant ever be trusted because you are CHEATING on your partner, whether you are kissing or just looking you are sharing intimate moments with someone else and that is CHEATING!!! Who will ever take you seriously? And personally I dont think it comes down to a "Librian" I think you will find most guys will have the same attitude. I'm of the belief that the way it starts will be the way it will end...ie: start by cheating end with being cheating...

This guy is undecided as to whether you are a descent enough person for him to be with, he may like you alot but your true colours have been revealed through your actions it's no wonder his scales are all out of balance with you.

GROW UP and sort your own shit out before even trying to complicate someone elses. You are getting as good as you deserve and that is being stuffed around because of what you are doing to your own bf. Why do you think you deserve to be treated any better and why do you think he owes you anything other than treating you with the same respect you are showing to your own partner???? He'll never take you seriously You're a cheater and will cheat again!!!

Sorry chick, I know this makes you feel better by writing all of your emotions into a letter, great you get things off your mind... BUT DONT SEND IT!!

If he has made up his mind & it looks as though he has, he is only around because there's part of him that doesn't want to completely crush you, little does he realize that his actions are doing just that. The letter wont be read or read to understand what you are trying to say. It's a NAG letter and will be taken in as one. My ex use to write me letters and I couldn't stomach reading about his feelings because it was over and nothing he could say would change my mind, in the end I would just throw them away because I didnt want to take on anymore guilt for my decision.

I read your letter and I felt NAGGED...sorry

Hey Chatz, i havent experienced that with any of my friends but certainly with my daughter (cutting & insulting)

Weird...I thought it was just I! Not moody but def bored and sleepy!

Maybe your friend knows that you are dissing him even though you think he doesn't so he is setting you up for a fall! You say he knows alot about you so also must know how to bring you down through your weakness..."her"!

***icant put ym finger on it but i know something aint right and im gonna find out what it is, something motivated her to flirt in the magnetic wayshe does, and it damn sure wasnt her feelings.***

You try finding out what she has in mind and she'll pull you deeper in especially since she draws you in like a magnet. TRUST your intuition and keep away or they will suceed...

MD anyone ever tell you you look like Nadya Suleman?

I'm a Libra and my friends all seem to be Taurus. We get along great, give and take on both sides but that probably is because we are friends. We never seem to have much dramas or fight at all.

Then I have a daughter that is Taurus and mostly it is smooth, but we dont get on and she is one eyed about any situation which frustrates the heck out of me as I'm always looking at both sides of the coin. She rubs me up the wrong way personally, Probably because she is my daughter and I have higher expectations of her around the home. In fact living with a Taurus can bring in a whole different perspective because there is a huge difference in the relationship between my Taurean friends and my daughter!

I thought you broke up with him without telling him???? So therefore dont tell him and it's all back on!! lol

Maybe you should look at yourself seriously and decide what you really want before going ahead, next week you wont want him again! Are you Librian...cos you are so indecisive!

Definietly when you dont think about where they are or what they are doing and aren't that fussed on whether you will be seeing them or not.

But sometimes this can be because they have stopped showing you love and attention and making you feel special...the minute there is a threat that they may have interests elsewhere can turn this all around quite quickly!

E Lover

F Jester

G Hero

I Magician

J Caregiver

Yeah PP It's gone now and it's been replaced with a site for straight dating! LMAO

I might have to look it up

Geee you wouldn't take any of HER advice would you Ginger??? Your toooo good a person! You go girl!

Hahah well was I way off track...never heard that one before by NKOTB!

lol right under your comments PP theres an add for "find sexy gay singles in your area" Mate 1

Is DXP trying to tell us something? lol

Your body is very capable of carrying a child through to 40 and beyond if that is some peoples choice. So at 26 there is still a good 10 years in order to fall in love with someone.

Honestly stop looking, it's very clear to us all here how much you want to settle down so I imagine it is also written all over your face. Men/boys will sense it & they just want to have fun in the beginning, if they think it's a trap they will head for the hills after they get what they want. You have to look from their perspective, for you to fulfil your desires means they loose their freedom and have to provide for 3 or more instead of 1.

Concentrate on the getting to know someone and loving them and the rest will fall into place. Also the guys you talk about appear very young, maybe not in age but maturity, that's going to hold things up in any case...

Yeah I agree, kissing is cheating. Always put yourself in the other persons shoes. If it would hurt you that they kissed someone else and you felt chested then HELLO!!!