I guess you do get kinda addicted to some of the posts here like Denny but now he's dropped everyone because I dont think he likes alot of the feedback and doesn't want everyone to know what's really happening now. But I find living in Aussie I only get to chat to people like you who are that addicted you are up in the middle of the night when I'm playing around dinner time.

Also now my daughter comes home from school and can't get me off the computer so she can chat to her friends because I want to know what's happening here!!!Hehe

Apart from the sleep factor...you could be doing worse!! Sometimes I'm having a glass of vino and that can set me off with some of my comments! I'm sure Tiki must be drinking with some of the staight out no SHIT answers she throws at people! haha

My first real job in 20 odd years! Well the first on my own credentials.

I worked with my husband as his PA for 7 years and haven't been in any solid employment for the last 4-5 years. Pulled my finger out over Xmas and decided to re-enter the workforce as I felt I lost myself in the marriage/family.
Anyway I just landed a role as a Property Manager!!!! I'm absolutely estatic and now a little scared...I'm going back out into the BIG wide world all alone...

escaping from problems in real life?

Started off here when i wanted some feed back on my own problems and then help with geting through and over someone as they occupy your every thought.


looking for entertainments

then I found that alot of the threads and people replying could be quite entertaining! Also it beats passing the time looking at the big box in the corner or a dating site when you are just looking to converse with other mature and sometimes immature people!

The last time I did that it was only 3 months and lasted nearly 20 years!!! Hahaha maybe I should consider only a month next time round!

Seriously, though if I'm not ready for the relationship to head towards the bedroom and relent under the pressure, which has happened. It doesn't really last very long. So if I know I want this person around for a while, I'll develop the relationship for several months before going there. Alot of men have only one thing on their mind and when they get that there is no need to do the extra mileage in establishing a connection and they then start looking around for someone else that takes their fancy.

If I considered him a "keeper" then i would take my time and make him wait, make him want me as much, if not more than I want him.

However, if I didnt see anything further than that I'd probably give in to my urges immediately!

I chat with someone here from time to time, not romantically because we are the complete opposites and dont share the same values at all but we get along on a different level. It's a nice friendship and because we are on totally different time zones we tend to be on around the same times. And he's a shitstirrer and I so get that!! Hahaha

So NOW I'M STUCK ON 2/20/2009!!! WHEN YOU CHANGED THE LOOK OF THIS BOARD. bY THE WAY i DONT LIKE THE NEW LOOK, IT'S NOT AS EASY TO READ AS THE OLD AND I HATE THE WHITE & RED...ONLY ON THE FRONT MESSAGE BOARD PAGE.

What's the reason behind the NO EFFING? Is it a religious or chosen thing? Or are they just making sure, once the effing starts things get more complicated, so if they are looking at a long term thing then maybe patience is a virtue..

UNBELIEVABLE how selfish some people can really be!!! It's definietly illegal here in Australia and also punishable by imprisonment. This person doesn't even deserve to have a friend try and talk to them. REPORT THEM to the authorities IMMEDIATELY before anyone else has to suffer!

The Sag i married was unchallenging in the relationship, we hardly fought and when we did he'd sulked. He was a selfish person that did what he wanted and when he wanted to without any consideration for anyone else. Other than that the relationship was easy...too easy and no real sparks!

Most would like that easy going type person...

Hey XFoosme, How is life now without your scorp in it? Has he just let go or is he still trying to keep you there?

Zen: Haha keep your luscious dark long hair, (that's what I imagine you look like.) underneath your wise council. Why would you grow a beard...you are a female arent you?

You are insecure in this relationship and you want security which he wont provide so leave and look for it elsewhere. If he misses you and wants you back he knows what he has to do. In the meantime you will go on and eventually get over it...dont know how long it'll take but it does get easier...

9 weeks ago I felt like you, now I don't give it that much thought. It wasn't easy by any means, there were sooo many times I had to stop myself from contacting him. Keep yourself busy and know that you are worth much more!

Also reading and posting on these threads makes you stronger as you see others going through similar situations and you see how desperate some get and you want to slap them and then you realise...I looked like that!!!

GB & PrinceP, can't explain in detail but I always have a chuckle at what goes on in their minds..

Sonya, when he creeps into your mind... occupy it, if it's a song "Change it" I've found when I've been hell bent on some guy that my mind wants to constantly dream and fantisize about them, so I've picked up a novel and started reading. I dont normally read much, but this helps. Keep yourself busy and soon you'll realise you're over him!

If you are new here, listen to tiki & Zen they have wise old heads and always offer great advice.

in fact next time i have issues, I'll be going straight to them!

As I said she doesn't effect me but if I do post something and she comments on it. it will be taken with a grain of salt because I know that she isn't here to help me out but in fact look for a reaction or fuck me up in some way!

Who needs that?

I've seen a few ladies on here who I will always take what they say serious, little sparrow, Zen, Usctaurusgal & OFA, they offer support and even when it's hard to take they do in the nicest way.

No, no one has targeted you and I'm very surprised at that!! You're vicious on your attach on people at times and some don't know how to take it. Personally I dont take it personally but I can be just as vicious as you BUT without all the name calling! I guess it's because we both can hit below the belt...

And verbal diarrhea is never lady like under any circumstances darling!

Good night Nihilist, sweet dreams.

I thought I saw you post on that site so thought you knew about it. I dont agree with pointing someone out like that either but see there are a few hated here like her and dynastar. I'm surprised nobody has targeted you darling!!! Maybe I should take a stab huh???

Nah not in me.

I wouldn't bother, I've only noticed because it's the first time I've used it...not saying that i'm well spoken because I can have a foul mouth at times but have to remember that i am a lady and it doesn't look good!

Oh very good, when I first came to this sight I couldn't work out the lingo DOH!! Now I see...small minds huh?