In reality, no one ever measures up. Not saying that that person was perfect but you do look for alot of the best of that person in someone else.
As we get older and I've seen it with my Aunt & it may be possible your father aurora, they really dont want to replace that person but rather wait for their own passing knowing they will be with them again.
Yeah I have 3 gorgeous looking girls all very different but all very beautiful. First one came out looking totally asian...In fact she looked like a big fat budda!! HAhah Now you wouldn't know any of them have asian in them, the oldest and youngest just look European and the middle is dark like my husbands Maori family!
I love cruising I've been on 2 already, No romance but I love just being around people and partying full on!!! So this time I'm taking my 2 good friends with me and maybe a single boy mate. But it's up the coast of Aussie I want to go because that's where it's all happening around Xmas time!
Yep definietly know where you are coming from with the mother and money!!! Mines always penny pinching but I have to say as I was growing up she looked after me if I needed any help and taught me how to respect money. Now I make sure when she's too tight that she doesn't go without! But I know enough to know that money doesn't buy hapiness... I read your next thread...lol! But it certainly makes life easier and gives you more choices...
I'm asian I dont admit those things too easily or publicly, you are indeed someone I'm happy to be sharing apart of my day, yes. i also like having a go at GB although VSOP grates me, he's a chauvinist!
I've only recently decided I'd like to visit America one day. I really want to do Europe first Greece in particular before I'm too old but being single I have to wait until someone is going somewhere and I join along. I dont like the idea of travelling alone. Last year i went to Malaysia (mums homeland) and this year it was Dubai & Egypt and next year it's a cruise up the coast of Australia to The Great Barrier and Whitsundays. But as for the US I'm thinking South America!
unless they are your own flesh and blood, i dont think you would love someone more than yourself...you may feel you do cos you'd do amything for them or you are desparate to keep them or you are in the lustful stage but seriously you'd put their life before yours???
hahaha, that's the haka you are talking about...Maori war dance which they generally do before a competetion or a welcoming dance when they welcome someone to their country. Also used to honor someone like at a funeral etc
David tua (the boxer) and (The Rock) they are both from New Zealand but I think of Island heritage. I'm not maori but was bought up in an area where alot lived sort of the ghetto in US probably no where near as bad though...so I've come along way to where I am now, geting out from all that...Now why wouldn't I be happy because you never forget where you come from!
Yep not much to say on those Island bouncers but I knew they had partners at home and it suited me to be friendly because I could jump right up the front of the queue whenever I showed up and all for a peck on the cheek!
Isn't it awesome I actually have a friend on the other side of the world!!! The internet is a wonderful thing but can get you into so much trouble. Heard so many stories of people leaving their lives to hook up with someone somewhere in the world! Unbelievable!
I've only been in love twice, that feeling you get like I did with Mr Scorp was most definetly LUST!!!!! MMMmmmmmm yum! Thats hard to break when you really lust after someone...your body just craves them! I like that feeling the most but it's hard to find someone compatible.
I once had a pieces, i was disappointed with him because he dare I say...got too sore...
So I had to wait all the time!!! And that's sad when you're as horny as hell and you have to think about them!!!
No actually I opted for a beer becuse it's soooo hot here! But normally I drink Chardonnay or Merlot.
I never fell in love with a scorp...he was too frustrating for me to get close enough...at first full on then backing away... thought it might have been the age thing but then through here realised it was a scorp thing. That's what my mother is and I can tell you we fight all the time...generally she gets the short end of my stick but I think that's more becuse she is soooo asian and I'm more a Maori (NZ native) they are easy going and blaza really and she is cold and unfriendly!
Can't say I've got a free drink from a bouncer but def been offered other things...mind you it was 3 of them in the same night and that was suss cos I could see it must have been some kind of competetion between them...I must have looked like a real dumb blonde or quite drunk that night!!
The only one I bothered asking about was the 2nd one who i was very keen on and he was a Scorp which is why I ended up on this site! hehehe
Oh I am friends with all exs but like with the scorp I'd hate to see him with someone else because I did develop feelings for him which was hard to cut off. I didnt fall in love but would have if he was around longer. Anyway that's all still too fresh...
In fact most of my exs contact me from time to time just to say how much they miss me in their lives... I think that's so sweet, it's really only a text or two just to say hi was thinking about you and miss your friendship.
Oh what a pity that you havent got a story to share...
Met a guy on the weekend and he came up to me because he had seen me a couple of weeks ago at a funeral..of all places, anyway he was the head bouncer in the pub/club we were in. Funny I'm quite familiar with a few bouncers if I frequent their clubs...always use it to my advantage of getting in for free cos they charge here after 11.00pm.
Wholly, what time you go to bed? Ooops it's past my wine time..