hahaha, that's the haka you are talking about...Maori war dance which they generally do before a competetion or a welcoming dance when they welcome someone to their country. Also used to honor someone like at a funeral etc
David tua (the boxer) and (The Rock) they are both from New Zealand but I think of Island heritage. I'm not maori but was bought up in an area where alot lived sort of the ghetto in US probably no where near as bad though...so I've come along way to where I am now, geting out from all that...Now why wouldn't I be happy because you never forget where you come from!
Yep not much to say on those Island bouncers but I knew they had partners at home and it suited me to be friendly because I could jump right up the front of the queue whenever I showed up and all for a peck on the cheek!
Isn't it awesome I actually have a friend on the other side of the world!!! The internet is a wonderful thing but can get you into so much trouble. Heard so many stories of people leaving their lives to hook up with someone somewhere in the world! Unbelievable!
I've only been in love twice, that feeling you get like I did with Mr Scorp was most definetly LUST!!!!! MMMmmmmmm yum! Thats hard to break when you really lust after someone...your body just craves them! I like that feeling the most but it's hard to find someone compatible.
I once had a pieces, i was disappointed with him because he dare I say...got too sore...
So I had to wait all the time!!! And that's sad when you're as horny as hell and you have to think about them!!!
No actually I opted for a beer becuse it's soooo hot here! But normally I drink Chardonnay or Merlot.
I never fell in love with a scorp...he was too frustrating for me to get close enough...at first full on then backing away... thought it might have been the age thing but then through here realised it was a scorp thing. That's what my mother is and I can tell you we fight all the time...generally she gets the short end of my stick but I think that's more becuse she is soooo asian and I'm more a Maori (NZ native) they are easy going and blaza really and she is cold and unfriendly!
Can't say I've got a free drink from a bouncer but def been offered other things...mind you it was 3 of them in the same night and that was suss cos I could see it must have been some kind of competetion between them...I must have looked like a real dumb blonde or quite drunk that night!!
The only one I bothered asking about was the 2nd one who i was very keen on and he was a Scorp which is why I ended up on this site! hehehe
Oh I am friends with all exs but like with the scorp I'd hate to see him with someone else because I did develop feelings for him which was hard to cut off. I didnt fall in love but would have if he was around longer. Anyway that's all still too fresh...
In fact most of my exs contact me from time to time just to say how much they miss me in their lives... I think that's so sweet, it's really only a text or two just to say hi was thinking about you and miss your friendship.
Oh what a pity that you havent got a story to share...
Met a guy on the weekend and he came up to me because he had seen me a couple of weeks ago at a funeral..of all places, anyway he was the head bouncer in the pub/club we were in. Funny I'm quite familiar with a few bouncers if I frequent their clubs...always use it to my advantage of getting in for free cos they charge here after 11.00pm.
Wholly, what time you go to bed? Ooops it's past my wine time..
No the first guy was just sex...it was on offer and I hadn't had anything or anyone around for some time and he was nice.
The 2nd was HOT and sooo young and he chased soooo I didnt run very fast!!!
The blind date is someone that has been in the SAS but currently lives 4 weeks here and 4 weeks in PNG (Papa New guinea) Cant really comment til I've met him I spose but definetly not sure, i can easily find someone for whatever reason and it feels forced like internet dating which I've tried once and I don't like it.
I'd much rather meet randomly through mutual friends but not with expectations from my friends...so yes negitive about it already. Anyway he won't be in town for another couple of weeks andin the meantime I'll be out on the town again this weekend and many others. Had some crazy crazy nights lately!!!
So I'm still waiting for your next venture...you'll dry up if you aren't getting any action Fund! lol
That's what i thought...but I hope not because I'd like to think there might be someone else now that he's passed. But I do believe that the one special one your first love is what everyone else has to measure up to...He's like a mould or imprint in my mind of what I think the perfect guy should be...
Because I had been sleeping with the first one (FWB)it had been a while so I jumped at having sex with a real person... but then I met the next one and went out with him, I knew he was the one that I wanted. So then in my mind I had to dump the first which is what I did. But that's just the way I work I can't be with two people romantically or sexually because I get caught up in the emotions and can only do that with one at a time.
Oh and regardless of what you think, I am a really happy person, estatic today in fact. my life is falling into place just perfectly. Today i had an interview for a job and was offered 3 different positions in the company!!!! Can't tell you how great that feels!
A man doesn't make me happy, mostly unbalances my life. I really am in a positon that I dont want for much...maybe sex and cuddles is all that's really missing!
Oh and now my friend is setting me up on a blind date with a very eligible bachelor....Mmmmmm not sure but as long as it's in a crowd I'll give it a go...
The bible is a guide line, ultimately my feelings on monogamy have not altered but are very strong. Late last year I went out on a date with another guy while I was dating someone else...someone had to go before I was happy with myself. It's just not in me because the Librian that I am puts me in someone elses shoes. I wouldn't like it so why do it to others?
You are who you are, at the end of the day though I am happy with my choices and my conscience is clear and that to me is important! I'm not saying yours isn't but mine could never be in your situation. And it's not out of FEAR.
WOW, mirror effect! Never really thought about that. Sounds like a plan to me.
the last guy I was with was all over me, he got my number and rang me but he wanted me to also call or text him whenever i wanted. I, like you, think it's them that should call because I want to know that they are truely into me.
Funny enough when he saw me, he was oh so into me but if I was out of sight then I was out of mind too...then if I called he didnt always return those calls or texts. So I was at a complete lose as to what was going on. Needless to say I ended it because, wasn't easy and I think about him still but I know I'm worth so much more.
Not afraid No, just have a biblical outlook of things and I like to stay as close to those moral lines as I can... and that being said I now feel like a hypocrate because I know I'm far from it!
Hey, you live the way you live and I dont doubt you have all this going on. It's not something I could ever do. I want to be the "Exception" for someone because I know HOW MUCH I LOVE and HOW MUCH I GIVE. I couldn't bear the thought of "him" being with anyone else. It would and has torn me apart, those feelings you cant control, they are born in me!
Yeah GB I'd hate to be a guy, i see them get rejected all the time when they approach someone. I always try to be polite even when I'm not interested because I feel it's taken them alot of guts to come up and ask or try and make conversation. My gf's slam me for being too nice because they say I'm leading them on.....so even a women can't win!