OMG, this guys (the stalker) Gf just signed up at the gym that I work at...didn't realize until she started selling him for our open day (he hires out bouncy castles and does magic, all round entertainer) Put 2 and 2 together and worked out it was the same stalker. Didnt say anything to her but found his number in the yellow pages and texted him a threat so as NOT to contact me again!!!

UNBELIEVABLE! Some people have some nerve, I should be a total bitch and dob him in!!!

Alot of guys I know are NOT into Valentines Day at all!

Bummer for the ladies but it's not a day when "HE" has to buy for her, where is this stated??? Why don't you take the initiative and lay it all out for him...then you'll probably understand why these guys can't be bothered! Preparing something romantic takes time and energy and alot of the time the reaction isn't as mind blowing as one would expect or hope for!

Most guys like to look sooo sexy lingerie and candles to create an atmosphere will do it for most. Makes you feel hot and sexy too.

As a Librian and a women I think you will need to be 100% certain that this is what you want and there is no going back. Librians can be uncertain as the scales are always weighing up whether they are making the right decision or not. i did this for 5 years always thinking things will get better, maybe he will see the light and not sooo driven...Never happened and I almost destroyed myself! Finally i left and after 3 years I've never been soooo happy in my life and with myself. Of course this takes a bit of adjusting and you really have to come out of your shell and also be SELFISH because it's the only way to get by. You have to grow extra skin because people always have opinions!!

So if this is your road, be prepared... and if you decide to divorce, KNOW that you in fact divorce his whole family and alot of your friends too.

thanks for that, sorry touchy subject with me and my religious ex...

according to you vl-c. For others it differs and you cant enforce your opinion!

when you know you dont want to spend the rest of your life with that person because for whatever reason which is generally in excess you cant really bare the thought!

yeah I've seen a few of sags comments on the librian board and most definietly shes been done well and truely by a librian. So why do you spend all your time here? Just to dis other librians to make you feel better? Go play with Fundamental and Angryscorp!

Let her initiate things from now Denny, you've done the hard yards and have been knocked back...BUT not completely she's stil calling you and chatting for hours and asking you out which she didn't do before. You're having fun so just do that for a while and eventually something will happen.

Whether it's the friendszone of as gf/bf, I think it's still a nicer world with her in it isn't it?

What's the big deal? Are you attracted to them? If not I dont see a problem just ignore any advances. Most women have men swarming over them, it's how you deal with them that'll keep the advances at bay! Flirt back and you have trouble!

Denny, I know you've been viewing all your mail as you last logged on today! Be nice to hear from you even if it is just to say thankyou to all those ladies that offered you all their advice & time.

you are not e-ffended by me, are you?

You don't e-ffect or e-ffend me at all, just a bit of scribble on this thread which provides me with light entertainment when I'm bored...

"and people like me sell themselves for LOVE..."

"love is the only currency that means anything to me...."

TOTAL contradiction to what you've been saying all along F A M...DO you even understand the meaning/feeling of the word?

TREETRUNKING lonely hot women the first time you take them home is that LOVE?!?!?
Or is that your currency and what you get "off on" the fact that you have all these women that are "IN LOVE" with you? Does that make you feel like THE MAN?

Loads of empty mindless sex...great for a while huh? But after a while you've already realized that you're just LONELY & BORED with it all and that's why you are here looking for something/someone else more exciting.

Denny, did you run away and elope already????

I'd just like to be hanging around for the "wake" afterwards cos I'll be damned if my friends were going to partying on without me!!!

How do I find out what elements I am? born 9/10/66

GB or #4 She just aint that into getting it on with you and you will be friends and except her terms because she is an awesome person to share with!

That's me and my mate, when he's down I help pick him up and visa versa or if we just need someone to hang out with...nothing more nothing less...platonic friendship

All quiet on this front???? Did we give you too much of a hard time F A M? Or are you too busy servicing the ladies!?!??

Saggy but maybe that was because we were married for soooo long. But yeah just there for their own pleasure!

Prior to that 20 years ago guys were all in it for themselves, it's only these days that guys think to please the women first or that's what they are all saying anyway...maybe just bull butter!

Two priests are in a Vatican bathroom using the urinals.

One of them looks at the other one's penis and notices
there's a Nicobate patch on it.

He looks at the other priest and says, 'I believe you're

supposed to put that patch on your arm or shoulder, not
your penis.'

The other one replies, 'It's working just fine. I'm down
to two butts a day.'


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