Yes, done that. Nothing or no-one seem to fit in our scale of perfection which is why it works better in your head. The idea of the person or the physical being is perfect but their actions don't match up!
With myself in particular I have to realize no one is perfect so as not to have such high expectations and then take it slowly. Also I find it's where you're at in life ie: if you are happy in yourself and with your life in general. I think you have to be happy with yourself before someone else can love you whic is why I think we sabotage the realtionship in the beginning! Maybe we won't meet their expectations!
Now it's all coming together, you work in a bar/club great place to prey upon the desperately lonely drunks. Beer/wine googled women are easy prey reguardless of what you look like. You're obviously very picky and well worth 2 mins of their time!