So what do people really think about the older woman younger man? I'm 42 and have been asked out by mostly 32 year olds but recently a 26 year old. I've been told that I look around 34-36 and am always completely upfront with my age. My thoughts are if you if you click and have that instant attraction then it's worth a look in but... (typical librian) there's always the other side...questions which seem to outweigh the scales
Hello!!! Once again different languages...Ask her to "go out with you" "be your girlfriend" "be an item" whatever you want to call it!!! TO THE POINT! I think you've been flirting around long enough to make a call one way or another.
You really have to stop playing games mate and find out one way or another and then deal with it!
Why dont you try the direct approach and ask her if she is interested in going out with you? One way or the other you're going to know whether it's the real deal or you're just wasting time!!!! What's up with people these days? Too much beating around the bush playing stupid texting games, (men & women text in different languages too) pick up the phone ring her and get you answer straight fromt he horses mouth!!!!
Actually the commitment phobic one is me! I just like a little attention every so often but find that a week with nothing has me bored and looking elsewhere. I guess I've answered my own question really but it's not til it's on paper that I figure it out! hehe
Confidence comes from within, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. So it gets up your nose that she like to express it freely, learn to deal with it. She's in a good place & loves herself...Are you jealous??? Does your bf love her more?
We Librians love attention and don't like anyone thinking bad of us. Be careful flirting with people boosts our ego's and that's why we do it, we are selfish. If he wants you he'll be sure to make it known! Of course a little bit of jealousy may wake him up..
How do you know what they actually want when they run sooo hot & cold all the time? Wanting to please you one minute and then ignoring you the next...Is this a normal trait? Mind you it is starting to bore me but I'm interested in the answer for next time...
You know what we fear, is letting go completely, losing the face, to find that we were right, that everything is gonna go wrong at the end. Cancers need security. If you can find it in your heart and prove that to your boyfriend, then he will be yours. It doesnt matter if you're tall or short, gorgeous or plain average. You have the power to make anyone happy, and when you decide to do that , and that person accepts it, then nothing can come between you. Are you ready to love him back, if he ever did. that's the question. its all about commitment, (its scary, i know, but not for cancers) can you offer him security? Can you never let go? it's like that at the end.
I can offer security but he may also have that elsewhere, I've told him time and time again and reassured him and will keep doing it relentlessly and patiently. i wonder though wil he let go of one for a chance with another even though he may feel that our bond could be stronger? OR will he stay secure in what he knows and never give our love a real chance? A definite triangle.
what's happening here Scorpman??? Has this Librian women you are bagging got you hooked? I thought you were done with librian women but it sounds like she has you just where she wants you and you will do as you are told!!! That's when the bf isn't around! Make it or break it...your choice!
Now you see, you're in the know that she has a bf that she is still involved with and you are still hot for her and willing to let that one thing slide!!! YOUR EYES ARE WIDE OPEN so what you do from here is your decision...one which will now pose soooooo many questions!!!
There you go! If it were you and some good looking girl came up to you, would you say Hi, I'm so and so and I have a gf that I'v been with for 5 years??? Always ask and that'll clear it up from the start, then your interests would have been directed elsewhere.
Oh and she would have weighed you up and deciced that if she came out and blurted that she had a partner then you would have bolted and she would probably not have had an enjoyable night!!! The scales come into every situation.
So how's a cancer man gonna be when his ex is back and they have a great friendship, share alot of special moments and he is in a relationship with someone else. The line has already been crossed once???
Well I wouldn't tell as it was only a kiss and as you said you weren't in an exclusive relationship. If you do tell and risk losing him or him never forgetting, you could ruin this relationship before it even starts. When they don't forget it means they will be watching you and even accusing you later on. So long as it doesn't ever happen again, everyones entitled to a little mistake.