Posted by Sagiluv27

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Not exactly word by word, but i told her i liked her company, i enjoyed spending time with her, doing things with her, for her, respected , trusted and believed in her, so i think this might mean the same, just maybe in other words?

Awwwww guys hardly ever say what they feel

Ehhh I always say what I feel 😂

People just try to make me feel bad about it.

So they make you hold back???

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Yeah... bc it saves drama. Here I don’t care. But IRL I try to avoid it.

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I can be with someone I’m not interested in or they aren’t geo located near me. If I find her hot I’ll flirt but I can flirt and not be interested... well unless I’m drunk.

But normally I can’t have female friends because stuff tends not to stay purely platonic.

So if you friendzone someone like the Cap, what does that mean. Do you give up on her? Do you still do sweet things like bring her meds? Or is that reserved for potential dates?

I put her on a lower priority. I wouldn’t ghost, but my desire to hang out with her would be overruled by others now.

Would I have left work to do the med run? Probably not. Would I have checked in on her and maybe did it when I had free time.. maybe yea, but she has other friends that can look out for her too.

I have terrible habit of putting my interest in the center of my universe and they become a high priority.

Im Not close to people I’m not with/boning unless we have history, and in this case cap and I don’t have any. I’m in my own world so unless you are in my orbit I tend to decrease my attention significantly.

You know us Sagittarius folk. We will do anything for people we care about. I can’t have people around I get no benefit from and I’m constantly doing for.

Yeah I know. What if you had history, and there was a falling out due to circumstances & she moved on? Would you stay friends cuz you care? Would you be able to leave your feelings out of it and just have the friendship? I’m comparing to another fire sign not a Sag.. actually then there is my ex husband who will still do anything for me, he’s a fire sign too. But it’s not about wanting to get together but about a long ass history. That ones more complicated.

I’m to the point I need to not be friends, not because i can’t but I don’t think he can. But the ex I just need to not let him do things for me. Unless it’s related to our kids.

I’m just trying to get the guy perspective.. it helps to answer my questions

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Short answer ... no .

If I still want you my ego won’t let me

I’m so traditional in my dealings with women that I always pick up tab, open doors etc. And if I’m attracted to you. I like spending time with you, and obviously you will like me, so we might as well have sex 😂

I think that’s another reason I get so many return chicken is I treat them like my girl, even if I’m just being respectful and courteous. They aren’t used to it.

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Posted by hellosaggy
I can be with someone I’m not interested in or they aren’t geo located near me. If I find her hot I’ll flirt but I can flirt and not be interested... well unless I’m drunk.

But normally I can’t have female friends because stuff tends not to stay purely platonic.

So if you friendzone someone like the Cap, what does that mean. Do you give up on her? Do you still do sweet things like bring her meds? Or is that reserved for potential dates?

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I put her on a lower priority. I wouldn’t ghost, but my desire to hang out with her would be overruled by others now.

Would I have left work to do the med run? Probably not. Would I have checked in on her and maybe did it when I had free time.. maybe yea, but she has other friends that can look out for her too.

I have terrible habit of putting my interest in the center of my universe and they become a high priority.

Im Not close to people I’m not with/boning unless we have history, and in this case cap and I don’t have any. I’m in my own world so unless you are in my orbit I tend to decrease my attention significantly.

You know us Sagittarius folk. We will do anything for people we care about. I can’t have people around I get no benefit from and I’m constantly doing for.

Lol I really don’t understand what OP is saying.

There is nothing wrong with being a nice guy. Or a good man.

Your problem is you are too available and conformist

Exo is right too. No point in switching your style up to bag women when you have no game plan for it.

And you don’t know how to deal with women it’s going to blow up badly.

Get your own self together. And then set boundaries and expectations. Then You won’t have problems finding a girl you like.

Just know you can make any woman pay attention. Its still on them to want you. Rejection and misses come with the territory

I can be with someone I’m not interested in or they aren’t geo located near me. If I find her hot I’ll flirt but I can flirt and not be interested... well unless I’m drunk.

But normally I can’t have female friends because stuff tends not to stay purely platonic.

I aim to please 😈

I didn’t expect her/anybody to put out on any date. It’s the fact that we kept dating regularly and with her free time and we always got some what physical then she would stop. So I kept thinking... next time... next time.. then she does all this effort to give me a party on my birthday... then goes into this little diatribe about good things coming to those who wait... it’s not waiting seems like she was holding back.

If that’s the case. Why come into my world of nice dinners and fun and you don’t want to be there because you had plans on leaving.

She said she didn’t want to waste my time on a relationship.... but she did. I stopped dealing with a few people to date her.... and I shouldn’t have. I honestly could have had same fun with quite a few different people. She’s a nice woman. And all the frustrations she put me through pursuing her were for nothing. I could have been her friend and kept my flings 🤷🏾‍♂️

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Your penie is showing a bit.

@juliiette oh that’s embarrassing 🙈

I know 🐴

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Lol I was stripping for @roosagicorn ‘s birthday!

Posted by RooSagicorn
Lol such trauma! Well maybe the universe or Mercury Retrograde is trying to teach you something... just a thought 😉

Should be over soon anyway.. in a few days. Aqua sounds like trouble no bj’s 😳😳 I guess that means playing with your balls is out....

She said normally ... I like challenges... but yeah I’m going to fall back and use last two weeks of year to regroup and refocus on goals not involving my social skills

I’ll stay home and play with my own balls ⚽️🏀

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Your penie is showing a bit.

@juliiette oh that’s embarrassing 🙈

Posted by Sagiluv27

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One night stand yes

Do you say: You're the one for tonight ..

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I’ll say no matter how many people are in this place. You’re the one I can’t take my eyes off of.

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Posted by Raakac
Not exactly word by word, but i told her i liked her company, i enjoyed spending time with her, doing things with her, for her, respected , trusted and believed in her, so i think this might mean the same, just maybe in other words?

Awwwww guys hardly ever say what they feel

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Ehhh I always say what I feel 😂

People just try to make me feel bad about it.

One for what?

Bestsex act?
Best cook?

To marry? I lied and said it once because she was in love with me and I figured why the hell not... she wasn’t.

Ehhh... I say you are my favorite all the time

19% is high. Get down to about 15

Hey CC we were supposed to do some synastry!

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He who hesitates, masturbates


Strike while the iron is hot

Truth! I hate masturbating lol

@unicornsag

Oh you gonna put me out there hunh?

Yeah I actually took off work during lunch and ran around because I cared she was sick.

I really am a good person. I’ll do anything for people I care about. But when I feel like you take advantage I’m done.

I don’t plan on seeing her anymore until her birthday/going away party. Then that’s it.

I hate you mercury retrograde!!!

@mariah18

Sorry sweety. I wish you the best. I prefer to be wrong in situations like this. Normally I just don’t say anything, but again you seem very nice and deserve not to waste your time regarding someone on a different wavelength.


Don’t rule out all sags though 🤗😘

Happy happy birthday!

*virtual stripping*