SassyKiwi

Have those mofos pay for all the covid medical bills at the very least or give us their heads

I was already living life looking cute and butter until this cookiemonster got in the way

I been playing sims often to keep myself from thinking about reality and ordering stuff to make hundreds of masks. I don’t know how to sew so gotta figure that one out too.

Play sims

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i am really just looking for tips on how to manage my own jealousy issues

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😂😂 loolll sorry I don’t think I can help.... swallow it til you puke?

but i wanna talk about it so i dont feel alone 😭

Aww sweetie of course you’re not alone! You can’t really change your feelings tbh you can just change whether you act on them or not

i was doing really good at managing it but now it’s starting to bubble out 😬

😬😬 well, sometimes it’s appropriate to be jealous and sometimes it isn’t, can you give any detail about it?

im paranoid about someone who is in his friend circle. i know her, & her friends, personally & i think they are garbage. she asked me a month ago, out of the blue, if he & i were sweeties. i never responded cuz it’s none of her business.

sooooooooo lmao i dunno im sketched

@sassykiwi here’s the beef

You never responded because it’s none of her business or because you wanted to lay a trap? Tbh I don’t want to add to this but I’m a big believer in intuition in these situations. Like sometimes things can be off that aren’t big enough to point directly at but there’ll be some kind of weirdness in the air... Have you spoken to him about her? Is he acting sketchy? Sorry at the same time I should say it could very easily be nothing but just don’t know enough 😬

i havent spoken to him about her bc i have nothing nice to say. she recently left him a quarantine package & i was like um ok

i am not typically jealous & allot for freedom/female friends/etc but i cant tell if it’s my intuition, or if it’s paranoia. it’s driving me crazy.

to the point where i am now pumping brakes & getting cold.

What was his reaction to the package?

HE POSTED IT ON THE INTERNET TALKING ABOUT HOW COOL AND NICE SHE IS !!!!!!!!!

aaahhhhh’n bdueidhzh383737; $ 28-!; $ ,!hdhsjajs£{~€.€\€838: $ .!28

Wtf. Sever his head. Not sure why you’re even into this guy but let me give you some reality.

An issue with coming out to your partner with it is it will cause it to subconscuoisly go to his head and feed his ego. He might not be a bad guy but never underestimate a man who knows he has plenty of options around him just waiting for him. For all you know your man is more oblivious to her than you think and it’s better for you to have it that way instead of aid in putting further curiosities in his mind about her. All this is only if you want to continue something with him.

I’m a hades moon at 0 degree btw. If it wasn’t for all the things my mom taught me I’d honestly end up being the most pathetic, jealous, possessive person. It is never attractive on a person and makes you come off very vulnerable.

lol omg sever his head??!

but he’s allowed to have female friends! which is why i am going crazy

Oh yeah... lol me and my husband and past partners really didn’t do social media much so I guess I wouldn’t know what the appropriate social media expectation would be in such situation but I’m still a gen z, so if he equally praises his friends and you on social media then I guess that is fair but if he doesn’t really praise people on social media or you but praised her then I’d be a little concerned.

he often praises friends & posts about them. i am p sure he has 11th h placements.

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Ahh ok he is that type. Then I honestly think you should not let her personally get to you. It comes with the territory you chose. If you don’t want this kind of stress, then be with someone who has more strict boundaries that reassure you where your place is in a relationship. This is kind of like you can’t have your cake and eat it too. Let’s say you do choose to confront him about it, what would you expect him to change? I don’t see he’d change much since you said he often praises friends. It just sounds like you need more reassurance from him on where you stand to him. Also, now it’s this chick, what if next time it’s a different chick friend in question? I can easily see him at some point start feeling stifled over it. It all just comes with the territory of allowing him female friends which I personally don’t think is good for your 8th house moon.

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i am really just looking for tips on how to manage my own jealousy issues

plz halp

😂😂 loolll sorry I don’t think I can help.... swallow it til you puke?

but i wanna talk about it so i dont feel alone 😭

Aww sweetie of course you’re not alone! You can’t really change your feelings tbh you can just change whether you act on them or not

i was doing really good at managing it but now it’s starting to bubble out 😬

😬😬 well, sometimes it’s appropriate to be jealous and sometimes it isn’t, can you give any detail about it?

im paranoid about someone who is in his friend circle. i know her, & her friends, personally & i think they are garbage. she asked me a month ago, out of the blue, if he & i were sweeties. i never responded cuz it’s none of her business.

sooooooooo lmao i dunno im sketched

@sassykiwi here’s the beef

You never responded because it’s none of her business or because you wanted to lay a trap? Tbh I don’t want to add to this but I’m a big believer in intuition in these situations. Like sometimes things can be off that aren’t big enough to point directly at but there’ll be some kind of weirdness in the air... Have you spoken to him about her? Is he acting sketchy? Sorry at the same time I should say it could very easily be nothing but just don’t know enough 😬

i havent spoken to him about her bc i have nothing nice to say. she recently left him a quarantine package & i was like um ok

i am not typically jealous & allot for freedom/female friends/etc but i cant tell if it’s my intuition, or if it’s paranoia. it’s driving me crazy.

to the point where i am now pumping brakes & getting cold.

What was his reaction to the package?

HE POSTED IT ON THE INTERNET TALKING ABOUT HOW COOL AND NICE SHE IS !!!!!!!!!

aaahhhhh’n bdueidhzh383737; $ 28-!; $ ,!hdhsjajs£{~€.€\€838: $ .!28

Wtf. Sever his head. Not sure why you’re even into this guy but let me give you some reality.

An issue with coming out to your partner with it is it will cause it to subconscuoisly go to his head and feed his ego. He might not be a bad guy but never underestimate a man who knows he has plenty of options around him just waiting for him. For all you know your man is more oblivious to her than you think and it’s better for you to have it that way instead of aid in putting further curiosities in his mind about her. All this is only if you want to continue something with him.

I’m a hades moon at 0 degree btw. If it wasn’t for all the things my mom taught me I’d honestly end up being the most pathetic, jealous, possessive person. It is never attractive on a person and makes you come off very vulnerable.

lol omg sever his head??!

but he’s allowed to have female friends! which is why i am going crazy

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Oh yeah... lol me and my husband and past partners really didn’t do social media much so I guess I wouldn’t know what the appropriate social media expectation would be in such situation but I’m still a gen z, so if he equally praises his friends and you on social media then I guess that is fair but if he doesn’t really praise people on social media or you but praised her then I’d be a little concerned.

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i am really just looking for tips on how to manage my own jealousy issues

plz halp

😂😂 loolll sorry I don’t think I can help.... swallow it til you puke?

but i wanna talk about it so i dont feel alone 😭

Aww sweetie of course you’re not alone! You can’t really change your feelings tbh you can just change whether you act on them or not

i was doing really good at managing it but now it’s starting to bubble out 😬

😬😬 well, sometimes it’s appropriate to be jealous and sometimes it isn’t, can you give any detail about it?

im paranoid about someone who is in his friend circle. i know her, & her friends, personally & i think they are garbage. she asked me a month ago, out of the blue, if he & i were sweeties. i never responded cuz it’s none of her business.

sooooooooo lmao i dunno im sketched

@sassykiwi here’s the beef

You never responded because it’s none of her business or because you wanted to lay a trap? Tbh I don’t want to add to this but I’m a big believer in intuition in these situations. Like sometimes things can be off that aren’t big enough to point directly at but there’ll be some kind of weirdness in the air... Have you spoken to him about her? Is he acting sketchy? Sorry at the same time I should say it could very easily be nothing but just don’t know enough 😬

i havent spoken to him about her bc i have nothing nice to say. she recently left him a quarantine package & i was like um ok

i am not typically jealous & allot for freedom/female friends/etc but i cant tell if it’s my intuition, or if it’s paranoia. it’s driving me crazy.

to the point where i am now pumping brakes & getting cold.

What was his reaction to the package?

HE POSTED IT ON THE INTERNET TALKING ABOUT HOW COOL AND NICE SHE IS !!!!!!!!!

aaahhhhh’n bdueidhzh383737; $ 28-!; $ ,!hdhsjajs£{~€.€\€838: $ .!28

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Wtf. Sever his head. Not sure why you’re even into this guy but let me give you some reality.

An issue with coming out to your partner with it is it will cause it to subconscuoisly go to his head and feed his ego. He might not be a bad guy but never underestimate a man who knows he has plenty of options around him just waiting for him. For all you know your man is more oblivious to her than you think and it’s better for you to have it that way instead of aid in putting further curiosities in his mind about her. All this is only if you want to continue something with him.

I’m a hades moon at 0 degree btw. If it wasn’t for all the things my mom taught me I’d honestly end up being the most pathetic, jealous, possessive person. It is never attractive on a person and makes you come off very vulnerable.

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i am really just looking for tips on how to manage my own jealousy issues

plz halp

😂😂 loolll sorry I don’t think I can help.... swallow it til you puke?

but i wanna talk about it so i dont feel alone 😭

Aww sweetie of course you’re not alone! You can’t really change your feelings tbh you can just change whether you act on them or not

i was doing really good at managing it but now it’s starting to bubble out 😬

😬😬 well, sometimes it’s appropriate to be jealous and sometimes it isn’t, can you give any detail about it?

im paranoid about someone who is in his friend circle. i know her, & her friends, personally & i think they are garbage. she asked me a month ago, out of the blue, if he & i were sweeties. i never responded cuz it’s none of her business.

sooooooooo lmao i dunno im sketched

@sassykiwi here’s the beef

You never responded because it’s none of her business or because you wanted to lay a trap? Tbh I don’t want to add to this but I’m a big believer in intuition in these situations. Like sometimes things can be off that aren’t big enough to point directly at but there’ll be some kind of weirdness in the air... Have you spoken to him about her? Is he acting sketchy? Sorry at the same time I should say it could very easily be nothing but just don’t know enough 😬

i havent spoken to him about her bc i have nothing nice to say. she recently left him a quarantine package & i was like um ok

i am not typically jealous & allot for freedom/female friends/etc but i cant tell if it’s my intuition, or if it’s paranoia. it’s driving me crazy.

to the point where i am now pumping brakes & getting cold.

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What was his reaction to the package?

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i am really just looking for tips on how to manage my own jealousy issues

plz halp

😂😂 loolll sorry I don’t think I can help.... swallow it til you puke?

but i wanna talk about it so i dont feel alone 😭

Aww sweetie of course you’re not alone! You can’t really change your feelings tbh you can just change whether you act on them or not

i was doing really good at managing it but now it’s starting to bubble out 😬

😬😬 well, sometimes it’s appropriate to be jealous and sometimes it isn’t, can you give any detail about it?

im paranoid about someone who is in his friend circle. i know her, & her friends, personally & i think they are garbage. she asked me a month ago, out of the blue, if he & i were sweeties. i never responded cuz it’s none of her business.

sooooooooo lmao i dunno im sketched

@sassykiwi here’s the beef

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Honestly I wouldn’t say that’s unhealthy paranoia because taken men are apparently way more attractive than available men these days. It’s like become a fetish. I’ve seen time and time when chicks go after their close friend’s man so it’s definitely easier for a chick who’s not your friend. I’ve had a similar situation and it’s best to never show that person’s presence effects you and kind of just keep an eye on their interactions with your partner. As long as your partner does not push it and entertain her, you’ll be fine.

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What kind of jealously issues do you have? For me they would get triggered when for instance my workaholic ex would go meet other girls out for coffee, lunch, dinner etc as he had always done with people he mentored (whom happened to be mostly much younger girls). He had always done it before we got together but I just didn’t know where one would draw the line on that and just in general felt extremely uncomfortable and jealous with it.

it’s a romantic issue

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I was waiting to come across Keanu Reeves.

I just really wanna do some meditation retreats with that guy and talk about life.

He’s the only actor I’ve ever felt this way about.

What kind of jealously issues do you have? For me they would get triggered when for instance my workaholic ex would go meet other girls out for coffee, lunch, dinner etc as he had always done with people he mentored (whom happened to be mostly much younger girls). He had always done it before we got together but I just didn’t know where one would draw the line on that and just in general felt extremely uncomfortable and jealous with it.

I feel you. Sometimes it’s satisfying getting a reaction out of them but when they don’t give you one... you still got that itch that needs to be scratched. Could be bad or good.

If y’all aren’t gonna read what I’m asking for also then just post your charts. This is about diving deeper into the houses. Cooperate you people

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Last time I was like 12 when it happened. This is my first adult recession. I don’t know how to feel about all this yet. What are you all doing to protect yourselves besides stocking up on toilet paper?

Why the hell was i I under the impression that you were older than me? You’re the same age as me lol.

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I thought you were a year or two older than me. But a guy therefore still naive and immature mentally :p What’s your Pluto and degree?

Trying not to feel overwhelmed and psyche myself out.

I’m so scared for my parents and grandma.

Apparently law firms got added to essentials here (my work). I work with my father who is part of high risk and he’s a workaholic that can’t be reasoned with.

I am ready to wake up from this nightmare any time now.

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Gemini
Virgo
Scorp
Sag
Cap

11th house is 50% Virgo/50% Leo.

What houses do the other signs fall under for you? And how do you feel about Leos?

1st: Libra
2nd: Scorp
3rd: Sag and a little bit of Cap
4th: 60% Cap
5th: 60% Aqua
6th: 80% Pisces
7th: Aries
8th: Taurus
9th: 85% Gemini
10th: 65% Cancer
11th: the aforementioned
12th: 75% Virgo

I'm conflicted when it comes to Leo energy and Leos in general. Initially we get along and it last as long as I fit into the role they envisoned for me but things get iffy when I break out of it and that's where it all goes downhill because Leos seems to struggle with handling conflict in a mature, honest and respectful way in my experience.
Aside from that problem, which can be very big one due to my relationship with conflict, I'd say it can be a great learning experience for both sides and settle in good (social) relationships.

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Forgot this, can you edit in your planets in your houses?

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Pisces
Sag
Cap
Cancer
Scorpio

I have Aqua 11th. I’m pretty ambivalent toward them.


What’s your chart ruler deary?

What houses are those signs in and you got any planets in them?

Scorpio rising/Pluto

What house is your Pluto in?

Pisces - 12th - NN
Sag - 8th - Nothing
Capricorn - 9th and 10th - Saturn/Uranus/Nept in 9th, nothing in 10th.
Cancer - 3rd and 4th - Mars in 3rd nothing in 4th
Scorpio - 7th - Moon/Pluto

Pluto is in my 1st. What are you trying to figure out?

Maybe you should try dating an Aqua next xD For astrological research purposes ofc

You should date an Aries 😈

I prefer Aqua Venus over Aqua sun I should say. I get Aqua Venus over and over.

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Insulting! Tbh I only know one Aries and she’s my Taurus bestie’s sister. Other than that I have never came across an Aries. Ever. Thankfully :p

What about an Aqua sun with an Aqua venus next? You seem you don’t want to be stifled in a relationship, Aquas would assure that.

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11th house Pisces with Jupiter in it: I don't think there has been more of one sign than others. There are a lot of Virgo suns and Pisces moons in my family. My closest friends have been Aqua, Capricorn, 2 Tauruses, Libra, Sagittarius, and Virgo. Every guy I dated was a different sun sign. I married a Pisces.

I married my 11th house too - Libra. I remember I came across something small on lindaland saying 11th house sun overlay in synastry was found in 3rd marriages or something, basically implying it’s a good placement for marriage.

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Pisces
Sag
Cap
Cancer
Scorpio

I have Aqua 11th. I’m pretty ambivalent toward them.


What’s your chart ruler deary?

What houses are those signs in and you got any planets in them?

Scorpio rising/Pluto

What house is your Pluto in?

Pisces - 12th - NN
Sag - 8th - Nothing
Capricorn - 9th and 10th - Saturn/Uranus/Nept in 9th, nothing in 10th.
Cancer - 3rd and 4th - Mars in 3rd nothing in 4th
Scorpio - 7th - Moon/Pluto

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Pluto is in my 1st. What are you trying to figure out?

Maybe you should try dating an Aqua next xD For astrological research purposes ofc

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Virgos and SCorpios

Crabs males as friends
Sag/Gemini/aries women as friends

i don't know...but lots is packed in my 10th house

Give me your houses for virgos and scorpios and what is your 10th house sign?