Nice gestures, why do you feel you are doing this? And will you stop or will you continue to give him something every date? What about after sex? Will the little presents get bigger and is this all going to end up being expected with no spontaneity?

It’s working for you atm and I hope it continues, keep us posted.

Define love..

You need to move on, nothing that you’ve said says he’s interested in you more than the one night stand which is now over. He doesn’t engage in conversation with you at all and you are the one pursuing him. He didn’t contact you even after 2 weeks after you had sex??? And then came up with the “I’ve been busy” excuse.

Do you really think that if you didn’t text him he would have eventually message you? Ask yourself, if he did, what do you think he would be wanting from you.. to be his gf or another lusty night?

Some guys know how little they need to put in to get it all. You need to work out that you’re not reading the signs with your head but your heart and flip that switch!

Posted by aquarius_man_
I really don't understand. She barely accepts to see me after months and months of begging then she goes silent again. Im assuming this is what millennials call ghosting. OK, so be it. But then when I unfollow her and follow her again then unfollow her and follow her again only to unfollow her a few days later, she complains to a common friend. While admitting to him she avoids me like the coronavirus . Love, if you have decided to ghost me, what's it to you that I stopped following you? That I am no longer interested in what you do, what you read, what you eat, who you see, etc? This should tell you that I accepted that you want me out of your life. What's so hard to understand? Stop moaning and keep ignoring me like you've done until now. Or is it that your new bf isn't exactly up to the standards I set? Well well well , ppl like me aren't so easy to find, what were you thinking. But since you said I'm toxic, what else to do other than mirror what you're doing? You're so annoyed w me as if I'm this fly which got into your eye. Why do I still annoy you if you've decided to move on and act like I don't exist? And by unfollowing you all I'm doing is respect the boundaries you set. Ffs, this will turn me into a mental wreck

She’s got under your skin hasn’t she?

Has Cupid hit you hard??

No. I’m happy to age gracefully and respect the natural process of life and death.

Don’t go, he has told you so many times that he’s not in it as much as you. He needs to make up his mind completely, none of this bs, I’m here for you, you can talk to me. He wants your total devotion but doesn’t want to commit anything but friendship to you. Does he get off in having someone pining for him?? Probably!

Protect you and if he wants you in his life, let him step up. His one foot in one country one foot in another is also what he is doing to you.

Depends what his love languages are I would think

“5 Love Languages.” They are Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, and Physical Touch.

And how long you’ve been dating, if it’s New like right at the beginning stages... maybe a bit too much and trying to hard but if you’ve been seeing each other a little while then why not?

Posted by twinkletoes
kind of unrelated, but why do girls just post their hair pics on tinder or back of head pics?? i'm not trying to stare at the back of somebody's head.

They do it because they are representing a silhouette of themselves but don’t want you to just go off their face looks. I think it’s a teaser thing and they think it’s sexy idk my gf has pics like this up on insta and a dating site.

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Every man is different with different needs and wants.

What attracts you to a women @dazed?

Above average cooking ability.

What do you give back? What are your many qualities?

Cooking is an easy feat, majority of women that love food know how to cook and cook well. In fact, we know it’s the way to a man’s heart or at least that’s what we are taught.

I take everything and give nothing in return. Only the strong shall survive.

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Your single right?

Listen to these two ^^^

Hold your head up and leave that idiot high and dry!

Posted by LadyNeptune
Ime men like being useful. Its part of their love language.
So once in awhile throw him a bone and let him open the pickle jar because I's too weeeaaakkk
*collapses on fainting couch

Id rather he wash my car.

Tbh, when I was married, I always asked my husband to do things for me/us and our home. Once I asked if he could moving pavers that had been left at the front door. After weeks of them sitting there, I moved them myself. 🙄 guess I have my own answer.

Posted by TheSag
These articles are bullshitting women and even more men. Men have been taught to feel needed, it's not that they necessarily want to be needed.

Yeah, I guess it’s all about sales, you click into some of them and they go round and round about certain things but in order to get the answers, you need to put your CC up.

Posted by BETYOURLIFEONIT
"What men want"

- Written by some woman

Ain’t that the truth!

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Posted by sweethearts
So far it looks like most articles are wrong.. but are they? Anyone here that likes rescuing a lady?

And what do you really think of self sufficient confident woman?

I like rescuing the self sufficient woman 👩

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I’m living in the dark... working hard all day and no one to change my light bulbs 😉

So far it looks like most articles are wrong.. but are they? Anyone here that likes rescuing a lady?

And what do you really think of self sufficient confident woman?

Posted by Dead_Kermit
I want a Bonnie or Harley.... I'm an us against the rest of the world kind of person, who wouldn't want their partner also being their best friend.

Love that! It’s the way I think.

I like it a lot! 😉

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Every man is different with different needs and wants.

What attracts you to a women @dazed?

Above average cooking ability.

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What do you give back? What are your many qualities?

Cooking is an easy feat, majority of women that love food know how to cook and cook well. In fact, we know it’s the way to a man’s heart or at least that’s what we are taught.

Posted by WarAngel
Nah, they are mostly full of shit.

So you’re not going to find me irresistible if I need you to change my lightbulb or rescue me from a guy giving me unwanted attention or someone that is bullying me. You won’t want to wrap me up in your strong arms to nurture me??

Posted by _Dazed
Every man is different with different needs and wants.

What attracts you to a women @dazed?

Posted by Antiphates
Not for me.
If I feel needed my red alert goes off and I'll start guarding my walls.
I don't like being seen or treated as a tool.

Additionally, and that one is probably the core of my dislike for this is that it communicates to me that any interest in me or the relationship will only last as long as I fullfill that need of hers and that's not something I would be interested in within a romantic relationship. If I want that kind of relationship I can always get it via jobs or within groups.

That’s the way I’d feel, if someone needs me to rescue them it’s not the foundation to the relationship I’d want, in fact it tells me they can’t do things themselves or they are lazy and have been mothered too much and always been taken care of.

However, dozens of articles say a man needs to feel needed. These are from psychologists and research..

So am I getting it wrong in the way I think what being needed really means? Is it more simple like honey, can you change this light bulb for me... you’re so manly I can’t live without you....?