Posted by Juliiette
i think she doesn't take you seriously given her placements and behavior. attracted yes, but not really care about your balls.

I care more about my balls being cared for than her taking me seriously lol.

I have never had to work so hard for some action... now that's all I'm focused on. If she just got it out the way a month or so ago, maybe I would actually be thinking about really liking her at this point.

She has to be more invested in our relationship than I am, and its really because of her being prudish.

I don't/won't even start thinking about a serious relationship until after sex.

Posted by tctao

Posted by hellosaggy
@tctao

Cap Sun
Gem Moon
Merc Cap
Venus Sag
Mars Cap

Nah my birthday is Thursday.

wow a lot of Cap - Gem Moon is interesting but I have no experience with this moon sign - the sun sign I do and they can be sort of like 2 different sides - the sweet and salty - lol - at least the ones I've known

what is her Rising ?

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Cancer rising

well... if I was interested I would reply back in a flirty way.

if that happens its no way ya'll couldn't go out together.

@tctao

Cap Sun
Gem Moon
Merc Cap
Venus Sag
Mars Cap

Nah my birthday is Thursday.

Posted by UnicornSag
I didn't say they're not great friends. In general it's more down to fun part than anything else that's all. While Sag women are there for all. The good and the bad both. I don't like to drag words out of people either, if they want to talk they will if not I won't force them. But it's a common decency to me when someone say they're not feeling well to ask simply: "What happened? Do you want to talk about it? Is there anything I can do to help?"
That much is a normal thing to do for me at least If they don't want any of that then it's ok, no one forces anyone to anything, but asking about it shows you care about the person.
I often got that too from Cap guy for certain things, he said you didn't ask me about this or that and I said what i think exactly, I don't want to stick my nose too much into it but I am interested, I feel if you want to tell me you will. Think that's reasonable way of thinking. But when it comes to parts when that person is feeling bad or frustrated it's perfectly fine to talk to them about it and see if they need to open up or just some time in peace

Yeah... her statement was "just to let you know, I'm in a bad mood, just warning you because you are a sweet guy"

So I just cut it right there, because it sounds like its going to ruin our date. it came across like she was going to be pissy and I just needed to deal with it.

I'm not walking on egg shells for something I didn't do to you, so you stay home or whatever you are doing and figure your shit out.

If she had just said "Hey, I had a bad day today so far." that's another story. we are on the same page though @unicornsag

@queenaries.... it's better to position yourself now, than try to figure shit out later. it's not like you aren't doing anything. People's perception of us normally lies in their imperfections and what they are doing. No one follows the same path. Do what you love. just be conscientious of the costs associated with it, the earning potential of it, and what you want out of your life for the next 50 or so years.

nothing else matters.

I'm an Aries mooner.... I'd date an aries chick. I like passion and arguments... just not excessive drama... and the sex will probably be good too. I'm sold!

Plus women like @queenaries are probably able to be partners and not just co-exist.

I hate people that can't control their vices. I don't know if its a Sag/Aries thing or what. I like a little bit of fun when people loosen up though.

But girls that dance on bars or strip down and make out with random guys is a major turn off. You are embarrassing yourself in public.

Her drunk Taurus friend, who is a cute little blonde, was hugging on me, her other friends, and making out with 2 - 3 guys that night. one guy was trying to take her home so the Taurus became the main attraction of the night keeping her out of trouble.

Cap apologized to me about Taurus and was like "she's too friendly when shes lit" ... yeah but know your limits... Cap wasn't wasted, she was having a good time though.

I would think as bartenders/waitresses you see enough ridiculous drunk things and wouldn't want to go there. Then on top of that Cap had to go play mommy leaving me frustrated... again.

reason behind that, I had a female stalker once. she broke a window, slashed my tires and proceeded to ring and bang on my door numerous times... police called, screaming outside in the street....

its an experience I don't want to have again so I just don't like having people over anymore.

Posted by RooSagicorn

Posted by hellosaggy
@RooSagicorn

I assume bc I said what I said she would understand we are at one another's place. either mine or hers....

Since I cleaned up for the Virgo... it's still clean so she can come over my place lol.

She has two girl roommates.... so I'd think she would like to come here and chill.

I just asked because you said earlier that not just anyone is allowed in your house..

Sounds like yours would be better though.

Hope you have a Happy Birthday!! 😜

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Thanks! You are right. I don't like people in my house... but I know she probably won't steal anything lol

... I'm not going to pull anything out of you. if you want to talk to me about something tell me. I don't like invading someone's privacy.

@UnicornSag ... it sounds like you got a chip on your shoulder with your general perception of Sag men. The Sag men I know are great friends.... its not all about fun, but being depressive is a no-no.

Especially if its self-induced pain. I have low tolerance for it. I'll only listen to moping for so long.

@RooSagicorn

I assume bc I said what I said she would understand we are at one another's place. either mine or hers....

Since I cleaned up for the Virgo... it's still clean so she can come over my place lol.

She has two girl roommates.... so I'd think she would like to come here and chill.

@stillstillwater

When we went out last Thursday I talked to her about it. she apologized. we just have two different thought processes on communicating.

Like if I text you, I expect a text back just acknowledging my text. doesn't necessarily go into a conversation, its just reaching out.

she only texts when she has time to have a conversation. which could be hours later, or she forgets she saw the text until she thinks about me or I text again later.

so there are some mental notes on both sides that need to be understood and not taken personally.

to be honest I don't care about much. Most things don't really bother me unless I'm not having sex regularly.

I was with a scorp for almost 3 years. As long as you can deal with their moodiness it’s pretty easy. You just have to be consistent with them.

@edgelord. Hi 👋

I’m an INTJ

I wonder how a man/woman INTJ get along

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Posted by hellosaggy
for real.

I'm freezing the cap girl I was talking to. How you going to reschedule a dinner date for a lunch date? I can't get no booty on a lunch date. GTFO here. It's ok, I got some fire sign girls to talk to until she gets her act together.

that's an awesome test on her part. she filtered you out and probably should've done it from the get go instead of making out with you for hours

Lunch date is equivalent of asking do you have anything else to offer except sex-appeal? If you can meet up with someone for lunch and have an amazing time then there's real chemistry.

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@stillstillwater

First of all... you are hot... but I’m going to spell it hawt just because

Secondly... we’ve had a few lunch and group dates where It’s been fun and we’ve enjoyed ourselves. She always jokes about testing me. I know she likes me because she’s texting me about enjoying spending time with me.

She texted me about the bad mood out the blue after we were excited to have a date Wednesday AND after ghosting me on a group outing with my friends on Monday for me to introduce her to them. So I was frustrated. It was more a compilation of events that led me to cancel than just her bad mood. I can pull people out of bad moods

If I can get Scorpios out of them. A Cap is a cake walk.

Sorry I’m late! I feel like I’m getting sick again! Argh 😤... yah I invited Cap over.

Yeah Mother Nature jacked my plans up. Grrrrr . She knows I’m mad lmao. Oh Virgo was upset too. But I told her maybe it was a sign we shouldn’t hook up.


Yeah we will see what happens. Cap told me she was a little under weather too last night. She has today and tomorrow to recover.

please please please...... hope santa comes early...hehehe.... i said comes

you know... my virgo plans fell through this weekend due to that stupid winter storm on east coast. Mercury retrograde GTFOH!

we come back if and only if we aren't done with you.... regardless of who's at fault....

My birthday is Thursday... Cap asked me what are we doing as she took the night off work. I asked her "why am I supposed to figure that out?" She thought she was being invited to join a hang out with me and my friends and I told her no I just want to spend it with her.

later I texted and said "maybe we just order some dinner, watch a movie, and chill". I asked if she was down with that, and she said "Its your day "

If she is coming over... is this actually going to turn into something physical or end up basically eating, watching a movie, and spending time together.

I don't mind the slow play...just not on my birthday