Posted by RooSagicorn
Have you ever dated a bartender before?
Posted by saggurl88Posted by hellosaggy
She's never given me anything but blue balls.... she's a sweet girl though. like I've always said. I just don't have patience for slowness when I'm not completely into someone. We are cool.
Plus work is slow for her. when I go to her job. I don't get free drinks. she might make them doubles or whatever, and I tip her well (normally at least double my bill) because I know she only makes 50 - 100 bucks sometimes a shift.
because I'm a nice friend/ guy she's dating
right now I'm still on fence about the dating part... we will see what she does for my birthday.
thanks @saggurl88 I was shocked when she said it. I knew she had wanted to earlier in the night, but people started buying her shots and at 115 lbs... yeah it killed the whole thing.
last night her friend got white girl wasted - getting sick and cock blocked.
At least I made it to Friday like I planned, barely. She almost messed it up! I sure would have sexed her last night.
You have plenty of time to get your balls juggled in someones mouth if you can keep them interested. lol Good luck with it allclick to expand
Posted by RooSagicornPosted by hellosaggy
who has sex the first time drunk and is ok with it?
The CAP has been blowing up my phone for last few days asking to spend time with me. Last night, she got off work early because it was slow and asked me to come and drink with her and her friends.
Knowing I wasn't going to have to buy her drinks and I was curious as to what was going to happen I relented and got there in about 30 min.
She smelled like beer so I smiled at her and said "it looks like you started without me" she shook her head and I told her "order me a drink and you one too. you know what I like." and went and greeted her friends.
Her scorpio girlfriend said "are you going to make a move on her tonight. she wants you."
I laugh and said "maybe"
went back over to CAP and we are laughing and joking and I'm still pissed about her getting drunk a couple weeks ago and us not having sex that night.
she said "I honestly don't remember us making out or even getting home. You should have just f'd me" and she laughed.
I personally didn't find it funny. I wouldn't want to have sex with someone the first time and not be able to remember it.
She said she likes me and wouldn't have been bothered waking up next to me (I'm not a sleep over type person, especially when I've been drinking bc that's really the only time I possibly snore), so she wouldn't have woken up next to me anyway lol.
that feels rapey to me though.
so anyway...we drink and have some fun....make out a lot again, and I asked her if she's going to remember tonight.... then her taurus friend yaks all over herself. so she goes into mommy mode and takes care of her and says shes going to drive her home.
So I go home drunk and alone. so I text her... "hey you should be here with me" and pass out.
I wake up with a hang over...and the Virgo is supposed to be here today
Lol how ironic. Twice now she’s been drunk like that. And twice you could’ve had sex but didnt due to the drinking..
Well my Cap is no different drunk or not. He just tends to let me know his true feelings more when he’s been drinking.click to expand
Posted by nanoPosted by sierra_Posted by nano
“Knowing I wasn’t going to have to buy her drinks”
What kind of 33 year old guy gets mad about not getting pussy and makes it any kind of ordeal at all to have to buy a woman drinks that he’s trying to bone?
So crazy. I would never fuck a guy casually if he was stingy about drinks or buying me dinner or whatever 😂
Maybe I got lucky with my cap FWB (I low key had feelings for him 🤫 for a long time) because he was kind and spoiled me.click to expand
Posted by Neno2Posted by ShadowcatPosted by Neno2Posted by hellosaggy
Man I'm telling you. its like you gotta get them drinking to get them to loosen the f up.
Exactly👍i usually figure people out easy,i knew she must go drunk😂she has ♑ stelium
Hey now -_-
Its the truth😂
The only woman in whole zodiac that when she feels that she likes someone she tries to kill the attraction😂basically u must force them for their own good😂click to expand