Pretty sure this thread was created so that everyone can talk about how wonderful older women are and then mamba feels good about herself again.

Posted by tiziani
Are Libras even human beings? Let's be real

if they are objects surely we can gather them up all in a pile

Finally good advice lol

Posted by weepingxo
@notmyrealname thank you for always writing in a way that honors others, u r kind and i highly appreciate thisღ
@nelsonscorp you r so strong and inspirational u are an angel thank you for being here for me & sharing your story from july of last year until january 11th, it was your words that kept me from harming myself thank you
@shakedown u are crucial to so many thank you for the care you extend to everyone in need, for being my friend and hero and having the most beautiful heart...ur impact is hard to explain in words ty for everythingღ ❤ always
@aju how u r is unlike anything i have ever seen..your nature.. wisdom compassion openness to learn open-ended questions r all beyond words...truly...if i were to dream of a heaven, i think it would feel like how u r...entirely beautiful and gentle thank u for being yourself u r so amazing
@macdaddyinfinite i admire you so much, the motivations behind what you post never goes unnoticed ❤ you r pure and it is rare
@argus thank you for sharing your paintings they are beautiful i love everything you create
@boring your wisdom, objectivity, & seemingly boundless sphere of care is what the world needs ❤ by ur words u r making the world a better place thank you for being you
@roosagicorn @stillstillwater @hydorah @generation_xy @mystarsshine thank you for responding to my cries...in my time of need...for providing me with the resources and advice to help me use my emotions properly i imagine u all have personal experiences that need your time so i feel extremely grateful for every second thank you

when you post
(if i see) i am
hanging on to
every word

thank you for
being such
beautiful
warm souls

You're such a poet. The world needs more of you ❤

" I heard Libras can disappear for weeks and months. But always comes back. "

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Posted by Black-Mamba
Why are you all talking about me when I was deleted from DXP for 6 months last year

I re-joined Late JULY

why am i even part of the discussion

It was January. You were here at this time.The part of the conversation missing was us discussing the pros of you being invited by everyone. The only part you received were the cons, and positive thing that were said about you were intentionally left out of the screenshots. In the end we went with the consensus. The only time we did not go with the consensus was with dazed, and oh what a mistake that was.

I feel like you’re a fair person and honest but I don’t think you understand why CC is so upset

She did not choose to participate, did not ask to join and was unknowingly judged, labeled and “decided on” by people she thought she was cool with.

It’s just degrading to a person, especially a sensitive soul. I’m not sure how anyone on here would feel if they found out their characters were put into question and deliberated on without permission or even knowledge of the situation

Spot on ^^^

CC and I have had our moments openly on the boards and neither of us had to humiliate the other.

This was just wrong.

Yeah, no one gets to "vote" on you as a person and determine whether or not you're "worthy" of joining something you never even asked to join in the first place ~

Oh my gosh can you imagine if there was like this social experiment and like people who you're acquaintances with sat around and discussed your traits, political views, etc and then determined whether you're "good enough" or "acceptable" enough to "join" them is like flat out lame asf tbqh

And I am pretty sure if anyone was critiqued like that by acquaintances and had to read their brutally honest thoughts, and not even all of them, with you having no idea and unable to defend yourself, you would be #mortified

Or most people would be, anyway

The situation you are referring to is commonplace.

Tried out for anything? Then you have been voted on? Been chosen or chose someone for accolades? You have been voted on and voted on some one. Gone to a job interview, had it? Same dynamic... How about shot your shot with a crush? For the crush they have a vote...and you voted for your crush.

Its more or less like that.

There is no shame to be had here, save that feelings were hurt...the conversation was necessary, the conversation was had.

Was the conversation really necessary and did she choose to be "voted on" or have her personal views dissected by acquaintances or did you guys make that choice for her?

I have no problem accepting people making mistakes, we ALL do

But no need to be stubborn and hard headed. If you hurt someone's feelings and she didn't deserve it, just apologize and move on

Most people would have NOT liked to be in her position

I will let you know then what Most people would say about this situation.

No need to let me know. I wasn't the one being degraded. lol! Don't gotta explain yourselves to me but please let's not pretend to be innocent because CC did not sign up for a wrestling class or the soccer team to put herself up for judgement and "examination," and even they get judged on their athletic abilities and not their potential personal beliefs.

Then I won't let you know. And she personally wasn't degraded, she was neither treated with contempt nor with disrespect. We did no character assassination, whatsoever no matter how folks are trying to characterize it. It seems you are seeking a statement of remorse from me, I have none to offer for having the conversation in question.

Her views (as everyone else who was recruited/invited) were judged upon their merits with respect to the facts as we understand them and as a result then and only then was she found wanting for the purposes of the group.

Considering that the context of our conversation had much to do with the nature of her commentary and not her character, and not for the purposes of propagating gossip or petty beefs I will not be offering an apology for the conversation occurring.

If you don't think having a holier than thou mindset and believing you and whoever have the right to judge and dissect someone's potential personal opinions and character that you do not even 100% factually know of since this person is only an acquaintance then I don't know what to say. And to "vote" on it too. Yikes.

That ego is huge, that's really all I can say.

Take responsibility. No one cares. We all make mistakes.

I just realized how much of a bytch he is

No manhood in that dude

I’m done

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BEEN realizing how much of a cry baby you are. Emotionally you're digressing ...

I read the screenshots and they're nothing that hasn't been known to you 😒

Ixion has been quite a gentleman compared to all the bs thats being thrown around here. Someone else would've cussed you out.

Hes merely saying he doesn't owe you an apology nor cares enough to force one.

Pick your ego up and keep it moving...

As a grown ass woman you have much more avenues for confidence building than someone online.

😴😴😴

I'm so amused at the level of "determined to be offended" on this thread. 😂

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@lxion I just wanted to say that I appreciate the way you talk (write).. I might not always understand 😅 but don't change who you are.

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agreed!!! That was like some serious high-level government butter i'd expect to read.

😂😂 my first thought was the dxp illuminati

But idk.. it was in my heart to tell him that. We all express ourselves differently and his writing style is appreciated by me..
It challenges me and I like that.

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my first thought was damn so glad someone cares enough to bring something worthwhile to the table.

but I did understand it all. I'm not as eloquent... nor give enough treetrunks to even try to be but I do give enough treetrunks to contribute to this thread with my 2 cents:

1) @Ixion and remainder of the disbanded group - thank you for your purposeful efforts to bring a positive change even if it is to a scum-filled place like DXP

2) LOL @ CC being a sensitive soul... just lol...she'll be fine.

3) For anyone who has hurt feelings about discussions of people's merit for an invitation to a group with a very specific purpose and method of operation, and who is above the age of 4, please put your big girl/big boy pants on to handle butter with understanding and grace that not everything revolves around your useless existence.

4) Yes, for some of you we get that you just LOVE to have fun and dance and sing (sounds sooo delightful!) and I don't know what other butter you do on DXP/CHATS but understand that other people have a right to their own purposeful efforts whether it's in seriousness or jest. Please realize despite these people's choice of actions, you can still go ahead and aimlessly waste your time on here like most of us do...

5) Finally treetrunk off to the drama-starters and traitors of agreements.

Long Live Justice and Equality.

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@lxion I just wanted to say that I appreciate the way you talk (write).. I might not always understand 😅 but don't change who you are.

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agreed!!! That was like some serious high-level government butter i'd expect to read.

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I'm not really funny and always pleasantly surprised if I get a laugh out of people but I suppose this is what I find funny:

Wry humor

Is that considered sitcoms like Curb your enthusiasm, real husbands of Hollywood the office and After Life (UK- its brilliant) ?

"The Office" is along the lines of wry humor.
Also, stuff by Mike Judge ("Office Space") tends to be similar.
And if you want to go to ancient times, check out stuff by Bob Newhart. (I'd go as far to say Robin Williams/Jonathan Winters are in the wry category, but they're really in a class all their own imho).

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Cool! Thanks for sharing. Definitely find those shows hilarious.

I'm not really funny and always pleasantly surprised if I get a laugh out of people but I suppose this is what I find funny:

Wry humor

Is that considered sitcoms like Curb your enthusiasm, real husbands of Hollywood the office and After Life (UK- its brilliant) ?

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Posted by stillstillwater
I dont mind libra sexual energy... it can be a quiet storm or a pleasant rain drop on a spring eve


So dreamy 😻 lol

Idk anything about it 😆.

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Lol you're missing out 😬😋

I dont mind libra sexual energy... it can be a quiet storm or a pleasant rain drop on a spring eve


So dreamy 😻 lol

Posted by Wolfine
I just picked absolutely different choices and still got October. @stillstillwater, we should just take it 😆😆.

Lol it knows our souls 🙀

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I changed to some other likable options and still got... lol

You got: October!
You were born in October (or you have Libra leanings)!

and a third time...

You got: October!
You were born in October (or you have Libra leanings)!

Ok you win sex quiz.

😂😂

🤫 lol!

Reminds me of...

I'm bout to throw some game, they both one and the same
Cupid's the one to blame ... make love to me
I'm bout to shed some light, cause each and every night
You gotta do it right ..treetrunk, me.

Lol

Lol that libra moon is strong!.. no other placements matter 😂😂

What did you pick the first time?

Lol

Passionate +aggressive, cowgirl, the dark simple bed w the art above it, the black feather thing.

You?

😂😂 why am I not surprised you picked the whip. My cap bestie always trys to add a whip to her Halloween costumes. Yall the real freaks 💪🏿😏

I picked the first bed, cowgirl and whip cream lol

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Lol it's not the whip. it's the last one... a feathery thing. Seemed the least intrusive lol. Id pick none if I could.

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I changed to some other likable options and still got... lol

You got: October!
You were born in October (or you have Libra leanings)!

and a third time...

You got: October!
You were born in October (or you have Libra leanings)!

Ok you win sex quiz.

😂😂

🤫 lol!

Reminds me of...

I'm bout to throw some game, they both one and the same
Cupid's the one to blame ... make love to me
I'm bout to shed some light, cause each and every night
You gotta do it right ..treetrunk, me.

Lol

Lol that libra moon is strong!.. no other placements matter 😂😂

What did you pick the first time?

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Lol

Passionate +aggressive, cowgirl, the dark simple bed w the art above it, the black feather thing.

You?

I picked passionate + aggressive, cowgirl/doggy/missionary, the lil black feather thing ( I dont think you need any props at all but that seemed least interfering lol), dark bed (minimal, no distractions) = Libra vibes 👀

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I changed to some other likable options and still got... lol

You got: October!
You were born in October (or you have Libra leanings)!

and a third time...

You got: October!
You were born in October (or you have Libra leanings)!

Ok you win sex quiz.

😂😂

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🤫 lol!

Reminds me of...



I'm bout to throw some game, they both one and the same
Cupid's the one to blame ... make love to me
I'm bout to shed some light, cause each and every night
You gotta do it right ..treetrunk, me.

Lol

I changed to some other likable options and still got... lol

You got: October!
You were born in October (or you have Libra leanings)!

and a third time...

You got: October!
You were born in October (or you have Libra leanings)!

Ok you win sex quiz.

This was so interesting lol

You got: October!
You were born in October (or you have Libra leanings)!

Libra Moon, I guess or Sag Mars attracted to Libra butter? I don't know...