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Any takers on “Spunky?” 😆

Isn't spunk(y) slang for sperm? 🤔

Spunk lol

🤣More commonly used by English folk. Must remember to delete search history.
I mean, wth ...my SO is not a mere biological substance ....or are we?

Lol Spunky is like feisty though, courageous brave almost to the point of rambunctiousness.

🤣🤣 Well ...I don't think it'll fly in my everyday lingo.
We have no such equivalent😁😁😁

Yes, Spunk just meaning hot back in the 90’s down under lol

I'll stick to innocuous first names ....🤣🤣🤣

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Can’t be any worse than WAP!?

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Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
I only gets call fine (but never handsome tho I'm sure some see me as handsome) by certain folks of certain zodiac signs. I don't know how many times I've heard that word "fine" thrown my way. I just look at them with a smirk on my face (and a rather confused expression if you will) as if I don't know what to make of it and keep it moving. Even some of my nieces says I'm pretty. So it has to be true if THEY (my own nieces) says it.

I honestly don't know how I feel about all of that. I'd much prefer people keep their terms of endearment of me to themselves as I don't know how to respond to it without making myself sound like a narcissistic jerk and embarrass myself in the process.

I may come off on this site as a showoff because none of you can see me but in reality I'm just a really shy ass who couldn't care less about being called handsome or pretty. I rather just get looked at as a regular normal man like other men gets looked at and accepted as.

“Fine” to me is the ultimate attractive guy like Sharma Moore ❤️

Had to Google that guy cus I was being curious. It corrected me as saying "did you mean shemar Moore". I'm sure that's who you mean. But anyway he look alright. Like a cool fella.

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I originally put Shemar and then corrected it lol anyway that’s my definition of “fine”

Now your going to have to put your pic up 😉 @jumping_jupiter

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Posted by sweethearts
Any takers on “Spunky?” 😆

Isn't spunk(y) slang for sperm? 🤔

Spunk lol

🤣More commonly used by English folk. Must remember to delete search history.
I mean, wth ...my SO is not a mere biological substance ....or are we?

Lol Spunky is like feisty though, courageous brave almost to the point of rambunctiousness.

🤣🤣 Well ...I don't think it'll fly in my everyday lingo.
We have no such equivalent😁😁😁

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Yes, Spunk just meaning hot back in the 90’s down under lol

Posted by Chancellor
I think when a woman doesn't have nudes to send you that she is a rare and good woman. 95% of women these days are whores. A woman without nudes is an indication, but not a guarantee, that she is in the 5% .

Think that would apply to men too 🤔 I know some male whores

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Any takers on “Spunky?” 😆

I surely hope not 😄

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Didn’t think so but I was surprised that you guys actually like handsome!

Any takers on “Spunky?” 😆

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Ladies and Gentlemen, a word of caution ...if your SO uses a term of endearment that he/she usually does not use ....prick those ears, 9/10 somethings up lol.
😏🤭

I know something is wrong when she uses my first name or when she calls me asshole 😬

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Or your name in full 😆

Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
I only gets call fine (but never handsome tho I'm sure some see me as handsome) by certain folks of certain zodiac signs. I don't know how many times I've heard that word "fine" thrown my way. I just look at them with a smirk on my face (and a rather confused expression if you will) as if I don't know what to make of it and keep it moving. Even some of my nieces says I'm pretty. So it has to be true if THEY (my own nieces) says it.

I honestly don't know how I feel about all of that. I'd much prefer people keep their terms of endearment of me to themselves as I don't know how to respond to it without making myself sound like a narcissistic jerk and embarrass myself in the process.

I may come off on this site as a showoff because none of you can see me but in reality I'm just a really shy ass who couldn't care less about being called handsome or pretty. I rather just get looked at as a regular normal man like other men gets looked at and accepted as.

“Fine” to me is the ultimate attractive guy like Sharma Moore ❤️

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Ladies and Gentlemen, a word of caution ...if your SO uses a term of endearment that he/she usually does not use ....prick those ears, 9/10 somethings up lol.
😏🤭

Well now that it’s confirmed they love it, maybe we should loosen our tongues a little and let our men know how sexy and handsome we think they are!

I'm on first name terms ...lol. jk.

I don't do the cute namea, but i do pay compliments however, when due and true.
When they smell exceptionally nice, or look good in a situation ...or say something clever, I'll let it be known how they make me feel.

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Love it when they smell good and yes I’ll definitely compliment that straight away

Posted by NemDeux
Ladies and Gentlemen, a word of caution ...if your SO uses a term of endearment that he/she usually does not use ....prick those ears, 9/10 somethings up lol.
😏🤭

Well now that it’s confirmed they love it, maybe we should loosen our tongues a little and let our men know how sexy and handsome we think they are!

Posted by rufflestruffles

Can you explain the different shifts, please?

Like do you work 7am-7pm and he works 7pm-7am?

Exactly like this.

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That’d be really hard to have any kind of relationship with let alone trying to find time to actually go out. You guys are ships passing in the night!

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Posted by pinkbird03
2020- For a girl, she’s a wap

I find that term offensive and degrading.

I wouldn't call her whole person WAP but...experience has shown letting her know she got that good good has tended to be an important validation 😄

Lol, I got that wrong 😂 I thought it meant something else

Just googled it, yes I am offended lol 😂 don’t like it

Lol I'm guessing this means you don't do any form of dirty talk in the bedroom?

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Well that’s a different story... I was talking about conversations in general at a bar. I don’t have a SO to go there atm. So if a random said that to me I’d probably punch them lmao.

Plus, we don’t really use that slang down under. There’s a lot of American slang which bypasses the majority of us here.

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Posted by pinkbird03
2020- For a girl, she’s a wap

I find that term offensive and degrading.

I wouldn't call her whole person WAP but...experience has shown letting her know she got that good good has tended to be an important validation 😄

Lol, I got that wrong 😂 I thought it meant something else

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Just googled it, yes I am offended lol 😂 don’t like it

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Posted by pinkbird03
2020- For a girl, she’s a wap

I find that term offensive and degrading.

I wouldn't call her whole person WAP but...experience has shown letting her know she got that good good has tended to be an important validation 😄

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Lol, I got that wrong 😂 I thought it meant something else

Posted by SeaLion
I use "handsome" "sexy" "hot" "yummy" "babe" or "Baby" and "pretty" for the most part.
I've used "pookie" "sunshine" "honey" "my dear" "my love" as little pet names.
I have never heard a guy not appreciating being called handsome. Thats the equivalent of calling a woman "beautiful"?!?!?!

Not saying they wouldn’t appreciate being called handsome but how often do you hear it being used nowadays?

I like being told beautiful or very beautiful, that to me is inside and out

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2020- For a girl, she’s a wap

I find that term offensive and degrading.

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Back in the 90’s we use to call a guy Spunky, or handsome in the 80’s lol, haven’t heard those terms in a while.

What are some of the terms of endearment that make “YOU” feel desired or special and the only one SO has eyes for?

Are men told how attractive they are as often as women are told?

My partners have called me babe, bear, babu, baby, handsome, Honey, Hun, Sparky(🙄), Pendejo (🙄🙄🙄) a few others I can't remember or will take to my grave lol. Generally speaking, I'm all for it so long as it's authentic or good-humored.

As for your second question. Definitely not and it would be nice to be appreciated more in that way BUT honestly all my partners let me know to varying degrees what they thought of my appearance some more often than others but definitely not as much as I let them know.

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Hmm, I call everyone babe, hun, sweetheart whether it’s my girls, friends or male mates. But don’t often refer to guys as hot or sexy, not sure why?

Told Pisces he was easy on the eye when he referred to himself as not being overly attractive and he laughed. Maybe I should have just said he’s a hottie because to me he is, but we aren’t dating so I have my reservations.

Would you prefer to be told point blank that we think your hot?

Posted by Dreamy88
I still love being called handsome. My Cancer calls me "handsome man" and every now and then, she'll tell me I look like a fuck boy. I like em both lol

I've learned to embrace the fuck boy -ism

lol at fuck boy, that’d be when you’re getting freaky with it! 😉

I find it Interesting that you guys like to be called handsome.

Posted by Aqua-Marine
I actually really like it if a guy calls me “cute” because it feels like he’s seeing me for my personality rather than appearance and that is a huge swoon for me

Yes and it’s a common theme for guys, even total strangers that we just meet to refer to us as sexy, beautiful, cute, hot and any number of descriptive words on our appearance. I think a lot of the time it isn’t even taken seriously unless you particularly like that person.

I rarely comment on a guys appearance unless I’m interested in them and wondered what they like to be called. I’d refer to them as “hot” mostly. But I’ve met a couple of guys in RL that I considered “fine” and way out of my league.

Posted by WarAngel
I still like being called 'handsome'. 😇

Really? If I come across a gentleman, I’d still refer to them as handsome but it’s in the way they hold themselves and the old skool qualities that I see.