@unicornsag

I’m not done with Cap. She’s just stuck in her head. She has a lot going on. I’m letting her sort it out.

@roosagicorn

Not that I’m not ready to settle down. We are moving at two different paces. Nothing wrong with it.

Hi just started chatting with a 🐠

What do y’all need in terms of building a friendship/relationship?

Want to make sure I can handle it.

HIV though?

Extremism...

MY opinion.... leave her.

I dated a woman who had hysterectomy in her 20s

Sex was no existent we fought and I cheated on her regularly.... it broke her heart.


Not fair to either of you.

When something doesn’t have an end date and drags on animosity and frustration builds and resentment follows.... you are on that path.

HOWs everybody else’s weekend going?

So.... I went out with the Capricorn last night. She admitted she was trying to take things slow... she’s cute but she pissed me off and it’s a turn off. She’s having money problems. I told her it was ok... again turned off by the indirectness of her having an attitude forcing me to break off our date Wednesday.

She was in the middle of boring me about a dog story when my new Pisces friend texted me saying she was going out to a place about 45 minutes away. I was tipsy and bored with cap so I told cap I was really tired as I had gotten up early to work out and was heading home... she wasn’t drinking or seeming to want to do anything but bore me anyway

So I hugged her good bye and drove to see my new Pisces friend. She’s a lot of fun and we partied for a few hours. I think it’s time to back Burner the cap.

My sags friends birthday is today so I’m going to take her out tonight... hopefully give her a present too.

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I get blinders sometimes when I get over excited about something. I can normally observe the problems when I'm not emotionally connected, but as soon as my passion starts flowing for something.... it seems like IDGAF until something major happens and I look back 20/20 and shake my head.

That’s your sun!

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my sag sun/aries moon combo is lethal ..... it creates a lot of confusion for me. I have to take a step back sometimes from things.

When I find something I like. I pounce on it. I need someone around to tell me to slow down lol

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I would say I’m very sharp and can sense ‘danger’, so I’m no fool. But I tend to miss details about a person that my water and earth friends notice, for example a look, small hints, etc. But yes, I think it has gotten a lot better as I’ve gotten older, I’m more observant now. But I don’t care for small, insignificant details, I don’t have time for that. I have other priorities. I have a natural ability to sense what are important details and what aren’t, and then I put all my focus on the important ones.

But I like work that requires attention to detail, like proof-reading and organizing.

An Aries with an attention to detail and organizing. Ive seen 2 types of Aries - chaotic and messy vs well organized

I think most of us are a little messy, because there are so many other things to focus on in life than cleaning. But yes, some of us are also very chaotic and forgetful; like my former boss. But I’m more organized, yes. Also, my studies requires me to pay a lot of attention to detail (then again, I chose to focus on a philosophical field where details aren’t THAT important, so there you go, lol).

Haha messy little rams
Aries bosses tend to be like that particularly if male

This is a woman. She doesn’t even seem like an aries to me, but she’s not on the cusp either. She was often late for work, forgot to do important tasks etc. She was so frivolous

Do Aries x aries usually work well as a team?

Yes, we tend to take each other seriously and appreciate each other’s loud and wild ideas.

Do u lock horns? Aries is generally seen as bossy. However Ive seen they can become lenient and sometimes even egalitarian with the employees/ colleagues. At other times, a totalitarian

Well, we know best. Especially me. Other arians tend to give in when I start voicing my opinions So in that sense, we don’t lock horns, because I get my will No, but I get the impression that aries are very respecting of each other. My boss insisted on doing things her own way, and she refused to listen to the other leaders (so they in turn had very little respect for her). But even though I didn’t agree with her decisions, I found it hard to not respect her. It’s hard to explain.

You got good persuasive talk too? lol
When it comes to respect I'm an Aries moon who can't respect authorities, if you're wrong I'll tell you that you're wrong no matter who you are lol boss or person on the street, makes no difference, if you're stubborn you to not see your faults you can't get my respect. That's how I see it my whole life lol but your way is probably better, makes less conflicts

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LOL I think that's what makes me a good consultant... right is right, wrong is wrong, I've told the Feds, ceos of companies, and gotten into fights over right and wrong. I don't care who you are.

I get blinders sometimes when I get over excited about something. I can normally observe the problems when I'm not emotionally connected, but as soon as my passion starts flowing for something.... it seems like IDGAF until something major happens and I look back 20/20 and shake my head.

.... but the sex is good though


honestly friendship and sex are my foundation for a relationship.... everything else is on top of that.

And with friendship its trust and loyalty....

all a relationship is sex + friendship

becoming someones partner is sex + friendship + contractual commitments/responsibility .... that's when we have the problem lol

@SentimentalCrabby
Stop airing our dirty laundry! I thought you liked it!


All jokes aside.

There is something you are doing that makes him think you are partially interested and he just needs to convince you. Block him and when he asks you why you haven't been answering his text... tell him you blocked him. The only way to get him to go away is bruise his ego.

Like @TheSag said .... us December Sags will do some chasing when we know you are interested and we want to have sex, see my capricorn and ex scorpio post, but once you make us realize we aint getting nothing.... buh bye....

November Sags have to be straight up embarrassed to end the chase.

Yooooooo! party party party.....


Live it up. I got 12 days before mine!

what's ironic is you can compare what these women are going through to black people. all women, including white women are actually minorities as well. the country is mostly ran by white men.

the stuff ya'll are going through is only a small piece of the crap we get.

but as soon as ya'll call harassment its game over for people. this country is full of hypocrites.

we can point out systemic racism, intolerance, and prejudice. naacp and blacklivesmatter come out and society quells them

but a few women say, this man came on to me, etc. career over..... its a joke. it has to stop and blah blah blah, society is supposed to move.

At least the president is consistent. he doesn't bat an eye at intolerance at any level.

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I just got email notification of mandatory sexual harassment meetings next week! Yeah almost the end of the year they have to get them in.

@hellosaggy have you ever been to one of those? Or sexual harassment training? Your comments sound like you haven’t. There is no room for “potential relationships or if someone wants it” in these. The criteria is if anybody feels uncomfortable. So as a boss or even employee you are not supposed to create that type of environment ever. They don’t care about misunderstandings in a company truly supporting and protecting their employees.

isn't this guy an MBA and highly successful, he can't be this stupid

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whoa whoa whoa... Time out. I said. I SEE how the stuff happens. I don't shit where I eat. There are plenty of times when I go to happy hour with co-workers and shit starts getting awkward. lines get blurred all the time. out of area conferences hook ups happen. Unless you plan on having a 'silo' effect going on, its probably going to happen and someone is probably going to get in their feelings, especially when alcohol is involved.

I didn't say all I wanted was a $ $ ... Plus what I am saying is partially in jest.

I've been wining and dining her the last month, I respect her need to pull two jobs and I bare the expenses of our dates. last time we went out and drank a little she let her inhibitions down and we made out pretty heavy. I stopped it because she was doing shots and I didn't want to take advantage.

I feel like this was her way of keeping it from happening again without being honest, and rescheduling for a time that wouldn't involve alcohol and her being seduced by my charms.

Feeling like she's trying to keep her distance...so I will let her keep it by not being available like I have been.

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@hazeofpixiedust

and @saggurl88 ... you can appreciate this.

No...no...no... I've been dating this girl for a month.... that was supposed to be my deal closing night... I shaved and everything... she texts me all through the day... then a few hours before she says....

"I just want to tell you in advance. I had a bad day, and I have an attitude, I don't want you to think its you."

so, I'm like. look I can deal with attitudes, but I am not walking on thin ice. I want to enjoy my night with you (ie... drink and have sex)....

she texted back she understood

SO I was nice and was like. look we can reschedule so we can have a good time.

She was like, well we can do lunch in a few days.

No, No, No... its classically a redo of the original plans, its a reschedule not a modification.

SO, she either doesn't want to have sex.... in that case bye felicia

or

She does want the D, but its going to get kicked down the road.... in that case.... BYE FELICIA

Felicia can knock on my door when she ready to drop them drawers...

LOL You are awful!!!

You just don't get cap women. We aren't letting you in till we trust you. But if these are your only intentions for the girl - leave the poor thing alone and go find some A% % somewhere else! totally unfair to her. She doesn't owe you anything? Just because you shaved?! lolol.

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@hazeofpixiedust

She says I'm a great guy and I'm always nice to her, she didn't want to take her attitude out on me.... so in that case... DON'T.... I compartmentalize my emotions very well, except when I'm obsessively in love with you.

Yes! I shaved it was a tedious process. I'm part bear. Now I'm all itchy for nothing!

@Hazyflo

I can fix that *shrugs*

I'm a Libra Mars and very accommodating.

Oh Fudge Butter... this is a female thread....

*runs out room and slams door*

*Proceeds to bend down and peak through crack at bottom of door....very creepily*

@hazeofpixiedust

and @saggurl88 ... you can appreciate this.

No...no...no... I've been dating this girl for a month.... that was supposed to be my deal closing night... I shaved and everything... she texts me all through the day... then a few hours before she says....

"I just want to tell you in advance. I had a bad day, and I have an attitude, I don't want you to think its you."

so, I'm like. look I can deal with attitudes, but I am not walking on thin ice. I want to enjoy my night with you (ie... drink and have sex)....

she texted back she understood

SO I was nice and was like. look we can reschedule so we can have a good time.

She was like, well we can do lunch in a few days.

No, No, No... its classically a redo of the original plans, its a reschedule not a modification.

SO, she either doesn't want to have sex.... in that case bye felicia

or

She does want the D, but its going to get kicked down the road.... in that case.... BYE FELICIA

Felicia can knock on my door when she ready to drop them drawers...

I wouldn't say silence isn't consent... its just not guaranteed consent

you know how many times I've had a woman say after I kiss her or something. she was waiting for that.

I would have missed out on a few ladies if I just waited for a yes.

As a man. it's hard to figure stuff out sometimes. because when the woman is interested... it works.... when she's not interested .... its harassment

I would have to have context when someone says sexual harassment. its ridiculous to lose your career and be shamed over misunderstandings and bruised egos.