This next week is going to test me, going away with a group of girls for 6 nights and 1 of them, the one I’m closest to... also a libra but with Aquarius moon is already grating me 🙄 we are heading away for her birthday. She just messaged to ask if I wanted to have a Sunday session as well when we get back on October 4th for her birthday

Every year she celebrates her birthday from the weekend before the 28th sept and is still celebrating and organising outings around the weekend of mine on the 9th October. Another friend is on the 1st October and she does the same. I’m not a big celebrator and mostly get put off because they arrange about 3 or more outings each and we have the same groups of friends so by the time it gets to mine everyone is over it. 🙄

Yes!!!! I’m staying away from everyone at the moment because of my short fuse. I’m even noticing it when sending messages or receiving messages from my friends and I’ve snapped or just not replying because it’s pissed me off!!!

When does this end? I’m Going on a girls trip next week 🙄

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Yes it’s weird. It’s a business arrangement and it should remain that way.

I say this as I use to own a gym and my PT’s were told the rules from the get go about keeping business as business.

It’s an industry where the lines are frequently crossed and causes a lot of drama and certainly never goes unnoticed. You could potentially get him in trouble.

Also, have you asked your husband what you should buy him and if he thinks it’s a good idea? 🤔

My marriage is open lol

Your life style is yours but this is your personal trainers career and life, not sure that’s open.

You know just because you live the life you love you still have to be respectful of others, not everyone is where you’re at.

My trainer gave me a plant as a gift because we’re obsessed with them so that’s why I’m wondering if I should return the favor.

Are you returning the favour or is there an ulterior motive here? I’m just dating there is boundaries, professionally and personally.

It’s a nice thing to do for anyone. Would you be saying the same thing if the trainer was a woman?

If she Was a lesbian then yes I would. In This industry people mistake the trainers dedication and also friendliness for more but truth of the matter is, you are their bread and butter. They HAVE to be friendly which is mistaken for more. They are doing their job and helping you stay on track with your goals. I’m not saying they don’t flirt but that’s in order to maintain the income that they are getting. It’s a really tough industry and really hard to replace a good paying client. They need at least 25 sessions a week to maintain a normal income and more to excel!

So you are comparing trainers to courtesans. Cool.

And you’re thinking trainers are fair game to play with and not professional

No, I’m not.

I don’t think giving someone you see 4 times a week for a long time as some rando. I’d see them as a friend.

It’s polite and I think gifts are a way of showing appreciation.

I don’t think of giving someone a small token of gratitude means sex is gonna happen.

Do you have sex with all the people you give gifts to?

Never seen someone gift someone something in our profession that didn’t have an ulterior motive. I’ve had to deal with the aftermath of it, not just with the clients but with my trainers and my members. It’s unprofessional and not acceptable.

Would you gift your boss something and think nothing more of it, or say your boss bought you a gift for no reason. Do you think there’s not going to be anything further thought of it from other colleges or within the industry?

Yeah we bake for each other all the time and she brings us coffee. I brought her souvenirs from my UK trip too.

I’m not 100% straight either so I must want to fuck her.

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If you say so..

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Yes it’s weird. It’s a business arrangement and it should remain that way.

I say this as I use to own a gym and my PT’s were told the rules from the get go about keeping business as business.

It’s an industry where the lines are frequently crossed and causes a lot of drama and certainly never goes unnoticed. You could potentially get him in trouble.

Also, have you asked your husband what you should buy him and if he thinks it’s a good idea? 🤔

My marriage is open lol

Your life style is yours but this is your personal trainers career and life, not sure that’s open.

You know just because you live the life you love you still have to be respectful of others, not everyone is where you’re at.

My trainer gave me a plant as a gift because we’re obsessed with them so that’s why I’m wondering if I should return the favor.

Are you returning the favour or is there an ulterior motive here? I’m just dating there is boundaries, professionally and personally.

It’s a nice thing to do for anyone. Would you be saying the same thing if the trainer was a woman?

If she Was a lesbian then yes I would. In This industry people mistake the trainers dedication and also friendliness for more but truth of the matter is, you are their bread and butter. They HAVE to be friendly which is mistaken for more. They are doing their job and helping you stay on track with your goals. I’m not saying they don’t flirt but that’s in order to maintain the income that they are getting. It’s a really tough industry and really hard to replace a good paying client. They need at least 25 sessions a week to maintain a normal income and more to excel!

So you are comparing trainers to courtesans. Cool.

And you’re thinking trainers are fair game to play with and not professional

No, I’m not.

I don’t think giving someone you see 4 times a week for a long time as some rando. I’d see them as a friend.

It’s polite and I think gifts are a way of showing appreciation.

I don’t think of giving someone a small token of gratitude means sex is gonna happen.

Do you have sex with all the people you give gifts to?

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Never seen someone gift someone something in our profession that didn’t have an ulterior motive. I’ve had to deal with the aftermath of it, not just with the clients but with my trainers and my members. It’s unprofessional and not acceptable.

Would you gift your boss something and think nothing more of it, or say your boss bought you a gift for no reason. Do you think there’s not going to be anything further thought of it from other colleges or within the industry?

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Yes it’s weird. It’s a business arrangement and it should remain that way.

I say this as I use to own a gym and my PT’s were told the rules from the get go about keeping business as business.

It’s an industry where the lines are frequently crossed and causes a lot of drama and certainly never goes unnoticed. You could potentially get him in trouble.

Also, have you asked your husband what you should buy him and if he thinks it’s a good idea? 🤔

My marriage is open lol

Your life style is yours but this is your personal trainers career and life, not sure that’s open.

You know just because you live the life you love you still have to be respectful of others, not everyone is where you’re at.

My trainer gave me a plant as a gift because we’re obsessed with them so that’s why I’m wondering if I should return the favor.

Are you returning the favour or is there an ulterior motive here? I’m just dating there is boundaries, professionally and personally.

It’s a nice thing to do for anyone. Would you be saying the same thing if the trainer was a woman?

If she Was a lesbian then yes I would. In This industry people mistake the trainers dedication and also friendliness for more but truth of the matter is, you are their bread and butter. They HAVE to be friendly which is mistaken for more. They are doing their job and helping you stay on track with your goals. I’m not saying they don’t flirt but that’s in order to maintain the income that they are getting. It’s a really tough industry and really hard to replace a good paying client. They need at least 25 sessions a week to maintain a normal income and more to excel!

So you are comparing trainers to courtesans. Cool.

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And you’re thinking trainers are fair game to play with and not professional...Cool

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Yes it’s weird. It’s a business arrangement and it should remain that way.

I say this as I use to own a gym and my PT’s were told the rules from the get go about keeping business as business.

It’s an industry where the lines are frequently crossed and causes a lot of drama and certainly never goes unnoticed. You could potentially get him in trouble.

Also, have you asked your husband what you should buy him and if he thinks it’s a good idea? 🤔

My marriage is open lol

Your life style is yours but this is your personal trainers career and life, not sure that’s open.

You know just because you live the life you love you still have to be respectful of others, not everyone is where you’re at.

My trainer gave me a plant as a gift because we’re obsessed with them so that’s why I’m wondering if I should return the favor.

Are you returning the favour or is there an ulterior motive here? I’m just dating there is boundaries, professionally and personally.

It’s a nice thing to do for anyone. Would you be saying the same thing if the trainer was a woman?

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If she Was a lesbian then yes I would. In This industry people mistake the trainers dedication and also friendliness for more but truth of the matter is, you are their bread and butter. They HAVE to be friendly which is mistaken for more. They are doing their job and helping you stay on track with your goals. I’m not saying they don’t flirt but that’s in order to maintain the income that they are getting. It’s a really tough industry and really hard to replace a good paying client. They need at least 25 sessions a week to maintain a normal income and more to excel!

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Yes it’s weird. It’s a business arrangement and it should remain that way.

I say this as I use to own a gym and my PT’s were told the rules from the get go about keeping business as business.

It’s an industry where the lines are frequently crossed and causes a lot of drama and certainly never goes unnoticed. You could potentially get him in trouble.

Also, have you asked your husband what you should buy him and if he thinks it’s a good idea? 🤔

My marriage is open lol

Your life style is yours but this is your personal trainers career and life, not sure that’s open.

You know just because you live the life you love you still have to be respectful of others, not everyone is where you’re at.

My trainer gave me a plant as a gift because we’re obsessed with them so that’s why I’m wondering if I should return the favor.

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Are you returning the favour or is there an ulterior motive here? I’m just dating there is boundaries, professionally and personally.

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Yes it’s weird. It’s a business arrangement and it should remain that way.

I say this as I use to own a gym and my PT’s were told the rules from the get go about keeping business as business.

It’s an industry where the lines are frequently crossed and causes a lot of drama and certainly never goes unnoticed. You could potentially get him in trouble.

Also, have you asked your husband what you should buy him and if he thinks it’s a good idea? 🤔

My marriage is open lol

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Your life style is yours but this is your personal trainers career and life, not sure that’s open.

You know just because you live the life you love you still have to be respectful of others, not everyone is where you’re at.

I have thought it before but brushed it off thinking... nah... but after hearing that 🤔

Oh well it is what it is 😂 I’m not the one in a relationship with someone thinking of someone else 🤣🤣🤣

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I keep it a bit on my phone and then I delete it. Can't let them fall into the wrong hands. I don't really forget them though so it stays in my memory

Also, sex positions give me flashbacks to which ever woman did it best

Like there was this one girl I was seeing, best doggy style ever. I always think about her when I'm doing it like that

Hmm... Is this wrong?

Well yes!!! Especially if it’s not the girl you’re doing it with and you’re thinking of someone else!!

Just as well we can’t read your mind though hey?

Now you got me thinking ...

Let me just sprinkle some more seeds of doubt in your head lmao

But yes I think about other sex partners with any current partner. I'm pretty sure I'm not the only guy doing this lol

Oh fuck no!! That’s too much information!

I’m always going to think there are 3 in the bed from now on 🙄 mind you .. I am competitive

Come on, you must have fantasized about someone else other than your partner before. Not even like a hot actor ?

Women are guilty of this too 😛

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It’s been 15 years since I was married ... nowadays I fantasise about the guy I’m actually in bed with 😜

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I keep it a bit on my phone and then I delete it. Can't let them fall into the wrong hands. I don't really forget them though so it stays in my memory

Also, sex positions give me flashbacks to which ever woman did it best

Like there was this one girl I was seeing, best doggy style ever. I always think about her when I'm doing it like that

Hmm... Is this wrong?

Well yes!!! Especially if it’s not the girl you’re doing it with and you’re thinking of someone else!!

Just as well we can’t read your mind though hey?

Now you got me thinking ...

Let me just sprinkle some more seeds of doubt in your head lmao

But yes I think about other sex partners with any current partner. I'm pretty sure I'm not the only guy doing this lol

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Oh fuck no!! That’s too much information!

I’m always going to think there are 3 in the bed from now on 🙄 mind you .. I am competitive

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I keep it a bit on my phone and then I delete it. Can't let them fall into the wrong hands. I don't really forget them though so it stays in my memory

Also, sex positions give me flashbacks to which ever woman did it best

Like there was this one girl I was seeing, best doggy style ever. I always think about her when I'm doing it like that

Hmm... Is this wrong?

Well yes!!! Especially if it’s not the girl you’re doing it with and you’re thinking of someone else!!

Just as well we can’t read your mind though hey?

Now you got me thinking ...

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I guess it just freaked me out after he said it.. we aren’t in a relationship, haven’t even met yet and I knew he would have... just didn’t think that I’d be in a file if I hadn’t given the picture. But I guess that’s just the way it is these days, the internet is an open view into your life and the pictures people post are for anyone’s taking.

It’s not creepy, if your pics were given you out I’d be creepy too, well that’s just imo

And if someone finds them... what are they doing snooping in your private things?? Red flag!

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It would 100% be on file for a bit. Eventually I would feel like someone even creepier then myself is getting off on me being creepy towards you, which then I would purge all files and factory reset all devices just to make sure its all gone. Thus putting the image of you inside my actual mental memory.

Hope that helps 😊

We need a LOL button on here!!

Now that’s starting to creep me out 🙄

My wank bank file only has pictures/vids that were sent to me and tbh, I’ve never deleted any even though they don’t interest me anymore... not sure why I don’t delete 🤔 memories

Surprisingly men are very easily pleased... it’s beyond me why we always assume you are complicated?

Thanks @dazed ... feel violated now 🙄 be different if I sent him the pic.

If you have a picture of me in your wank bank, is that in your memory or in a file 🤔 🙄

Btw, your payment Is the money you pay him, keep that on going and also get results. That’s all the payment they need. If your changes are dramatic, he can use your story to boost his profile and that would be and is more important to him than anything else.

Yes it’s weird. It’s a business arrangement and it should remain that way.

I say this as I use to own a gym and my PT’s were told the rules from the get go about keeping business as business.

It’s an industry where the lines are frequently crossed and causes a lot of drama and certainly never goes unnoticed. You could potentially get him in trouble.

Also, have you asked your husband what you should buy him and if he thinks it’s a good idea? 🤔

So to end the nightmare or the recurring dreams you have to figure out why she is on your mind and confront that. It might not be confronting her physically but whatever part of her that keeps you there.