SassyKiwi

Simple. Whether their actions CONSISTENTLY follow their words.

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Posted by ArilovesAqu
None of the above in my experience

If it’s none of the above then how would you describe them and what were their other placements?

Mine is not like you described either.. maybe the “hard to pin down” part, but not really. They are slow to commit but their interest is not hard to get or hard to keep. Definitely NOT asexual. Lol mine was very sensual. In fact I’ve dated a few aqua venus (my libra rising seems to attract them 🙄) they are never asexual. That surprised me... patient, maybe.. but not asexual.

They like unconventional relationships and don’t like rules. They’re attracted to quirkiness. They love intellectual conversation. Freedom and independence is important to them. IF they will marry anyone, they will marry their best friend.

I made this thread to get a better understanding of the Aqua venus because I wanted to see if my progressed venus in Aqua was relevant to me in any way. I have always struggled with expressing myself and found peoples' responses extremely helpful as they were able to *perfectly* articulate how I freaking feel as a person. Especially the posts by @dilettante. Like yaas,
“ i do not consider myself sexually motivated. generally, other things are higher on the list. ppl put too much meaning/ pressure on sex & i just cant be bothered to engage. the aqua venusians i know, are v similar. like sex isnt everything...

not being sexually motivated means you do not actively seek out sexual experiences. a lot of ppl rely on the validation of others & aqua energy does not need validation from anyone.

they are motivated by conversation, ideas, concepts, theories, intellectual pursuits, hobbies, etc”

And also @aquarius09 hit the nail, “ I’m very sexually disciplined and sex is never my motivation to get with someone. I don’t prioritize sex as much as I do a mental connection and friendship. If I get that from someone, then I’ll date them. Otherwise, nope.”

And by @lynx
"I do feel like I have higher standards. I am very picky, but I am not superficial at all and not motivated by looks or sex...."

All that fits me to a T. Before that I thought the new age term demisexual best described me. And yes I'm also very slow to commit and require freedom and independence. All this just seems really cool to me. However I’m also an Aqua sun so idk if it’s all just an Aqua thing or both Aqua sun and the effects of my progressed venus in Aqua from Cap.

I am also all about affection, attention, romance and sensuality and everything that comes with it but I pin those on my Leo moon and Leo mars.

Anyway, my short research concludes chart progressions do have an effect on you :D

in progressed charts i am also aqua venus.

pure saturn energy:

cap sun, aqua moon, aqua venus, aqua mars. mars is progressing into pisces soon.

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No wonder I like the vibes of your posts. Tbh I’m still not sure if you’re a man or a woman. I also wonder what your relationship history has been like with all that saturn energy.

Posted by peachy06
My cap mum and an old acquaintance both have Aquarius venus. I'd say they are quite "weird". I mean the way they approach relationship is werd. They'd date anybody, don't care about looks, attracted to any kind of people, open-minded, they're quite hippies. Thy seem cold but are quite the opposite actually. Strangely, they are like Pisces venus in a way, they tend to fall for the "wrong" people. Often impossible or one-sided/unrequited love. Since venus rules over your fashion style too, they dress up as hippies lol. They like simple stuff and their freedom.

Their progressed venuses might be in Pisces.

Posted by Arielle83
My partner is aqua venus. Not sure what I’m meant to associate with that placement.

He’s a weirdo, and has this freaky sexual energy that made me think of some weird bdsm whips n chains type of scenario that would let me push his limits.

He’s very open minded and can talk about all types of things. He thinks I’m overly analytical in my thinking, where he is more reductive.

But ya he let me in his space pretty easily. And he’s overly touchy feely and affectionate. I’m more distant at first

Actually my Lilith is in Aquarius, so that might be the erotic attention

What’s his mars and other placements?

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Posted by ArilovesAqu
None of the above in my experience

If it’s none of the above then how would you describe them and what were their other placements?

Mine is not like you described either.. maybe the “hard to pin down” part, but not really. They are slow to commit but their interest is not hard to get or hard to keep. Definitely NOT asexual. Lol mine was very sensual. In fact I’ve dated a few aqua venus (my libra rising seems to attract them 🙄) they are never asexual. That surprised me... patient, maybe.. but not asexual.

They like unconventional relationships and don’t like rules. They’re attracted to quirkiness. They love intellectual conversation. Freedom and independence is important to them. IF they will marry anyone, they will marry their best friend.

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I made this thread to get a better understanding of the Aqua venus because I wanted to see if my progressed venus in Aqua was relevant to me in any way. I have always struggled with expressing myself and found peoples' responses extremely helpful as they were able to *perfectly* articulate how I freaking feel as a person. Especially the posts by @dilettante. Like yaas,
“ i do not consider myself sexually motivated. generally, other things are higher on the list. ppl put too much meaning/ pressure on sex & i just cant be bothered to engage. the aqua venusians i know, are v similar. like sex isnt everything...

not being sexually motivated means you do not actively seek out sexual experiences. a lot of ppl rely on the validation of others & aqua energy does not need validation from anyone.

they are motivated by conversation, ideas, concepts, theories, intellectual pursuits, hobbies, etc”

And also @aquarius09 hit the nail, “ I’m very sexually disciplined and sex is never my motivation to get with someone. I don’t prioritize sex as much as I do a mental connection and friendship. If I get that from someone, then I’ll date them. Otherwise, nope.”

And by @lynx
"I do feel like I have higher standards. I am very picky, but I am not superficial at all and not motivated by looks or sex...."

All that fits me to a T. Before that I thought the new age term demisexual best described me. And yes I'm also very slow to commit and require freedom and independence. All this just seems really cool to me. However I’m also an Aqua sun so idk if it’s all just an Aqua thing or both Aqua sun and the effects of my progressed venus in Aqua from Cap.

I am also all about affection, attention, romance and sensuality and everything that comes with it but I pin those on my Leo moon and Leo mars.

Anyway, my short research concludes chart progressions do have an effect on you :D

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Posted by SassyKiwi
So far I get the impression they are hard to please and pin down. Has higher standards than other venuses. Asexual tendencies or gives off that vibe?

Accurate.

But, I will add that we have "low standards" with oddity. Venus most likely to fall in love with someone on their death bed, in a wheelchair, impotent, etc.

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That’s interesting... I’ve seen you mention something about an SO of yours being impotent. Have you been with others who had any other oddities to come to this theory?

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Posted by ArilovesAqu
None of the above in my experience

If it’s none of the above then how would you describe them and what were their other placements?

As far as sexuality I find they just enjoy ermm...trying new exciting things and get bored easily if sex is always the same. That could just mean doing it on the kitchen counter or bent over the bathroom sink or other kinkier things.

I guess I can’t say if he’s hard to pin down. I don’t really keep a leash on him. He has a crush on Margot Robbie as Harley Quinn. He wants me to be wacky over him. I give it to him in small doses. He would kill me if he saw this but he would not mind at all if I want to dominate him. Aqua is secretive about their sexual proclivities. I think if you think they’re boring....they just don’t want to tell you what they’re into.

I don’t think he’s hard to please

He is aqua sun, cancer moon, gem mars

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Funny I hear Aqua mars are known to be the kinkiest mar sign. But yeah Aquas in general seem the most reserved about their sexual proclivities. How have you seen him express his cancer moon? Does he cookiemonster or cry too much for a guy? Pretty sure his Aqua placements wouldnt let him but it could slip

Posted by Anomalous
Retarded.

Is there a story here?

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Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch
When you crack that cold hard code....you have a best friend and lover for life.

Really? Any testimonies for that?

When I first started seeing my Cap he was aloof and weirdly distant and I would rarely see a softer side. Hell, more than 75% of the time I didnt know if we were even in a relationship.

That threw me into a twirl. If I knew then what I've learned thru this whole process I could have saved myself alot of unnecessary stress.

I had actually given up any hope and moved on to other relationships.

He eventually wandered back and verbalized wanting to be in a committed relationship and actually followed up with action.

It literally felt like he turned on a switch.

If I didnt love him so damn much I would have told him to go pound sand. I spent a lot of time understanding this placement and his others (he is why I landed on dxp to begin with)

Even though I flip flop every day on marriage.....because he is ready.....I can't see myself with anyone else ever. He is truly my best friend before everything else.

He dictated the evolution of the friendship even though I fought him all the way. I'm very glad about that now, despite all my hissy fits....lol

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Just curious, what is your 11th house?

Posted by ArilovesAqu
I also didn’t want a relationship either. The key is to not want it 🤣 then they give it to you

Of course they’d be into mindtreetrunks like that, I bet that butter turns them on like no other

Posted by dilettante
they arent asexual. they just arent sexually motivated.

Yesss that's what I was meaning to express instead of just asexual. Altho in a previous asexual thread I made, most of the self declared asexuals were Aquas or had some sort of Aqua energy

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@virgooppp @saggurl88
I always get yall confused for each other bc of yalls profile pics can u guys just not

It's the Sag/ Virgo connection. I'm sorry you can't join this club!

@virgooppp

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Mutable energy........ Explains it. Dw, am fixed, will forever keep my profile pic as is *hair flip*

@virgooppp @saggurl88
I always get yall confused for each other bc of yalls profile pics can u guys just not

Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch
When you crack that cold hard code....you have a best friend and lover for life.

Really? Any testimonies for that?

Posted by ArilovesAqu
None of the above in my experience

If it’s none of the above then how would you describe them and what were their other placements?

So far I get the impression they are hard to please and pin down. Has higher standards than other venuses. Asexual tendencies or gives off that vibe?

If you don’t want that fate then don’t be shady and end up in prison for such a reason whether you actually did it or not. Clearly there was enough shadiness and doubt in these accused child molesters.

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INTP

"The Virgo intuitive tends to be more artistic and forward thinking that other Virgos. This type will see possibilities and what could be. They remain practical, but they always have a larger goal in mind. The Virgo intuitive has a sort of innocence about the world that they carry into each new situation."

I've tested 4 times in my life. 3 INFP and last one INTP. I was stressed and trying to sort though some stuff during the INTP test.

I think Briggs test speaks towards your mentality and is by no means set in stone.

well, people change so....

i've tested 3 times:

INTJ
ISTJ
INTP

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I’ve tested 3 times and got those same exact results in that same exact order!

For me:
INTJ - high school
ISTJ - college
INTP - few years later just took it today

So overwhelmed. I need a mini vacation away from everyone and everything and go sleep a looot

What desire do you have with him? Boy toy? Your personal little Nick Jonas? Companionship?