SassyKiwi

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If you only have a few days, skip Tahoe unless you wanna ski. Lotta snow and tricky driving. Yosemite is beautiful in the winter but roads going to it sometimes get closed but you can check on accommodations near the park and drive in.

Plenty to see and do in San Francisco! I would just stay there given the time of year. And Napa and Sonoma only about an hour and a half north.

We're from Texas so driving in the snow is out of the question :/ Napa and Sonoma sounds nice. Do you have any suggestions for New Years?

I live in Sonoma county and parents live in Napa unless you just want to go wine tasting and nice dinner then there’s nothing to do here

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Is there a place at all that you appreciate in Cali?

Posted by Beerthirty
Tahoe is a disaster for New Years so is San Francisco stay away

Why is San Franciso a disaster for New Years?

Posted by emeraldgem
If you only have a few days, skip Tahoe unless you wanna ski. Lotta snow and tricky driving. Yosemite is beautiful in the winter but roads going to it sometimes get closed but you can check on accommodations near the park and drive in.

Plenty to see and do in San Francisco! I would just stay there given the time of year. And Napa and Sonoma only about an hour and a half north.

We're from Texas so driving in the snow is out of the question :/ Napa and Sonoma sounds nice. Do you have any suggestions for New Years?

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I’m so jealous I love killa Cali


I really would love to go to LA I didn’t get enough of that city

Honestly I'd rather go to Mexico or Costa Rica but he's so eager to take me to Cali. Pls hype me for Cali. What's there worthy besides Didnywerl!!!

Posted by Black-Mamba
Beaches and sun

Disneyland? You best get a hotel there don’t drive from LA...Very far

I like the idea of Lake Tahoe early on

Beaches and sun where during winter? And ugh that's what I dread, getting to places in California is so ridiculous, everything's so far apart and then there's the traffic in LA.

Posted by Beerthirty
Lol you can’t get anything in Yosemite without a year in advance reservation

Geesh but it's like in the middle of nowhere

My husband wants to vacation in and near Cali for winter (no idea why Cali of all places)..... So we're planning for Dec. 22 - Jan. 3. We might do either Lake Tahoe or San Francisco for the first few days before we go to Orange County and do Disneyland and Universal Studios and stuff. Lake Tahoe is already getting snow right now so is it worth it to go during late December? I'm thinking we do Christmas in Disneyland. What would be good places to do New Year in California? Is Santa Monica a must see? Yosmite National Park? It's late December so I assume it's gonna be cold af where ever we choose.

Scorpio bcos treetrunk off

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Waking up with a new random pain somewhere in your body means it's working.

Does this also apply if you're in your early 20s? xD I think I need a chiropractor

Can he not make it anymore clear to you that he wants nothing to do with you?? Have some self respect and back off from him with whatever dignity you have left. What is it with women trying to push through to a guy who has no interest in them, it’s only been a week for treetrunks sake

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What is a SoMe account?

Social Media ...

Well, I'm idiot. I googled it. Thought it was an app.

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I thought it was an app too xD

Y'all don't even include translations in your posts like ok cool thanks

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Why you falling weak for a guy's words, his actions will tell you everything

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"He also told me that I am a premium in every way ( mind, body, soul ) comparing to her...The rave was in another country so they are traveling together after five month..." Him glowing you up and butter with measly words should not matter, he's with another chick period

my best friend ( our mutual friend ) who saw him told this.

So? It doesn't change the fact that he still chose her and therefore is with her while you wallow and waste your precious time. You're nearing 30. Options of guys don't get any better with age. Worry about that reality than a stupid ex

I don't need a man in my life. I love my ex. Not saying that I am proud of it...But that's the way it is.

You're basically saying you don't need a man except your ex. As long as you're aware it's a poison you're willfully choosing to swallow. We've all had butterty heartbreaks. You're not the only one. Your goal should be to turn them into learning experiences for your own good. If you don't choose to help yourself, no one else can help you. You just keep on coping instead of living

Can she not mourn today? I understand how she feels , I spent 15yrs sharing bdays with my ex husband. It's a process, she is allowed to mourn and share.

It doesn't mean she is going to wallow every single day or minute but at this moment she feels and it's ok.

I hate when people tell others they should basically NOT feel their feelings. Empathy goes a long way, all she asked for was some cheering up.

Sounds like she really loved him.

As a fixed dominant with a butter ton of personal planets plus pluto hard aspecting my moon, I def know what intense emotions are. Moreso than you mutables. I find it hilarious how 3 Geminis quoted me on this thread implying I'm being insensitive. Y'all are GEMINIS of all things 😂 I've got a fixed rising, sun, moon, mercury, mars. When I feel butter, I feel them hard, unchanged, however, fixed signs are also known to sever and move on seriously because they know better than to show the world they're dwelling on misery which is reserved for signs like Pisces and Cancer especially over someone who is with another person! Like that would be social suicide to a fixed sign. There's a huge difference in mourning a loss hoping to come out stronger versus surrending to one's delusions which her posts are constantly doing. Her ex a fixed sign, as previously repeated, he's done with her and has moved on while she's here daydreaming she will get him one day. That is DELUSION, not healthy mourning. She's 30, so much older than me! If I didn't dish her the reality, oh believe me someone will. Better now than later when she's 50 and it all suddenly clicks for her. And this relationship she had with an exbf compares no where to a 15 year marriage like that that should be degrading to you.

Sorry but You are a cookiemonster with no knowledge. I lived and shared my life with this person for 8 years in a way you cannot understand. But I don't care. You live with yourself.

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I'm gonna stop replying back to this thread after this. The reason that this thread got me worked up is majority of the men these days are butter. Most do not deserve the love and sacrifice that their women give them. And it extremely saddens and frustrates me when a woman has poured her heart into a man and halts their life for him after he moves on like nothing. Because that mothertreetrunker does not deserve it. His ego is being fed massively every time he gets a woman hung up on him. Women should refuse to give their exes that satisfaction especially when he's grabbed a new bimbo to shove back in your face. The only way to bruise a mothertreetrunker like that is to show you're living a better life without him.

Happy Friday 💕

I'm grateful for my family and husband. And America! Honestly we should be grateful we weren't born into a family in China or North Korea. Count your blessings ppl!

I also will not let this pimple that developed yesterday morning bring me down!

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Why you falling weak for a guy's words, his actions will tell you everything

?

"He also told me that I am a premium in every way ( mind, body, soul ) comparing to her...The rave was in another country so they are traveling together after five month..." Him glowing you up and butter with measly words should not matter, he's with another chick period

my best friend ( our mutual friend ) who saw him told this.

So? It doesn't change the fact that he still chose her and therefore is with her while you wallow and waste your precious time. You're nearing 30. Options of guys don't get any better with age. Worry about that reality than a stupid ex

I don't need a man in my life. I love my ex. Not saying that I am proud of it...But that's the way it is.

You're basically saying you don't need a man except your ex. As long as you're aware it's a poison you're willfully choosing to swallow. We've all had butterty heartbreaks. You're not the only one. Your goal should be to turn them into learning experiences for your own good. If you don't choose to help yourself, no one else can help you. You just keep on coping instead of living

Can she not mourn today? I understand how she feels , I spent 15yrs sharing bdays with my ex husband. It's a process, she is allowed to mourn and share.

It doesn't mean she is going to wallow every single day or minute but at this moment she feels and it's ok.

I hate when people tell others they should basically NOT feel their feelings. Empathy goes a long way, all she asked for was some cheering up.

Sounds like she really loved him.

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As a fixed dominant with a butter ton of personal planets plus pluto hard aspecting my moon, I def know what intense emotions are. Moreso than you mutables. I find it hilarious how 3 Geminis quoted me on this thread implying I'm being insensitive. Y'all are GEMINIS of all things 😂 I've got a fixed rising, sun, moon, mercury, mars. When I feel butter, I feel them hard, unchanged, however, fixed signs are also known to sever and move on seriously because they know better than to show the world they're dwelling on misery which is reserved for signs like Pisces and Cancer especially over someone who is with another person! Like that would be social suicide to a fixed sign. There's a huge difference in mourning a loss hoping to come out stronger versus surrending to one's delusions which her posts are constantly doing. Her ex a fixed sign, as previously repeated, he's done with her and has moved on while she's here daydreaming she will get him one day. That is DELUSION, not healthy mourning. She's 30, so much older than me! If I didn't dish her the reality, oh believe me someone will. Better now than later when she's 50 and it all suddenly clicks for her. And this relationship she had with an exbf compares no where to a 15 year marriage like that that should be degrading to you.

Scream when attempting to pee bcos penises are all hideous

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Idk if that is him or not but it looks like a middle aged guy with a dad bod lel

I say that I have a dad bod in all of my dating profiles.

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Dad bods are totally in rn. I also did not imagine you to look so ginger

Idk if that is him or not but it looks like a middle aged guy with a dad bod lel

Why do you tolerate being around such high levels of stupidity, toxicity and immaturity? It's YOU who needs to go do some inner reflection

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Why you falling weak for a guy's words, his actions will tell you everything

?

"He also told me that I am a premium in every way ( mind, body, soul ) comparing to her...The rave was in another country so they are traveling together after five month..." Him glowing you up and butter with measly words should not matter, he's with another chick period

my best friend ( our mutual friend ) who saw him told this.

So? It doesn't change the fact that he still chose her and therefore is with her while you wallow and waste your precious time. You're nearing 30. Options of guys don't get any better with age. Worry about that reality than a stupid ex

This should definitely make her feel better. 😟

You go on and post superficial stuff like songs to help her continue to cope instead of live. I'll do what was done to help me move on which was opening up my own eyes to my own delusions. I can't do that fake butter and say a virtual hug will temporarily make it better. This person genuinely needs help and she's not getting it

Are you really gonna pretend that was tough love and not just you barely reading the post and overreacting?

Did you read her follow up posts? At least she acknowledged she's not proud of loving her ex. There might be some hope but it doesn't help when other 30+ year olds try to superficially continue to help her just cope instead of dishing to her the reality. She's not a wee little teenager. She's almost 30 if not already

Stop. She needs help getting through one anniversary type day. You’re blowing it out of proportion.

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Her post history says otherwise tbh

And honestly I'm very cranky because I wanted more sleep so I'm just posting more direct things to get someone riled up, it's not just her thread. She just happened to be the only replies I've gotten back so soon