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What motivates you to do something for your woman that you wouldn't do otherwise. Like household stuff for example. Also, if you found yourself unemployed, would that deter you from dating?

Anal.

For about six weeks since the age of 21 that I was unemployed, I did put it on the back burner.

Now you’re going to have to tell us why men want anal?

LOL! I'm just joking actually! 🤣

But to be serious for a moment, guys are motivated to do something for their woman because they want to be appreciated for who they are from her.

They want that their woman loves and appreciates everything that they do even if it means they have to do something they're not fond of or maybe considered girly stuff.

Some guys ego and pride is too strong anyway so it doesn't always work. If other people are watching? Forget about it.

That's for your real question? Primarily because it gives us a certain amount of power over you and secondarily it sort of feels good.

Thirdly, because the younger generations see it in porn movies and think it's something that needs to happen every time there's sex involved.

Ok so it’s got nothing to do with gay or that it might be considered taboo?

Power?? Whether it’s pleasurable or desired is debatable.

There might be some guys who like the taboo or they might be feeling adventurous. But for me? No.

Pleasurable or desired is really up to each person to decide. Well I might want it like it, you are definitely turned off about it and vice versa.

You need to communicate back and forth once somebody brings it up in your relationship. I've never met a woman who wasn't going to let it happen until she was comfortable first.

😂 I actually knew I was putting you on the spot here 😝

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It's quite all right, almost 4:00 a.m., I'm not thinking 100% right now anyway.

I woke up from a dream that was kind of strange to begin with. Everything was going okay until all of a sudden BOOM.

I need to do an analysis of the dream but I think I know what the last bit is about.

Do tell, i find interpreting dreams fascinating

From what I can remember I was teaching a class on the chemistry of making and setting cement and I had the students carry out the rectangular thick slab next to a dirt road near the school I guess.

Over time I drive over the pieces of cement in the potholes but there's always a couple of pieces that are extremely large and so I get out of the truck with a sledgehammer to begin breaking them down again.

As I use my left foot to move one of the pieces in position for me to hit it with the hammer, thousands of ants and maybe 50 spiders come rushing out underneath one of the pieces, begin crawling on my leg really quickly and I freak the fuck out trying to use my right foot to brush them right off.

None of them actually bite me but I wake up with that feeling on my left foot, ankle, and lower leg to the point where I'm still using my right foot trying to get them off in a panicked state.

I still feel weirded out on my left leg as I write this. 😬

I had a similar dream your potholes were my missing stair’s, it was trying to get through somewhere or past something in my life but the gaps were getting bigger and harder for me to get there

The ants or spiders are something in your life that is bothering you

And the left leg is the past that does not let you go

Your interpretation and RL situation... does any of it make sense?

Just by some of the things you said in unrequited love... I think maybe

Well the potholes weren't very big but because I thought I could use a cement chunks to make them more passable that's where I decided to put it.

As for the spiders and ants part, I believe that has to do with a Cancer woman twin flame whose birthday numbers I've been seeing quite a bit lately. I can feel her all around right now. She won't let me go because she can't.

So right now, I'm stuck having one nightmare per month more or less and I have a feeling it has to do with her. and right now she's on your period so she's probably super emotional.

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She won’t let you go or you won’t because you keep trying to fix it or make it passable with the cement...

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What motivates you to do something for your woman that you wouldn't do otherwise. Like household stuff for example. Also, if you found yourself unemployed, would that deter you from dating?

Anal.

For about six weeks since the age of 21 that I was unemployed, I did put it on the back burner.

Now you’re going to have to tell us why men want anal?

LOL! I'm just joking actually! 🤣

But to be serious for a moment, guys are motivated to do something for their woman because they want to be appreciated for who they are from her.

They want that their woman loves and appreciates everything that they do even if it means they have to do something they're not fond of or maybe considered girly stuff.

Some guys ego and pride is too strong anyway so it doesn't always work. If other people are watching? Forget about it.

That's for your real question? Primarily because it gives us a certain amount of power over you and secondarily it sort of feels good.

Thirdly, because the younger generations see it in porn movies and think it's something that needs to happen every time there's sex involved.

Ok so it’s got nothing to do with gay or that it might be considered taboo?

Power?? Whether it’s pleasurable or desired is debatable.

There might be some guys who like the taboo or they might be feeling adventurous. But for me? No.

Pleasurable or desired is really up to each person to decide. Well I might want it like it, you are definitely turned off about it and vice versa.

You need to communicate back and forth once somebody brings it up in your relationship. I've never met a woman who wasn't going to let it happen until she was comfortable first.

😂 I actually knew I was putting you on the spot here 😝

😁
It's quite all right, almost 4:00 a.m., I'm not thinking 100% right now anyway.

I woke up from a dream that was kind of strange to begin with. Everything was going okay until all of a sudden BOOM.

I need to do an analysis of the dream but I think I know what the last bit is about.

Do tell, i find interpreting dreams fascinating

From what I can remember I was teaching a class on the chemistry of making and setting cement and I had the students carry out the rectangular thick slab next to a dirt road near the school I guess.

Over time I drive over the pieces of cement in the potholes but there's always a couple of pieces that are extremely large and so I get out of the truck with a sledgehammer to begin breaking them down again.

As I use my left foot to move one of the pieces in position for me to hit it with the hammer, thousands of ants and maybe 50 spiders come rushing out underneath one of the pieces, begin crawling on my leg really quickly and I freak the fuck out trying to use my right foot to brush them right off.

None of them actually bite me but I wake up with that feeling on my left foot, ankle, and lower leg to the point where I'm still using my right foot trying to get them off in a panicked state.

I still feel weirded out on my left leg as I write this. 😬

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I had a similar dream your potholes were my missing stair’s, it was trying to get through somewhere or past something in my life but the gaps were getting bigger and harder for me to get there

The ants or spiders are something in your life that is bothering you

And the left leg is the past that does not let you go

Your interpretation and RL situation... does any of it make sense?

Just by some of the things you said in unrequited love... I think maybe

You filling in for Gem while she’s away?

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Posted by RollergirlOrc
What motivates you to do something for your woman that you wouldn't do otherwise. Like household stuff for example. Also, if you found yourself unemployed, would that deter you from dating?

Anal.

For about six weeks since the age of 21 that I was unemployed, I did put it on the back burner.

Now you’re going to have to tell us why men want anal?

LOL! I'm just joking actually! 🤣

But to be serious for a moment, guys are motivated to do something for their woman because they want to be appreciated for who they are from her.

They want that their woman loves and appreciates everything that they do even if it means they have to do something they're not fond of or maybe considered girly stuff.

Some guys ego and pride is too strong anyway so it doesn't always work. If other people are watching? Forget about it.

That's for your real question? Primarily because it gives us a certain amount of power over you and secondarily it sort of feels good.

Thirdly, because the younger generations see it in porn movies and think it's something that needs to happen every time there's sex involved.

Ok so it’s got nothing to do with gay or that it might be considered taboo?

Power?? Whether it’s pleasurable or desired is debatable.

There might be some guys who like the taboo or they might be feeling adventurous. But for me? No.

Pleasurable or desired is really up to each person to decide. Well I might want it like it, you are definitely turned off about it and vice versa.

You need to communicate back and forth once somebody brings it up in your relationship. I've never met a woman who wasn't going to let it happen until she was comfortable first.

😂 I actually knew I was putting you on the spot here 😝

😁
It's quite all right, almost 4:00 a.m., I'm not thinking 100% right now anyway.

I woke up from a dream that was kind of strange to begin with. Everything was going okay until all of a sudden BOOM.

I need to do an analysis of the dream but I think I know what the last bit is about.

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Do tell, i find interpreting dreams fascinating

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Posted by WarAngel

Posted by RollergirlOrc
What motivates you to do something for your woman that you wouldn't do otherwise. Like household stuff for example. Also, if you found yourself unemployed, would that deter you from dating?

Anal.

For about six weeks since the age of 21 that I was unemployed, I did put it on the back burner.

Now you’re going to have to tell us why men want anal?

LOL! I'm just joking actually! 🤣

But to be serious for a moment, guys are motivated to do something for their woman because they want to be appreciated for who they are from her.

They want that their woman loves and appreciates everything that they do even if it means they have to do something they're not fond of or maybe considered girly stuff.

Some guys ego and pride is too strong anyway so it doesn't always work. If other people are watching? Forget about it.

That's for your real question? Primarily because it gives us a certain amount of power over you and secondarily it sort of feels good.

Thirdly, because the younger generations see it in porn movies and think it's something that needs to happen every time there's sex involved.

Ok so it’s got nothing to do with gay or that it might be considered taboo?

Power?? Whether it’s pleasurable or desired is debatable.

There might be some guys who like the taboo or they might be feeling adventurous. But for me? No.

Pleasurable or desired is really up to each person to decide. Well I might want it like it, you are definitely turned off about it and vice versa.

You need to communicate back and forth once somebody brings it up in your relationship. I've never met a woman who wasn't going to let it happen until she was comfortable first.

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😂 I actually knew I was putting you on the spot here 😝

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Posted by RollergirlOrc
What motivates you to do something for your woman that you wouldn't do otherwise. Like household stuff for example. Also, if you found yourself unemployed, would that deter you from dating?

Anal.

For about six weeks since the age of 21 that I was unemployed, I did put it on the back burner.

Now you’re going to have to tell us why men want anal?

LOL! I'm just joking actually! 🤣

But to be serious for a moment, guys are motivated to do something for their woman because they want to be appreciated for who they are from her.

They want that their woman loves and appreciates everything that they do even if it means they have to do something they're not fond of or maybe considered girly stuff.

Some guys ego and pride is too strong anyway so it doesn't always work. If other people are watching? Forget about it.

That's for your real question? Primarily because it gives us a certain amount of power over you and secondarily it sort of feels good.

Thirdly, because the younger generations see it in porn movies and think it's something that needs to happen every time there's sex involved.

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Ok so it’s got nothing to do with gay or that it might be considered taboo?

Power?? Whether it’s pleasurable or desired is debatable.

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Posted by RollergirlOrc
What motivates you to do something for your woman that you wouldn't do otherwise. Like household stuff for example. Also, if you found yourself unemployed, would that deter you from dating?

Anal.

For about six weeks since the age of 21 that I was unemployed, I did put it on the back burner.

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Now you’re going to have to tell us why men want anal?

He’s got a busy life style but he’s lonely for company. With you he’s not lonely anymore but I think it’s a FWB relationship. He has you to talk to when he’s not so busy and you to come and spend time with when he can plus you get help with your schooling. Don’t push for more, when you said you loved him that put him in check.

Your decision, Whether you can handle the relationship in this way or you’re too blindly in love with him and need to back out for your own emotional good.

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Please tell me more about this combo.

What do you want to know?

Everything

Can't promise to give you everything...but I can give you the benefit of what I have learned:

Well Virgos like all mutables are energy sensitive, they absorb whatever energy is in the environment they are in and then use that that energy to transform themselves to adapt to it...those effects are amplified by a Pisces Moon to a large degree. The result? A Virgo that is super malleable and open to suggestion, more emotionally "open", receptive and expressive, dear I say even empathetic...but more likely to get lost in feelings when immature, less likely to properly enforce boundaries, more likely to be overwhelmed by emotion, less likely to establish their true inner self early.

It isn't everything but this is a description that someone pulled up for me ( I am Virgo Sun, Pisces Moon) that I found fit to a degree:

You interact with people openly, and they generally give the same in return. You are
dependable, demonstrative, understanding and sincere. You are not an antagonistic
sort and are aware there is not much you can do to change things even though your
sensitivity makes you painfully aware of the evil and unfairness in the world. You
adjust yourself to a difficult life and try to hold on to your principles. Subtle persuasion
is one of your talents. You use your gifts of delicacy and tact to gain the comforts you
enjoy so much because you understand the importance of security. Your calm and
sophisticated manner is hard for people to resist. You have an inner peace that others
would love to have and are mild, soft-spoken, and very sensitive. Experience has
most likely taught you that goodness, compassion, and honesty succeed where
aggression and toughness fail. You are a good student in this regard. You find
purpose in your work like most Virgos, and in your profession you are devoted and
sincere. You run the risk of not doing what you are capable of, because your
combination is essentially passive. You just cannot stand to be with aggressive people
because you have a quiet and tender nature. To keep your peace of mind and vision,
it is vital for you to get away for contemplation regularly. Quiet kinds of recreation,
study and meditation are perfect for you. For a lot of Virgo-Pisces people, faith is a
real means of self-renewal. You may have an artistic career because of your vision
and aesthetic nature. Service oriented areas like law, medicine and social work are
areas you can do well in. You have a powerful imagination and many cerebral and
creative gifts that can find pragmatic expression, so do not let your talent lie sleeping.
Learn to take a few of gambles sometimes. You may give way to serious depression
and nervousness if you do not learn to feel satisfied in your career. Some fear that
usually has no foundation in reality is unusually the root cause. Your emotional wellbeing is affected by your environments. Your mood tends to subconsciously soak up
the feelings of those near you. Be sure to give yourself a home and professional
environment that is as free of strife as possible in order to have stability

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Not sure why people are negative about Virgo sun/Pisces moon. Looks to me a bit emotional but also introverted. But I can see why not a good combo with me. Thanks

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Please tell me more about this combo.

What do you want to know?

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Everything

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People pour love and affection into useless things and beings who don't care about them.

In return, they cry about it and sob saying "No one loves me."

While at the same time they ignore someone who shows them affection in the first place, labelling them as "boring" and "always available" or "too desperate".

Sick lots like you deserve your depression and unrequited love.

I think it’s called choice.. you choose who you want to love and if they don’t love you back you keep looking but you don’t ever settle, fuck that!!!

I’d rather experience unrequited love than settle for someone I’m not interested in because they are “nice”

99.99% of the time it can be based on choice. I think its more a case/choice of if you want to move on or not. I think you can always love someone, but to let you life stop while you pine over them will only bring you down.

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I believe it’s a process. You have to grieve the love lost. I’m not talking years but grieve them enough to be able to move on. Doesn’t mean you don’t think of them every now and then but your life doesn’t stop indefinitely.

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People pour love and affection into useless things and beings who don't care about them.

In return, they cry about it and sob saying "No one loves me."

While at the same time they ignore someone who shows them affection in the first place, labelling them as "boring" and "always available" or "too desperate".

Sick lots like you deserve your depression and unrequited love.

I think it’s called choice.. you choose who you want to love and if they don’t love you back you keep looking but you don’t ever settle, fuck that!!!

I’d rather experience unrequited love than settle for someone I’m not interested in because they are “nice”

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So true!!! Not that I’ve been through that with a control freak but in relationships... too close to see the obvious. Next one, I’ll be asking friends and family for their honest opinions and then take it to heart

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Dear M,

Even though I wasn't perfect we both know I poured everything I had to the best of my ability into you.

It's too late to turn back the hands of time now. You lost out in ways you can't possibly imagine but you're starting to understand slowly. My cold absence is the hole you can't fill with possessions or imaginary status.

The only time you're truly happy is when I'm around, and it chaps your butthole when I remind you of that without even saying a single word.

I forgive you just as much as you forgive me. The next time I say the words: I love you - they will be for someone else.

It's a shame to think this but: I'm happier now but I know your decade of suffering is just starting. When we reincarnated as twin flames, we made a deal. I went in first and came out a much better man and deep down you know it. You're going in second right now, I hope and pray that the hard lessons don't kick you in the ass like they did me but just enough to teach you and give you a taste of what I went through already.

And on that day of reckoning, you will understand.

J

What happened to leaving the light on?

That was so romantic!

This is someone else entirely. 😔

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Awww, don’t let it close your heart for long

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Posted by Pulsy
What was the trust that was broken
We’re u talking to guys?

There were many times trust was broken... on both sides. Just to name a few:

• I refused to 100% give up interacting with a group of people that he didn't like but who were always nice to me.
• He had been two-timing a girl from that group; and when I learned about this, I left without allowing him to "explain" himself.
• After agreeing to give it a "second try", I found myself even more unwilling to let go of that group of people (who I have befriended during the time we were "off").
• Learned he had broken a promise; which pushed me further away as I started noticing his "true colors".
• He kept saying I broke my promises to him, but he was never clear with what exactly he wanted me to do (i.e. He encouraged me to befriend his friends, but then when I started hanging out with them he got a problem with it)
• Kept saying I had to keep "fighting for him" but he did little to nothing to make me feel secure or as it was worth fighting for -i.e. He didn't even call on my birthday nor did he apologized for forgetting about it :/
• I ended up accusing him on cheating on me which he denied; but I found it extremely hard to believe him. In the end, I decided to let it go and "trust him again" because it was just easier than trying to find the "truth" -and I was done with all the pain and drama.

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How many red flags do you need to realise this guy is a jerk and a control freak!!

He’s manipulating you and trying to control who you spend time with, eventually it’ll be just the two of you, you won’t have any friends and then he’ll turn on your family and push them away too... then we know what comes next!

Get out and as far away from him as possible!

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Dear M,

Even though I wasn't perfect we both know I poured everything I had to the best of my ability into you.

It's too late to turn back the hands of time now. You lost out in ways you can't possibly imagine but you're starting to understand slowly. My cold absence is the hole you can't fill with possessions or imaginary status.

The only time you're truly happy is when I'm around, and it chaps your butthole when I remind you of that without even saying a single word.

I forgive you just as much as you forgive me. The next time I say the words: I love you - they will be for someone else.

It's a shame to think this but: I'm happier now but I know your decade of suffering is just starting. When we reincarnated as twin flames, we made a deal. I went in first and came out a much better man and deep down you know it. You're going in second right now, I hope and pray that the hard lessons don't kick you in the ass like they did me but just enough to teach you and give you a taste of what I went through already.

And on that day of reckoning, you will understand.

J

What happened to leaving the light on?

That was so romantic!

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Posted by Aju-
What needs need to be met for you to arrive within a thread here on dxpnet?
Share what keeps you away, Share what lures you in. Anythingg

The lures:
1. Libra threads
2. Serious Scorpio men threads
3. Users who I like
4. Angry users who amuse me
5. Bad relationship threads that resonate with me and I’m trying to help end the madness

Turn offs:
1. Obvious threads with inflammatory topics used to incite others to join in the hate parade

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Tired today, can’t think but this ^^^^ sounds about perfect except I like the Pisces boards not Scorp

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- elle

Elle thought it was you, did you delete or get deleted lol

I’m back for a bit but have always popped in and out when boredom sets in