Posted by saggurl88 Posted by SassyKiwi
When I was love bombed, I was messaged very shortly after our first date ended. He told me he had such a great time and how he wants to have dinner with me every night for the rest of the week.... he also wanted to meet my parents. He sent me goodnight and good morning texts. He told me he was thinking of me, etc. Wanted to establish exclusivity after a few dates. Said he background checked me and my family.. Remembered when we first started talking, wanted to do monthiversary, get me gifts. Just go full on crazy as if you about to propose to him soon mode.
When he said all this, did he actually do it as well? See you every night of the week?
I didn’t realize love bombing was commitment style (right now and forever) type of wording. I guess I was thinking it was more over the top fantasy style stuff.
Monthversary? I wouldn’t remember to keep up with it. I’d be super inconsistent 😩😩 I guess I’m not up for doing it now. I seriously didn’t know this much effort was involved.
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My Leo placements loved the attention but my Cap and Aqua placements were screaming "oh helllll naw, back it up." I told him to chill out and how he's coming on way too strong. I didn't let him go through with any of it so I don't know if he'd actually done it. It did have some fantasy style stuff but it was mostly fluff. Right from the first date he’d be like I want to take you skydiving with me for my birthday and then he’d say butter like “I’m gonna set the bar so high for you, you’ll see.” He was a narcissist and a Sag. Majority of the time love bombers are full of sweet nothing butter they've repeated with other people and overall superficial. So put your mindset in a Disney prince character and go try to sweep all those tinder men off their feets. If you want, I can log on as you and do it for you. I'm married so I can't be conducting these experiments on my own anymore but I like mentally experimenting on humans too 😁