Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
I smell
Libras are the basic white pussies of the zodiac. No spine, no guts, no respect (for self or for others), no shame, shallow and materialistic-af (same goes for moons and dominants). Not much grey matter between the ears either. Impish but stupid. Shit liars and never respect anyone enough to be honest with them.
OP's stuff he's smoking is clearly laced with something it shouldn't contain.
Posted by thatlibralifePosted by akituPosted by thatlibralifePosted by akituPosted by thatlibralife
I think you did a bang up job. Many parts resonated with me. You’re on my fave list now lol...
Was just happy to finally hear ‘honesty’ and ‘libra’ in the same sentence for once 😂
I know right? I think it’s the honesty that gets us in trouble the most.
Haha you might be right there! Too much justice seeking 😂Never met a libra that sugar-coated so much they weren’t actually being honest. That’s something that really winds me up with descriptions of us. That and the ‘shallow’ stuff. People just don’t pay attention, I think libra expects people to be as attentive and maybe they’re not, like they’re not listening so they don’t hear us lol. But that’s fine. I’d rather be underestimated than overestimated. 😁
There’s a tshirt selling that I’ve seen on Facebook that says something like “Underestimate me if you want to”....I’m so tempted to get it it lol...click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by sweetheartsPosted by Dread_Pirate_PhantaPosted by sweetheartsPosted by Arielle83Posted by sweethearts
When is it not sexual harassment.. when the guy doing it is hot and of interest?? Or when you’re doing it?
Say, you’re walking past a site and someone whistles out, you look up and someone that looks like Channing Tatum or Orlando bloom or whoever you find good looking. Is it not consider harassment, Do you still feel grossed out by the act or is it now somehow acceptable and flattering?
On the other hand, you and your friends see someone out, he’s hot and you’re all gossiping loud enough for him to hear and giggling hoping he’ll look at you and come over. When You see someone you like the looks of, doesn’t matter what time of day or where you’re at, you put your flirt on.
The cat callers probably just think they are paying you a complement, it’s a little uncomfortable but you just ignore and keep walking. Unless someone is openly suggesting sexual gestures in an authoritative position which has never happened to me, I’d just do the above ^^^
It’s not a terrible experience if there’s attraction.
Exactly, my point. If you think the other person is unattractive then it is looked at as harassment???
Most of it should/could be ignored unless it’s continuous and to the point where you actually feel threatened in some way.
The pack mentality happens by both sexes, same but different.
That's bullshit. I was almost raped by a pack of "attractive", drunk frat boys.
It's easier for them to not say or do shit in the first place than it is for us to ignore it.
@Ladyneptune
Most of it should/could be ignored unless it’s continuous and to the point where you actually feel threatened in some way.
Ime ignoring has only angered and invited them to be more forward and brazen. And it escalated to the point where I felt threatened by the energy and insulting language directed at me.click to expand
Posted by Dread_Pirate_PhantaPosted by sweetheartsPosted by Arielle83Posted by sweethearts
When is it not sexual harassment.. when the guy doing it is hot and of interest?? Or when you’re doing it?
Say, you’re walking past a site and someone whistles out, you look up and someone that looks like Channing Tatum or Orlando bloom or whoever you find good looking. Is it not consider harassment, Do you still feel grossed out by the act or is it now somehow acceptable and flattering?
On the other hand, you and your friends see someone out, he’s hot and you’re all gossiping loud enough for him to hear and giggling hoping he’ll look at you and come over. When You see someone you like the looks of, doesn’t matter what time of day or where you’re at, you put your flirt on.
The cat callers probably just think they are paying you a complement, it’s a little uncomfortable but you just ignore and keep walking. Unless someone is openly suggesting sexual gestures in an authoritative position which has never happened to me, I’d just do the above ^^^
It’s not a terrible experience if there’s attraction.
Exactly, my point. If you think the other person is unattractive then it is looked at as harassment???
Most of it should/could be ignored unless it’s continuous and to the point where you actually feel threatened in some way.
The pack mentality happens by both sexes, same but different.
That's bullshit. I was almost raped by a pack of "attractive", drunk frat boys.
It's easier for them to not say or do shit in the first place than it is for us to ignore it.click to expand
Posted by Arielle83Posted by sweethearts
When is it not sexual harassment.. when the guy doing it is hot and of interest?? Or when you’re doing it?
Say, you’re walking past a site and someone whistles out, you look up and someone that looks like Channing Tatum or Orlando bloom or whoever you find good looking. Is it not consider harassment, Do you still feel grossed out by the act or is it now somehow acceptable and flattering?
On the other hand, you and your friends see someone out, he’s hot and you’re all gossiping loud enough for him to hear and giggling hoping he’ll look at you and come over. When You see someone you like the looks of, doesn’t matter what time of day or where you’re at, you put your flirt on.
The cat callers probably just think they are paying you a complement, it’s a little uncomfortable but you just ignore and keep walking. Unless someone is openly suggesting sexual gestures in an authoritative position which has never happened to me, I’d just do the above ^^^
It’s not a terrible experience if there’s attraction.click to expand
Posted by oncastPosted by sweethearts
I just find that texting people about important shit is a cop out. People haven’t got the balls to confront people in rl and have a genuine conversation when it’s important because god forbid they have to have an emotional conversation and they don’t like confrontation. It’s a sign of a weak character.
How is disliking confrontation a sign of weak character? I do dislike confrontation. I only engage in it with family or CLOSE friends, if I'm being threatened or putting someone rude in their place. Also, how much energy am I supposed to give her? I'm barely mustering up energy for myself. I also don't even know her to the extent to want to have an emotional conversation with her.
Furthermore, it was either "confront her" in the parking around others, in our building around others, or send her a text. I don't hang out with her outside of work. We also don't talk on the phone, she's called me a couple of times. We text, and it's usually her texting me about trivial things (complaining about coworkers or guys she's into). So, what sense would it make to call her, invite her out to basically to tell her to need space? I didn't want to tell her in the first place, I wanted her to take a hint. However, trying to be reasonable, I took the advice of some commenters and decided to tell her...still not enough.click to expand
Posted by GirlyATL12Posted by sweethearts
Isn’t this supposedly your FWB that you don’t want a relationship with?
Yes we agreed to be fwb when we first met: so that’s why I’m so shocked that he’s behaving completely different. Opening up, being super romantic, etc. but yes that’s what we are and I have no issue with it.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by sweetheartsPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by sweetheartsPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by sweetheartsPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by sweetheartsPosted by MyStarsShine
Have you been tested? If not, ask for one...
Why are you locked up if “they” claim masks and social distancing works?
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Not sure where she is but in New Zealand and Australia, you have to quarantine for 14 days if you’ve traveled either internationally or in Australia across some of our borders.
Why don’t they test all arrivals to save people from being locked up/down and taking away their precious time and liberty?
It’s a 14 day turnaround when you can pass it so they quarantine the full 14 days and then do a second test. We have very small numbers here in Aus and in New Zealand even lower and want to keep it that way.
and on day 15 or 16 they think you're safe? who thought up the two week rule?
The politicians in charge of each state are advised by the chief medical officers. It’s worked so far, as I said we have very low numbers and mortality rates.
But the cases of the virus are higher now in NZ than they were in May....unless I read that incorrectly?
They have 22 cases from 1 cluster which they haven’t worked out where and how it came about. They are back in lockdown and so far seem to have it under control again for now. Until there is a vaccine, it will be an ongoing thing. Protecting the vulnerable and elderly is priority.
....and then we face a whole new ball game with the vaccine.
Stay safe!click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by sweetheartsPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by sweetheartsPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by sweetheartsPosted by MyStarsShine
Have you been tested? If not, ask for one...
Why are you locked up if “they” claim masks and social distancing works?
🥴
Not sure where she is but in New Zealand and Australia, you have to quarantine for 14 days if you’ve traveled either internationally or in Australia across some of our borders.
Why don’t they test all arrivals to save people from being locked up/down and taking away their precious time and liberty?
It’s a 14 day turnaround when you can pass it so they quarantine the full 14 days and then do a second test. We have very small numbers here in Aus and in New Zealand even lower and want to keep it that way.
and on day 15 or 16 they think you're safe? who thought up the two week rule?
The politicians in charge of each state are advised by the chief medical officers. It’s worked so far, as I said we have very low numbers and mortality rates.
But the cases of the virus are higher now in NZ than they were in May....unless I read that incorrectly?click to expand