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Have you been tested? If not, ask for one...

Why are you locked up if “they” claim masks and social distancing works?


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Not sure where she is but in New Zealand and Australia, you have to quarantine for 14 days if you’ve traveled either internationally or in Australia across some of our borders.

Why don’t they test all arrivals to save people from being locked up/down and taking away their precious time and liberty?

It’s a 14 day turnaround when you can pass it so they quarantine the full 14 days and then do a second test. We have very small numbers here in Aus and in New Zealand even lower and want to keep it that way.

and on day 15 or 16 they think you're safe? who thought up the two week rule?

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The politicians in charge of each state are advised by the chief medical officers. It’s worked so far, as I said we have very low numbers and mortality rates.

We have guards, young army guys that sit outside to make sure you don’t go anywhere.

They used security guards in Melbourne a few months back but 1 of them slept with one of the guests and another cluster went around :/

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Oh the OP is a she?? Well bite my tongue

No, I don’t know.. twinkletoes just sounded to me like a female? Could be wrong lol

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Have you been tested? If not, ask for one...

Why are you locked up if “they” claim masks and social distancing works?


🥴

Not sure where she is but in New Zealand and Australia, you have to quarantine for 14 days if you’ve traveled either internationally or in Australia across some of our borders.

Why don’t they test all arrivals to save people from being locked up/down and taking away their precious time and liberty?

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It’s a 14 day turnaround when you can pass it so they quarantine the full 14 days and then do a second test. We have very small numbers here in Aus and in New Zealand even lower and want to keep it that way.

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Have you been tested? If not, ask for one...

Why are you locked up if “they” claim masks and social distancing works?


🥴

Not sure where she is but in New Zealand and Australia, you have to quarantine for 14 days if you’ve traveled either internationally or in Australia across some of our borders.

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Feel for you, there’s a quarantine hotel not far from my apartment. People were looking up there today as I was driving past so after I parked up I walked to have a look. 2 of the Windows people had decorated with a lonely heart we live between the Gold Coast beach and the canals so they had views but not balconies to enjoy the fresh air. Tbh, F*** that being stuck for 14 days!

One of my friends went into hotel quarantine a couple months back, his only saving grace was he was a smoker so could walk outside to smoke several times a day.

@PeakSoy have some empathy 👆🏾

i didn't think it would affect me as much, because i'm not an extrovert, but omj.... i forgot how bored i can get. i feel like our bosses are just piling on work to get us to forget about the problems going on around us. or maybe they are just doing that to keep themselves from thinking about it.

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Sign up to Netflix and watch a series that has 7 + series. There’s a few good ones If you need suggestions.

Feel for you, there’s a quarantine hotel not far from my apartment. People were looking up there today as I was driving past so after I parked up I walked to have a look. 2 of the Windows people had decorated with a lonely heart we live between the Gold Coast beach and the canals so they had views but not balconies to enjoy the fresh air. Tbh, F*** that being stuck for 14 days!

One of my friends went into hotel quarantine a couple months back, his only saving grace was he was a smoker so could walk outside to smoke several times a day.

@PeakSoy have some empathy 👆🏾

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Remember when busyeyes said she owned a business then it was revealed she had a business... plan filed In a cabinet somewhere 😅

Cat fishing dxpers 🤣🤣🤣

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Forever if it was meant to be.

Me too.
The heart wants what it wants!

Would you really? Hypothetically you’re in your 20’s and this guy that you love with all your heart can’t get his act together. Are you waiting around and passing your childbearing year for him?

Yes, because I want to adopt so that wouldn't change for me. I can't be with someone when my heart is not in it. Not fair to myself and to the person I'm seeing.

And you’d go to your grave alone if he never showed up??

I find that sad. There is more than 1 person in everyone’s lives. Letting life pass you by in the hope that one person gets their act together is IMO a waste of your potential future.

Why does one need a partner to live a filled life? To me that is even more sad.
I live already a happy, content and satisfactory life by myself and everything else is just bonus. Since I was young I've always wanted to adopt kids, even when single.
You fall in love with a person and their situation, and myself I wouldn't like to be just with anyone. And I'm sure me and my kids can have enough adventures by ourselves. Don't need a partner to do that with.
Sure I wouldn't stop seeing someone if the chemistry is there, but I wouldn't go out of my way dating people just because I want kids with a rando. No thanks.

Edit: there is more in life than relationships.

Definitely not saying you have to be with anyone or in a relationship, I’m saying if you are waiting on one person you’ve already closed yourself off to the possibility of someone that could be.

If I met a person that is so rare that it wouldn't be like that with anyone else, yeah I would wait if I know he would be there. In my experience, I did try, and it's just a waste of my time to be honest. Already thinking about it depresses me haha.

My old neighbour found the love of his life when young, had kids, lost her at a young age. He's in his 70s now and there never was another woman for him. Friends set him up with women, he was just so not interested.
I feel I'm the same as him.

My Aunt was the same, she remained single for 30 years and I always thought I’m going to be like her after my marriage ended. It’s now been 15 years and I’ve had a change of heart. I couldn’t just be with anyone either.

HEY! Why are you telling me I'm sad if you did the same thing in the first place? 😱

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You’re young, you learn lots with age. No regrets, just decided I what I thought I wanted I don’t anymore.

She died, 10 years ago true to her husband but you know that generation, the ones that lived through the Great Depression, most married once and once only.

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@sweethearts I saw your post before you deleted it. I went back to browse some of the 9th page because I don't have the time to thoroughly read them right now. Plus I'm busy drinking cold beers on this hot and steamy morning. But you bet I will read all of this when I get the time and patience. Why is everybody picking on whorpio?

Why are you drinking in the morning lol

Why not??

I just wanna know his reason

Vacation

Had a rough night

Is beer his breakfast drink

Is he at the beach

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An ISO Alchy like the rest of us?

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@sweethearts I saw your post before you deleted it. I went back to browse some of the 9th page because I don't have the time to thoroughly read them right now. Plus I'm busy drinking cold beers on this hot and steamy morning. But you bet I will read all of this when I get the time and patience. Why is everybody picking on whorpio?

Why are you drinking in the morning lol

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Why not??

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Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTown
Forever if it was meant to be.

Me too.
The heart wants what it wants!

Would you really? Hypothetically you’re in your 20’s and this guy that you love with all your heart can’t get his act together. Are you waiting around and passing your childbearing year for him?

Yes, because I want to adopt so that wouldn't change for me. I can't be with someone when my heart is not in it. Not fair to myself and to the person I'm seeing.

And you’d go to your grave alone if he never showed up??

I find that sad. There is more than 1 person in everyone’s lives. Letting life pass you by in the hope that one person gets their act together is IMO a waste of your potential future.

Why does one need a partner to live a filled life? To me that is even more sad.
I live already a happy, content and satisfactory life by myself and everything else is just bonus. Since I was young I've always wanted to adopt kids, even when single.
You fall in love with a person and their situation, and myself I wouldn't like to be just with anyone. And I'm sure me and my kids can have enough adventures by ourselves. Don't need a partner to do that with.
Sure I wouldn't stop seeing someone if the chemistry is there, but I wouldn't go out of my way dating people just because I want kids with a rando. No thanks.

Edit: there is more in life than relationships.

Definitely not saying you have to be with anyone or in a relationship, I’m saying if you are waiting on one person you’ve already closed yourself off to the possibility of someone that could be.

If I met a person that is so rare that it wouldn't be like that with anyone else, yeah I would wait if I know he would be there. In my experience, I did try, and it's just a waste of my time to be honest. Already thinking about it depresses me haha.

My old neighbour found the love of his life when young, had kids, lost her at a young age. He's in his 70s now and there never was another woman for him. Friends set him up with women, he was just so not interested.
I feel I'm the same as him.

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My Aunt was the same, she remained single for 30 years and I always thought I’m going to be like her after my marriage ended. It’s now been 15 years and I’ve had a change of heart. I couldn’t just be with anyone either.

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@sweethearts I saw your post before you deleted it. I went back to browse some of the 9th page because I don't have the time to thoroughly read them right now. Plus I'm busy drinking cold beers on this hot and steamy morning. But you bet I will read all of this when I get the time and patience. Why is everybody picking on whorpio?

I don’t know them? Just grabbed some popcorn with Ands. Enjoy your beers

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Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTown
Forever if it was meant to be.

Me too.
The heart wants what it wants!

Would you really? Hypothetically you’re in your 20’s and this guy that you love with all your heart can’t get his act together. Are you waiting around and passing your childbearing year for him?

Yes, because I want to adopt so that wouldn't change for me. I can't be with someone when my heart is not in it. Not fair to myself and to the person I'm seeing.

And you’d go to your grave alone if he never showed up??

I find that sad. There is more than 1 person in everyone’s lives. Letting life pass you by in the hope that one person gets their act together is IMO a waste of your potential future.

Why does one need a partner to live a filled life? To me that is even more sad.
I live already a happy, content and satisfactory life by myself and everything else is just bonus. Since I was young I've always wanted to adopt kids, even when single.
You fall in love with a person and their situation, and myself I wouldn't like to be just with anyone. And I'm sure me and my kids can have enough adventures by ourselves. Don't need a partner to do that with.
Sure I wouldn't stop seeing someone if the chemistry is there, but I wouldn't go out of my way dating people just because I want kids with a rando. No thanks.

Edit: there is more in life than relationships.

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Definitely not saying you have to be with anyone or in a relationship, I’m saying if you are waiting on one person you’ve already closed yourself off to the possibility of someone that could be.

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Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTown
Forever if it was meant to be.

Me too.
The heart wants what it wants!

Would you really? Hypothetically you’re in your 20’s and this guy that you love with all your heart can’t get his act together. Are you waiting around and passing your childbearing year for him?

Yes, because I want to adopt so that wouldn't change for me. I can't be with someone when my heart is not in it. Not fair to myself and to the person I'm seeing.

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And you’d go to your grave alone if he never showed up??

I find that sad. There is more than 1 person in everyone’s lives. Letting life pass you by in the hope that one person gets their act together is IMO a waste of your potential future.

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Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTown
Forever if it was meant to be.

Me too.
The heart wants what it wants!

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Would you really? Hypothetically you’re in your 20’s and this guy that you love with all your heart can’t get his act together. Are you waiting around and passing your childbearing year for him?

Is he married?

Don’t let him back in again, that one night was him using you and if you let him back in, he’ll continue to treat you this way... it still looks as though he had someone else and possibly was cheating to begin with.

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Any arrangement that increases my rep with women in general works for me.

The opposite is no good.

I agree with you that a great relationship is one that works to bring in abundance, in the legal, non-Epstein-Maxwell sense.

Oh lord 😂

Yeah no one underage either way.

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@tiziana why can’t I see your posts? Have you got me on block 😂

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What you find cute and adorable now about looking after him and how he doesn’t do all these things for himself will be your bone of contention in the end.

Not really the hole you should be digging for yourself!

I do all of these things for myself right now. If I ever lived with him, there’s no difference. Okay. More laundry. I love cleaning. I don’t think it’s a big deal. Especially after all he does do.

That is the same argument every other woman made in your shoes at the beginning in honeymoon phase. Fast forward 20 years... he leaves his clothes lying around and never puts it in the laundry, won’t put the toilet seat down, doesn’t help with the cleaning, uses the last of the milk, leaves an empty container in the fridge, I’m his wife not his mother blah blah blah

Heard it, seen it, done it.

You act like he doesn’t clean anything. He cleans some things. I’ve been dating him for 3 months and in his house every week and only last week noticed the two dirty rooms (bathroom and laundry) and closet.

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Honey, you do you.

All I’m saying is, it’s a recurring theme some 20 years later. Men will allow you to mother them, it’s one way to win them over being the domestic housewife.

However, if you accept that role then be happy to have that role forever and don’t complain later when there are children and he still doesn’t do anything to help and the children add on top.

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What you find cute and adorable now about looking after him and how he doesn’t do all these things for himself will be your bone of contention in the end.

Not really the hole you should be digging for yourself!

I do all of these things for myself right now. If I ever lived with him, there’s no difference. Okay. More laundry. I love cleaning. I don’t think it’s a big deal. Especially after all he does do.

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That is the same argument every other woman made in your shoes at the beginning in honeymoon phase. Fast forward 20 years... he leaves his clothes lying around and never puts it in the laundry, won’t put the toilet seat down, doesn’t help with the cleaning, uses the last of the milk, leaves an empty container in the fridge, I’m his wife not his mother blah blah blah

Heard it, seen it, done it.