What you find cute and adorable now about looking after him and how he doesn’t do all these things for himself will be your bone of contention in the end.

Not really the hole you should be digging for yourself!

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Posted by christinelovessnickers
And actually stayed faithful once you got married?

A friend of mine has cheated on her so since trey have been together. It's not my business, but we have talked about it. She told me she would stop if they ever got married.

I'm not sure ei believe that, but people do shit. Curious if anyone has been this way successfully.

What difference does it make if they're married or not if they're in a relationship they both agreed is exclusive?

Some couples never get married. Does it make it open season?

I cheated while in a relationship and I don't consider it any less a betrayal than had we been married.

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Maybe she is holding that as a carrot for him to propose and marry her. She might be one of those girls that just had to be married. They are the bridezillas you see, it’s all about the wedding day!

Posted by CuddleBug1288
I cheated on my ex (a Gem) once, after a too-drunken night out with a girl friend (she seen a couple dudes she was friends with n well, ope...Aqua caught my attention 😬😅🙈 and no not an excuse being drunk AF..) Told the ex a couple days after it happened.. was rocky for us for awhile but we were together like 5 years after that shit happened n no, never happened again.

That’s the difference with conscience levels, you fucked up, regretted it, came clean and took the punishment.

Then there are people that cheat hide it and don’t really regret. They continue because they aren’t held accountable until they are caught... then they are sorry and apologetic.

It’s all about a persons conscience, if your friend Is constantly cheating I personal doubt that’s going to stop because of marriage. It might for a little while but when things aren’t good she’ll revert back.

I always ask a guy that I’m interested in if he has cheated on anyone before I allow myself to get in too deep. I do think once a cheater, they can stray easier.

Posted by MyStarsShine
Murphy’s Law
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IKR??

There wasn’t anytime to actually say I wasn’t interested. 1 text just said how are you and the 2nd said you’re quiet?? I was trying to pick the moment without dragging anything out but also dreading it.

Anyway done now. He had his spat telling me I wasn’t a genuinely nice person. No need to answer that!

Posted by MyStarsShine
Is this the "dream" guy?

No, the dream guy was the Pisces.

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You almost lost me after Sunday tbh

Well young lady you have to learn that we men are the big alpha prize that keeps the world going and every woman has to chase us 24/7 otherwise we don't feel validated. You don't have to believe or care, just act as if you do. We're very sensitive, you know?

I'm going walking around the block now, good luck!

Ummm but when I chase as most of the ladies do around here we are told to sit there fuck down and be patient. Yet if I don’t chase im a player???

Judging by a comment you made later, you don't care much about him anyway. What does it matter whether he calls you a player? I guess he likes you more than you like him and he is upset. I am sure if you liked him, you would have texted him.^^

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No I don’t care much but I still feel like shit for it. Recently been in his shoes and it still cuts. Is it a man woman thing, I hurt his pride but the Pisces stabbed my heart? I should think like a man here

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Is this the pisces guy you were talking about earlier?

No, he’s the one that I want but even I didn’t go psycho when he wasn’t communicating. I met this Aries last week in person when I was out.

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So the guy I met and went out with last weekend, saw him on Sunday he texted me Tuesday night and I replied Wednesday, then he texted me tonight saying I was quiet (Friday) and I said I’ve had a lot going on but was at a rugby game tonight, then he lost his shit and pretty much told me I was a player lmao wtf??

On the other foot, if I did that to a guy, I’m told to chill the fuck out and be patient they need space. Don’t be too needy.

Is that Not double standards??? So ok for a guy to be all needy and expect a lady to throw themselves at them but as a women... wait until we want you!

Is he an Aries?
Just wondering..

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Yes

Posted by Arielle83
Anyone that comes on strong with demanding time/attention/money is not a sane person.

The problem is women put a man’s interest as the golden key to some sort of esteem issue in society.

She will give her time and attention, and her money, “if it’s promised to be retuned”, to a relatively attractive man that love bombs her or makes her feel special.

Once she grows independent and self sufficient, she can spot the bulls hi because se doesn’t need the validation attention.

Your date is insecure and needs the ego validation. He is most likely controlling to keep it.

Respect

On a side note, my girl visited and it went well, no issues we talked about m

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I had a dream of someone I had not spoken with since high school. A few months post-dream, they randomly reached out to me.

(cue in spooky music)

I love the precognitive/psychic dreams...so cool
😎

This recent dream I was with this person and then all of a sudden he got up and said, I can’t do this and walked away... any thoughts? I’m not sure whether that’s me feeling his thoughts or what???

I believe sometimes people speak to us through dreams .... it’s happened to me a few times

So......

Sad for Me then.

Yes it can be but sometimes it’s timely and you know sometimes by letting go, it makes room for different things to come in
❤️🤗

I like the way you think but right now I’ll keep manifesting and talking to him this way till I get bored with it and move on... probably will only last a couple weeks more lol it’s a learning curb

🙂
The way I think is born out of years of excruciating holding on to what I needed to let go of. Yes, carry on and see what happens and take note of any more dreams you may have and post them here?

Premonition dreams are few and far between, years sometimes

You can ask your unconscious mind to bring you some just before sleep....

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I’ll try that, probably not tonight. Had a few vino’s and I’ll probably just get sexual 😝

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I think he’s used to attention validation, but you showed him you’ve got stuff going on.

He assumes women are one dimensional and seek or need men that badly, and put them as a priority when dating.

Because you are less available than expected, he assumes another man took your sought out attention.

You’re a player because you didn’t put him on a pedestal. It’s all about his ego validation, so it’s a double standard with him because you need to value him giving you his time.

If you were available and chased him, he’d discard you or make you jump through hoops to prove your loyalty.

He’s a bum

Tbh, he is a nice guy just not my guy and I didn’t feel it. But in saying that after meeting twice and him only texting me twice, I didn’t feel he should blow up like that at me. I mean if it was the women blowing up after a very short time they would be told they are psycho and chill out

I’m sure he’s a psycho control freak just as well.

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Yes possibly, I got put off by a few things he said. I felt like he belittled my nationality and me a couple times and it didn’t sit right and if that is from 2 meetings.. imagine if I feel for him!

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Posted by Aria1
I had a dream of someone I had not spoken with since high school. A few months post-dream, they randomly reached out to me.

(cue in spooky music)

I love the precognitive/psychic dreams...so cool
😎

This recent dream I was with this person and then all of a sudden he got up and said, I can’t do this and walked away... any thoughts? I’m not sure whether that’s me feeling his thoughts or what???

I believe sometimes people speak to us through dreams .... it’s happened to me a few times

So......

Sad for Me then.

Yes it can be but sometimes it’s timely and you know sometimes by letting go, it makes room for different things to come in
❤️🤗

I like the way you think but right now I’ll keep manifesting and talking to him this way till I get bored with it and move on... probably will only last a couple weeks more lol it’s a learning curb

🙂
The way I think is born out of years of excruciating holding on to what I needed to let go of. Yes, carry on and see what happens and take note of any more dreams you may have and post them here?

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Premonition dreams are few and far between, years sometimes

Posted by Arielle83
I think he’s used to attention validation, but you showed him you’ve got stuff going on.

He assumes women are one dimensional and seek or need men that badly, and put them as a priority when dating.

Because you are less available than expected, he assumes another man took your sought out attention.

You’re a player because you didn’t put him on a pedestal. It’s all about his ego validation, so it’s a double standard with him because you need to value him giving you his time.

If you were available and chased him, he’d discard you or make you jump through hoops to prove your loyalty.

He’s a bum

Tbh, he is a nice guy just not my guy and I didn’t feel it. But in saying that after meeting twice and him only texting me twice, I didn’t feel he should blow up like that at me. I mean if it was the women blowing up after a very short time they would be told they are psycho and chill out

Posted by BlueStar
It’s just two different guys preferences. It’s not a rule.

Do your own style and find someone that doesn’t care about that shit or matches your style .

I understand you, but feel like shit because I’ve upset someone... the libra in me :/

Posted by TheSag
You almost lost me after Sunday tbh

Well young lady you have to learn that we men are the big alpha prize that keeps the world going and every woman has to chase us 24/7 otherwise we don't feel validated. You don't have to believe or care, just act as if you do. We're very sensitive, you know?

I'm going walking around the block now, good luck!

Love the young lady young man x typical sag, my ex. Great qualities for a leeb lady

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Posted by Aria1
I had a dream of someone I had not spoken with since high school. A few months post-dream, they randomly reached out to me.

(cue in spooky music)

I love the precognitive/psychic dreams...so cool
😎

This recent dream I was with this person and then all of a sudden he got up and said, I can’t do this and walked away... any thoughts? I’m not sure whether that’s me feeling his thoughts or what???

I believe sometimes people speak to us through dreams .... it’s happened to me a few times

So......

Sad for Me then.

Yes it can be but sometimes it’s timely and you know sometimes by letting go, it makes room for different things to come in
❤️🤗

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I like the way you think but right now I’ll keep manifesting and talking to him this way till I get bored with it and move on... probably will only last a couple weeks more lol it’s a learning curb

Posted by TheSag
You almost lost me after Sunday tbh

Well young lady you have to learn that we men are the big alpha prize that keeps the world going and every woman has to chase us 24/7 otherwise we don't feel validated. You don't have to believe or care, just act as if you do. We're very sensitive, you know?

I'm going walking around the block now, good luck!

Ummm but when I chase as most of the ladies do around here we are told to sit there fuck down and be patient. Yet if I don’t chase im a player???

Posted by WarAngel
This just confuses me.

Why?