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I had a dream of someone I had not spoken with since high school. A few months post-dream, they randomly reached out to me.

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I love the precognitive/psychic dreams...so cool
😎

This recent dream I was with this person and then all of a sudden he got up and said, I can’t do this and walked away... any thoughts? I’m not sure whether that’s me feeling his thoughts or what???

I believe sometimes people speak to us through dreams .... it’s happened to me a few times

So......

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Sad for Me then.

So the guy I met and went out with last weekend, saw him on Sunday he texted me Tuesday night and I replied Wednesday, then he texted me tonight saying I was quiet (Friday) and I said I’ve had a lot going on but was at a rugby game tonight, then he lost his shit and pretty much told me I was a player lmao wtf??

On the other foot, if I did that to a guy, I’m told to chill the fuck out and be patient they need space. Don’t be too needy.

Is that Not double standards??? So ok for a guy to be all needy and expect a lady to throw themselves at them but as a women... wait until we want you!

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Posted by Aria1
I had a dream of someone I had not spoken with since high school. A few months post-dream, they randomly reached out to me.

(cue in spooky music)

I love the precognitive/psychic dreams...so cool
😎

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This recent dream I was with this person and then all of a sudden he got up and said, I can’t do this and walked away... any thoughts? I’m not sure whether that’s me feeling his thoughts or what???

Posted by SagInTheSun898
Why isn't he the one?

I don’t feel it and I’ve felt it before and that’s what I’m looking for again. I’m not settling... my “one” is close, I know that much

I might say and think I was going to wait around but you know, another piece of cake comes around I probably gonna have a piece. Who knows, it might taste better

Posted by exoskeleton_
could be simply a dream. could be someone sending you love or wanking off to you.

That’s hot!!!

Posted by MyStarsShine
@sweethearts

One of the strongest precognitive dreams I experienced was about a man I saw who was faceless dressed in a black leather jacket, black jeans, long hair ... the dream lasted for a few nights but stopped when I met him. We went on to marry and have a son together. He told me he was dreaming about me at the same time

The power of the mind hey?

Wow! That’s awesome, had you actually been manifesting him as well?

One I clearly remember years ago was about my “sweetheart” I was climbing stairs to him, he was at the top calling to me but I couldn’t get to him as there were missing steps the closer I got and making it harder and harder. I never reached him... his mother also appeared there with him.

She didn’t like me much, we were so young when we were together. Every time we tried to be together later in life there was always something stopping us, I was married, then when I was free and meet up again he was about to move to another city with a gf, then eventually cancer.. so yes I believe some can be premonitions.

Posted by brianafay
This always seemed to happen with Cap men in the past

And I was like please stop 🛑 ✋

I wouldn’t have any attraction or romantic interest in them but would have straight up sexual dreams

It was quite honestly really disturbing

Yes!! The dream itself at the time is very satisfying but when you wake and realise who it was.... ugh gross that I was enjoying it lmao

Posted by GemiAwesomeAss

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Dreams ARE NOT prediction of future
BUT
REFLECTION of past.

So please stop being silly.

My mum’s side of the family had predictive dreams...births, deaths, marriages etc. I’ve had them too so they can happen....

They thought about it one time or another so it materialized one moment. I can say I had one as well...I’ve seen something we aren’t supposed to se BUT we really don’t know IF I saw what I THINK IVE SEEN...

How can you see predictive dream of birth?
Or death? Or marriage?

Dreams happen. Then event happen and we are trying to be like ‘omg...THATS what my dream was about!’
No hon. Your dream was about what happened before...you haven’t seen nothing COMING...trust me.

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So how do you explain déjà vu? I feel I’m quite intuitive and I experience déjà vu all the time!

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Yes. In my mind, he was the love of my life and I became the person that I am mostly because of him.

Are you together?

No he died but we had time together before he did some 20 years after

Too sad he had to die...

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I’m happy that I got to share a little part of him before he did. Tbh, if he didn’t, we wouldn’t have made it. He was cancer, me leeb. I can live with the fairy tale

Posted by GemiAwesomeAss
Dreams ARE NOT prediction of future
BUT
REFLECTION of past.

So please stop being silly.

Not being silly love, just trying to understand because they can be so random. I’ve dreamt of people I know that I haven’t thought about ever yet somehow they come into my dream, not continuously. Then I remember dreaming of my ex-husband and it was sexual. That grossed me out and I remember he was not in my mind in a daily basis, so wtf?

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Yes. In my mind, he was the love of my life and I became the person that I am mostly because of him.

Are you together?

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No he died but we had time together before he did some 20 years after

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
Ooooooooo I’ve been watching TikToks about this! Someone is trying to cast a spell or manifest you.

What if I’m the one manifesting?

Yes. In my mind, he was the love of my life and I became the person that I am mostly because of him.

Dreaming about someone that is in your real life or someone you actually know. What does it mean? Do you think they are premonitions or that for some reason your subconscious mind has thought of them? How serious do you take these dreams?

My gut would say he’s talking to the ex.. purely gut instinct off your story

I have a fake name on tinder but I always tell them my real one as soon as we talk. Never had any problem with it. In fact they mostly ask why I chose that name... it’s an old fashion name.

On the other site, it’s my real one.

I just wasn’t sure about tinder and it’s reputation, but you also can’t change your name once you’ve opened the account.

Posted by peachy06
I'll answer when I find the answer, since I've been struggling with this pattern as well.

It’s shit hey? I just want to connect and feel that connection. I feel like, I shouldn’t date because I do know almost instantly when there is something for me and then..... it isn’t there enough for them :/ so frustrating, because the rejection cuts.

Posted by Logger
You nailed the biggest challenge in life, in dating.
In any relationship, 90% of the time, one or the other is settling to some degree. Just the way it is.

Not interested in settling at this point in my life, I’m ready for “the one” just hate that feeling when you have to be the one to say, doesn’t feel right. I’d normally cop out like the guys around this board do and not contact for days leaving them guessing. Recently been on that side and it feels like shit!! (The one I wanted) so I don’t want to put anyone through that.

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Posted by Chuckcem
Don't waste your time if you are not interested. It's unfair to both of you. It sounds like this guy has his life together, so give him the space to find someone who suits him.

That’s where my head’s at.

So how would you prefer to be told?

Get a drink. Trust me. You’ll decide what’s what next day...

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Funny enough Gem, we went for a walk along the beach and I had my hair up and he put his hand around the back of my neck. So I asked, what does that mean? Gave him a brief that it was talked about on a site. To him, he’s taller and it was more an affectionate resting place. Ok? Didn’t make me feel uncomfortable.