I'm actually down for whatever it leads to.

Posted by saggurl88
Cancer Moon
Scorpio Venus
Leo Mars

Clean teeth, sexual magnetism, passionate. I like attractive men that stare at you in silence and you feel naked in front of them, but only if I'm attracted to them. Otherwise they are just creeps.

Must shower daily and have good manscaping abilities. I like a good sense of humor too.

@saggurl88

Can I outsource the manscaping to you?

@stillstillwater

holy shit. is that you in your profile pic? ... you wanna grab a drink sometime

@TheTinMan

oh sorry bro. I was talking about women generally being skeptical up front. not after knowing me. They don't believe genuine interest all the time.

I'm generally seen as attractive and due to my pedigree just well spoken and educated. then my clothes come off and they go oh I didn't know you were hiding that.

I have noticed during the summer I tend to get more attention as I am wearing less.

LMAO

*that is all*

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AND I'm not African American.... I'm American, I was born here.

i was born here too but i never felt like this was truly my country, and as i became older and learned more about my people history, i'd never say that im just "American"

im sure the natives of this country would agree as well

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... now that position I can understand because. there is a good bit of this country scared of us for no damn reason and some that just don't want us here.


I was having a conversation about Chicago the other day... I had a meeting there and my white friend was like be careful. I knew he was being nice. and I said "man, I'll be downtown I'm not crazy enough to go into that war zone in the south side."

People just hear the media and just blanket talk about stuff. the killings in Chicago are gang-beefs and collateral black lives in the hood. you want them to do something about the violence it needs to creep deeper into the city, right now its just casualties of war.

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I see hellosaggy has put his pic on his avatar...

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pics or gtfo

All you 40 somehting jealous people who liked this comment should be shamed of yourself for ever doubting him, shame on you

If a sag says he is sexy, then he is sexy!!!

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bahahaha... I need some sags on my team @TheSag!

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Posted by hellosaggy
Why do women avoid the universally sexy/hot guys. we have education,wit, and humor too. Is it because you don't want to maintain a level of appearance throughout the relationship to keep his attention? we love just like the rest of you. if we love you we aren't going to cheat.

I think for me this is exactly it. I only maintain a society accepted level of appearance in order to snag a man. Once I can manage to achieve such an onerous task I will cease to perform any sort of grooming task on myself because what the fuck for?

It's a no brainer.

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I knew someone would be honest! My friend's wife acts like she broke her leg in a chocolate factory and just survived off of engorging herself on chocolate... no kids.. yes she works, but why you go and get fat though. I yelled at him the other day because I wanted him to come with me to the gym to give her some motivation since he's too scared to tell her something... I definitely ain't saying shit... her macaroni and cheese is the bomb.

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@chuckcem and @Ixion

i ask you to break this one down in a historical context manner

thanks.

Simple it all boils down to one word, slavery.

How very sad that ppl like to start African history at slavery.
Africa itself has been diverse long before the european/Arabic slave trade... so to blame slavery is absurd...

True. Africans were enslaving Africans long before Europeans landed on their shore.

So not slavery. Colonialism

We're talking about the AMERICAS not AFRICA

okay this is a problem in USA not in AFRICA

so yes it starts at SLAVERY

get your thought process together Sister.

The thread topic: Rivalry between lighter skinned black women and darker skinned black women

THIS TOPIC IS FOR USA AND USA ALONE

THERE ARE NO RIVALRIES BETWEEN SISTERS IN AFRICA BASED ON SKIN COLOR

ZERO

Wasn't there an apartheid in West Africa until a minute ago?

It don't matter, that wasn't even my point.

Point is things went to shit once Europeans decided they were entitled to the rest of the world.

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are you saying... in summation... elitist white people ruined everything? lol.

Posted by Gems4life
I'm not going to judge. I get you sex is usually important for alot of people, I had sex with a guy and it was bad... I really thought it would be good and when it turned out to be bad I was really turned off. Sex is important however what you need is to build a friendship so when you do have sex and it's bad you'll stick arounf and TEACH. If you guide someone then I'm telling you, the sex can be great you've just got to learn and to be the teacher at the same time. People aren't mind readers.

Now I think you wanting her friend is wrong but so is her friend. Her friend sounds like a bit of a ... skank? If that's the right word. Friends don't do that to each other but hey ho. Just don't go there. I wish you all of the luck in the world with the cap but know this- If you don't have somethign she wants she will probably move on from you really fast, Capricorn woman don't fudge around.

Cap called me and wants to go out tonight due to her schedule with her working weekends. I'm dead tired, but I will go out as she asked... I have to get up to go to work in the morning! argh. but I'll do it for her

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No. dark skinned (mainly black women)... are tagged as being "Undesirable" ... due to hair, complexion, and their facial features.

Everybody loves their physical shape, its where the eyes go to first and the overall complexion, that a lot of people don't get past.

but, its funny... everybody wants fuller lips (I personally prefer full lips), a nice ass, and boobs....and to be tan.... just not as dark as black (chocolate) woman....

Speaking of which, I hate the term black anyway. I RARELY meet someone the color of Black... I'm dark brown.... I always hated that.

AND I'm not African American.... I'm American, I was born here.

Lol at your last comment. Sounds like you're carrying some insecurities there little buddy. Lol America is full of people with many different national origins. You are a national ...meaning thats your citizenship its not your ethnicity LOL

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And you are wrong little guy.... African-American is a delineation tagged to someone who was born in AFRICA and became a citizen here hence - AFRICAN-America..... do you see European American, Asian American on the census.... learn your shit please.

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@saggurl88 You saying you breaking up with @aquarius_man already?

shortest internet relationship everrrrrrrr

Where's CC at?? 👀

And he hasn't said any racist remarks to me lol

Let him fly me to Europe and say it to my face! 😜

Quit following my virtual relationship with my virtual husband!! 😂😂😂

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I'm trying to get in between you two.... make you mine girl! *licking lips like LL Cool J*

@saggurl88 You saying you breaking up with @aquarius_man already?

shortest internet relationship everrrrrrrr

@CaramelizedCoffee

Leave my head alone! That's why I'm so smart!

and @Drunksecs the 'message boards' link is running across the top in the header whenever you get a chance to click it.

@Adreamuponwaking

You can simply remove yourself from the conversation.

I don't understand why people feel the need to moderate a conversation they aren't forced to be apart of in the first place.

Since you decided to contribute your unsolicited opinion... What and where exactly is a "safe" place to have a thread discussing this? since you are offering a suggestion with no solution.

Just excuse yourself.

I haven't seen it as a whole population. I've seen some make snarky comments towards darker ladies, but it might have been personal... but isn't that the first petty thing people talk ish about? how someone looks personally? so it becomes a self-fulfilled stereotype I suppose.

Most of the white people I know want to be tanned *shrugs*

It's all I ever hear... "oh I need some sun" .... I never really hear a white american say... OH I wish I was paler

I have an Irish decendant friend who hisses at the sun when we are out because she burns lol.


Funny story. I was in Miami on beach with my ex playing volley ball for a few hours... We got back to hotel and I had gotten darker... she was like "I didn't know you got darker than that" LMAO. it was cute.

lmao

@earthgoddess

light skinned girls do play the superiority complex LMAO you had to be joking on that one!

Oh I've seen some lazy af people in portugal.... they are really all over the world. its a human trait not an ethnic trait.